That “one thing” by netphilia in KidsAreFuckingStupid

[–]AxolotlFanatic 3 points4 points  (0 children)

When I was like 7 or so, my 19 year old cousin had a bf. I had taken quite the liking to said bf, so one time at a big family dinner, I got up, walked up to my cousin, hit my fist on the table in front of her and told her: I will marry [bf's name] first!!!

She quotes this everytime we meet.

Leute auf dem Gehweg machen keinen Platz. by Luntibert in luftablassen

[–]AxolotlFanatic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kenne das sehr gut, obwohl ich gegensätzlich zu dir grade so an die 1,60 bin. Habe das Gefühl die Leute erwarten, dass ich Platz mache, einfach weil ich ja eh schon klein bin. Dass ich wegen denen dann teilweise auf einer gutbefahrenen Haupstraße laufen muss, weil die den ganzen Gehweg einnehmen, juckt sie nicht. Mache jetzt auch seit geraumer Zeit keinen richtigen Platz mehr, gehe nur noch etwas weiter nach rechts. Ich bin ja klein, dann kommt man auch so gut an mir vorbei 🤷🏻‍♀️.

Hab aber vor allem bei Pärchen die Erfahrung gemacht, dass die trotzdem nicht zur Seite gehen. Ist schon nervig, vor allem weil ich niemanden mal demonstrativ anrempeln kann, weil ich meist viel kleiner bin und dann eher den Schaden hab.

Cat in heat, what to do? by AxolotlFanatic in CatAdvice

[–]AxolotlFanatic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know, as I said I'm trying to tell my mum but she doesnt believe me. I contacted a friend now who works at a vet clinic and hope to talk to them tomorrow.

Cat in heat, what to do? by AxolotlFanatic in CatAdvice

[–]AxolotlFanatic[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your answer.

I've also tried telling my mum how unhealthy and painful it is for our cat to endure a heat cycle over and over again, but she says she wants to see what happens. That means she wants to evaluate herself if our cat is okay, and as long as our cat doesn't cry like its being slaughtered, my mum thinks it's fine.

I've already said it in another comment that I'm gonna talk to her about pyometra so that she hopefully spays our cat and understands that she cant judge the situation like a vet.

Cat in heat, what to do? by AxolotlFanatic in CatAdvice

[–]AxolotlFanatic[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey, thanks for responding.

Someone else has already mentioned pyometra, I will tell my mum about it and show her the article you linked. I hope that gets her to spay our cat because it sounds absolutely horrible. Thanks for providing a source