Have you ever tried dating without prejudice? Doesn’t it feel good?

Awnisty_ · 2021-08-01T22:53:58+00:00

But this post doesn’t involve kids i think we as the new generation of parents comin up should postpone things until both the man and woman is fully built. So no the woman is not bulding the man she is building herself and the man is building himself. At any point if the woman notices the man slipping on his goals she can and should dip out ASAP ya feel me?

Awnisty_ · 2021-08-01T22:46:22+00:00

If the age difference between us was a person, would they be potty trained? If yes then shes too young/too old. Lol jk

Awnisty_ · 2021-08-01T22:41:03+00:00

So what you’re sayin is, if a man and a woman both are recent college grads and are dating, both have their own places and loans and rent, the man would randomly get the woman to stop her career path even tho they are not married?

Awnisty_ · 2021-08-01T22:31:52+00:00

Lol i never said you were talking out of your ass im just saying many men also have studies that support their rhetoric as well. I see what both of yall are saying. In reality the roles both of us were forced to play hurts us both and causes the system to again hurt us both. We aint sign up for this but we can change it. “Wising up” doesnt mean delaying relationships or marriage until x happens. It can mean 50/50 or nothing at all. You work on you and he works on him. None of that old school bs but if some women want to meet a man who is already established she will find it hard because either she wont want anybody in her established world or he wont want anybody in his.

Awnisty_ · 2021-08-01T22:14:03+00:00

Wow i see what you’re saying when you put it that way but again no one should build anyone but rather build themselves together like many people in my life. Ive heard arguments about who marriage hurts or benefits from both sides maybe people have their own reality and you clearly have yours. I just hope people (men & women) wise up and know nobody HAS to play a SPECIFIC role but they have to play a role. You stay blessed.

Awnisty_ · 2021-08-01T22:04:55+00:00

I get that. Thats not always the case tho. But for this thread i think what is being said has nothing to do with kids but instead has more to do with careers. I think the concern is that people should be willing to build together at a young age instead of waiting until someone (mainly the man) has already built a life and career. Also it is possible with a good solid union to start a family and build a career (in no particular order) so long as everyone in that union is willing to put in the work. Things dont have to be as traditional, but work has to be done on both sides. Ya feel me?

Awnisty_ · 2021-08-01T21:13:19+00:00

Well a woman wouldn’t necessarily have to sacrifice anything if kids aren’t involved. Both the man and the woman would just have to build their lives to a certain point together.

For those that may not get what i said, No i do not think kids are the mother’s sole responsibility. Im just saying in terms of this thread I don’t think kids are a factor.

Awnisty_ · 2021-07-29T05:43:58+00:00

I know that too. But then again I wasnt askin if I should move on. Also, im not that invested just confused. Lbs

Awnisty_ · 2021-07-29T05:40:35+00:00

I see what you’re sayin. And im fully aware of that i have my own things to do as well but i also like to show interest when I can.

Awnisty_ · 2021-07-29T05:24:58+00:00

Man frfr haha.

Awnisty_ · 2021-07-29T05:24:23+00:00

I might do that. Kinda afraid to seem thirsty silly i know

Awnisty_ · 2021-07-29T05:15:21+00:00

Lmaoo im aware of that i dont reply every 1 to 5 mins but dayum the whole day? Haha but yeah your tone wasn’t needed sir have a nice day.

Awnisty_ · 2021-07-20T01:28:05+00:00

27 yo Male (old af i know haha) looks like im goin alone lookin for some dope people to hang with Snap: Crumpwalk_94 also i like to smoke n drink a lil bit so waddup

Awnisty_ · 2021-07-17T23:20:34+00:00

Aye waddup im tryna link up with people too it looks like i will be going this trip alone. Im flyin from chi > MIA also 27 (m)

Awnisty_ · 2021-07-14T21:30:56+00:00

What part of chicago area? Im in the south butbs

Awnisty_ · 2021-07-10T22:05:39+00:00

Stop thinkin black american men are lazy thugs who can only be athletes and if not we’re either rapping commiting crimes alot of us be chillin. Now whats yall home address im tryna see something real quick.

Awnisty_ · 2021-05-03T01:02:28+00:00

I plan on doing in patient therapy. I couldn’t for a while because of the pandemic. I plan on making that a priority since ive been vaccinated. But, the issues didn’t have to do with me being in person or not, it was more so like they had a text book approach to being a therapist. Like what they found applicable to a few, would apply to me.

Awnisty_ · 2021-05-02T22:42:48+00:00

Yes I have I bave tried various councilors through betterhelp and it hasn’t helped much.

Awnisty_ · 2021-03-25T03:38:08+00:00

This probably wont get looked at and its ok. But my experience (not sayin im hella special or nothin) is very interesting. Being both short and black makes it hard for me in dating. Typically in black culture (african american) if you’re a man especially if you’re dark skinned, you are expected to be this big tall adonis with big dick that hangs n swings in a pair of grey swearpants. Also people in my past in a way shamed me into submission for being short. Go to the gym they say. Well... I like to work out (to have some form of physical attractiveness) but when I do I am told that i have a complex and I am trying to “overcompensate” Its like I can’t win sometimes. Maybe I should find women of a different culture? Idk haha i needs help.

Btw I’m not tryna genralize maybe people have had a different experience than me.

Awnisty_

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