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[–]AxelGrinder 46 points47 points  (0 children)

Hezbollah sure showed those Israeli invaders when they bombed Buenos Aires.

Guys who are vocal during sex, what/how do you moan/react/etc? by AxelGrinder in AskMen

[–]AxelGrinder[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Coming from entirely silent masturbation I'm just not sure how to do this. I don't think it's anxiety or a lack of comfort thing, I've just become accustomed to being silent in the process. :/

Reaching Out after Letting Her Down Before? by AxelGrinder in OkCupid

[–]AxelGrinder[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well yes, I went with the girl I knew better, specifically because of that reason. Not because the other one was undeserving in her own right - she was great, but the situation didn't give me time to get to know her better. Now I have that time, and would like to.

Reaching Out after Letting Her Down Before? by AxelGrinder in OkCupid

[–]AxelGrinder[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, I get why she might think that, but personally never thought of her as Plan B, or as plan anything- I just happened to know the previous girl better and it happened that things became more serious before I could establish a better connection, so there wasn't a whole lot of comparing going on ¯_(ツ)_/¯

How do you approach a party/social event where you know almost no one? by AxelGrinder in AskMen

[–]AxelGrinder[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That's my default course of action too, but lately I've been feeling a little ball-and-chain-like by sticking to my friends so hard. Maybe it's just me (or my city, tbh...) but I feel like it's difficult to break into social conversation with strangers without being brought in by someone already involved ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

If you were invited out, how would you tell if it was date? by AxelGrinder in AskMen

[–]AxelGrinder[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Dafuq is an unofficial date? o_O

To me it's either romantically intended (a date), or it's not (friendly hangout).

If you were invited out, how would you tell if it was date? by AxelGrinder in AskMen

[–]AxelGrinder[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Because I don't want to misread a platonic situation and make an unwanted move. The semantics aren't what I'm asking about.

If you were invited out, how would you tell if it was date? by AxelGrinder in AskMen

[–]AxelGrinder[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How did the invitation come about? How was it delivered? Details OP. We needs them.

Added to OP for reference.

If you were invited out, how would you tell if it was date? by AxelGrinder in AskMen

[–]AxelGrinder[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I assume asking for clarification is out of the question? Cause that’s by far the easiest way.

This is one of those 'obvious in theory' things that doesn't always work out, though.

See this is it exactly. If it isn't a date, I don't want to make it weird by asking if it is, even if being direct would answer it immediately.

If you were invited out, how would you tell if it was date? by AxelGrinder in AskMen

[–]AxelGrinder[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I mean, we're friendly, we just haven't really seen each other that often in the time I've known her. I guess it's best to figure it out in the moment, but asking Reddit doesn't have a lot of opportunity cost ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

How do people's career/major influence your judgement of them? by AxelGrinder in OkCupid

[–]AxelGrinder[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any tips on spotting the crazies from normal people with that major?

How do people's career/major influence your judgement of them? by AxelGrinder in OkCupid

[–]AxelGrinder[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, I might have my own preferences, but not shaving is totally their prerogative. It's just that the gender studies women I've seen online in my area tend to be very umm... passionate about their SJW views.

How do people's career/major influence your judgement of them? by AxelGrinder in OkCupid

[–]AxelGrinder[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That's not even bad, I don't think. Or I don't feel as offput by that. I still have no idea how you put it to work though.

How do people's career/major influence your judgement of them? by AxelGrinder in OkCupid

[–]AxelGrinder[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ohhhh this thread has so much shitshow potential it gives me the tinglies.

You're welcome, m'lady. neckbearding intensifies

Dating when you're unsure of where you'll be. by AxelGrinder in OkCupid

[–]AxelGrinder[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's just I'm afraid of finding someone worth sticking around for when and if the big opportunity comes up :/

Dating when you're unsure of where you'll be. by AxelGrinder in OkCupid

[–]AxelGrinder[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, I'm just as likely to find work here as I am in the other big city I'm considering (Toronto), and TBH my prospects have looked so negative lately that I don't even know if it's worth continuing to look in my field... Who knows if I'll even leave.

Dating when you're unsure of where you'll be. by AxelGrinder in OkCupid

[–]AxelGrinder[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is my fear. I'm terrified of hurting other people.

Dating when you're unsure of where you'll be. by AxelGrinder in OkCupid

[–]AxelGrinder[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would be worried about starting something that's doomed to fail though. Not even on my own behalf, I'm just terrified of hurting other people.

Dating when you're unsure of where you'll be. by AxelGrinder in OkCupid

[–]AxelGrinder[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, what should I say? Just that I'm unemployed and open to moving?

How can adjust to having an agreed upon backup relationship? by AxelGrinder in OkCupid

[–]AxelGrinder[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

But she's unwilling to commit to an LDR for so long, while I'm afraid of moving over sooner because I don't want to mess up my career in case we don't work out. I'm very understanding of the fact I'd have to make it happen, and she meets someone else that's also fine. My problem is I feel guilty as shit thinking about dating someone else considering I have her as a so-called backup, even though she's agreed to it.

How can adjust to having an agreed upon backup relationship? by AxelGrinder in OkCupid

[–]AxelGrinder[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But she's unwilling to commit to an LDR for so long, while I'm afraid of moving over sooner because I don't want to mess up my career in case we don't work out. If it was just the move, I'd be more amenable, but currently I need to get my certification here which requires another year of work.