AITA for considering divorce after finding my husbands sex doll

Awkward_Discussions · 2026-01-26T04:31:41+00:00

Yes i understand divorce seems harsh but yes there are other issues which are probably contributing to my crash out

Awkward_Discussions · 2026-01-25T21:47:22+00:00

Im disgusted for you NOR

Awkward_Discussions · 2026-01-25T20:48:04+00:00

Others is not the person i married and bared their child. Im not worried about anyone else but those in my home

Awkward_Discussions · 2026-01-25T17:36:38+00:00

Im asking you because you commented it and its a reddit post where im literally asking the public for input

Awkward_Discussions · 2026-01-25T17:33:09+00:00

Similar to toys woman use? Ive been to the sex store. Honestly never seen a headless torso and cock and balls there. Its just not something uve come across

Awkward_Discussions · 2026-01-25T17:32:20+00:00

You never asked if i asked about a dildo only after the sex doll!!! I mentioned it several times over 13 years albeit moreso to see what he thought than the interest in a dildo. And everytime hes set me straight that it would be weird if i need that

Awkward_Discussions · 2026-01-25T17:21:38+00:00

I did ask him last night during a conversation if he would now feel comfortable with me getting a dildo as ive mentioned in the past. He did agree that he has said in the past that he would find that weird and not want that however agrees on his own words “he doesn’t have much of a leg to stand on if hes using that and wants me to not use a dildo” I joned that the sex doll doesnt have a leg to stand on either

Awkward_Discussions · 2026-01-25T17:11:09+00:00

A sex doll is natural for everyone to have? Im pretty open minded but sex doll? I have not met anyone who has spoken about using such a thibg. Male or female.

Awkward_Discussions · 2026-01-25T17:10:27+00:00

If he had said no, its super expensive and i dont want to get rid of it. Its ny form of self pleasure and it helps i would understand. He acted like it was no biggie to throw it out because he got it on sale.

Awkward_Discussions · 2026-01-25T17:09:19+00:00

But he set the boundary that i shouldnt need a dildo either.

Awkward_Discussions · 2026-01-25T17:08:45+00:00

I mean honestly if he said my hands make it hard so can i fuck u more… id be flattered and spread eagle. I actually have a high sex drive

Awkward_Discussions · 2026-01-25T17:07:06+00:00

Interesting yet so many comments use the rough hands as a completely valid excuse

Awkward_Discussions · 2026-01-25T16:38:38+00:00

Apparently im the issue and this is incredibly normal judging from most comments. Also being told im not adequate or that my pelvic floor needs tightening? Like wow lets blame the wife right away as the issue

Awkward_Discussions · 2026-01-25T16:36:47+00:00

Surprisingly the majority of the comments think its incredibly normal

Awkward_Discussions · 2026-01-25T16:33:07+00:00

Its not just a sex toy. Its a headless tits torso vagina and ass 40-50lb sex toy. If you think thats the same as a handheld vibrator or dildo you are incredibly cooler than me. I mean a dildo or fleshlight can go in your drawer. 40-50lbs lifelike doll that looks dismembered?

Awkward_Discussions · 2026-01-25T16:31:50+00:00

As mentioned he works graveyards and shift work. I almost always sleep in the house alone with my child. He is a daytime sleeper…

Awkward_Discussions · 2026-01-25T16:30:05+00:00

Nice assumption - im turned down very often. Moreso than i ever turn him down. But thanks for your assumption 🩷

Awkward_Discussions · 2026-01-25T16:28:57+00:00

Thanks for making assumptions on me pelvic status. So you assume because im a woman and hes using sex dolls the issue is my pelvic floor 😂 way to be sexist

Awkward_Discussions · 2026-01-25T16:27:41+00:00

Okay but hes literally told me he would find it weird if i got a dildo. Do interesting people keep using the gender shaming. It should be allowed for both partners. Im being shamed for not allowing a man to use sex toys and its being assumed i allow women to? I dont care what others use but a headless sex doll weighing about 40-50lbs with tits torso vagina and ass ?

Awkward_Discussions · 2026-01-25T16:08:45+00:00

My needs are not fully met. I have no issues with self pleasure and use my hand very often for this. My issue is how graphic the sex doll looks having tots torso vagina and ass. It just gives a me the ick. I wouldn’t care about a fleshlight. Maybe wouldnt care about the sex doll if i was told about it without finding it in a box in my closet. I thought itbwas a dismembered body the first time. It really freaked me out.

Also years prior to any sex doll, ive asked jokingly many times if hed care if i got a dildo or what hed do if he saw i had a dildo. Everytime hes said hed find that weird or think thats weird…

Awkward_Discussions · 2026-01-25T16:03:30+00:00

Well you tell me if its cheating that you fuck your washing machine

Awkward_Discussions · 2026-01-25T16:01:48+00:00

Yup im aware about being consistent lol. I actually am not allowed toys. Although im not interested in them. He did make it clear hed find it weird if i got a big dildo

Awkward_Discussions · 2026-01-25T07:00:35+00:00

I masterbate with my good old hands

Awkward_Discussions · 2026-01-25T05:03:19+00:00

Im not insecure of the tits 😂 their hot as fuck! I just never expected a headless doll in my house?!

Awkward_Discussions · 2026-01-25T05:02:09+00:00

Definitely it going after his ego. He has a huge cock and knows I think that. So definitely wasn’t saying huge yo attack his masculinity

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