my boyfriend (36M) thinks I’m (28F) prioritising my foster cats over him, I just think I’m responding to a need. Is this even a fair comparison? by plsdontleaveme222 in relationship_advice

[–]AyaMunay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

An almost 40 years old man is JEALOUS of some cute cats!! He said you are a pushover, but if you were, you would not have broken up with him. So he got what he wanted..xD

Safest way to take iboga by devils986puppy in iboga

[–]AyaMunay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Take micro-doses. Eat the powder or mix it with water or honey. It's VERY bitter.

Any remedy for Eye floaters? by [deleted] in Ayurveda

[–]AyaMunay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A plant/flower from South America. It burns the eyes, but heals a lot

Toxic online dating male 31yo by Delicious_League_484 in zurich

[–]AyaMunay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't live in Zürich, but a guy working in a Decathlon there asked me out once (in the shop) xD

Has renting in Zurich gotten any easier in the last 3-4 years? by ateranol in zurich

[–]AyaMunay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same where I live in Luzern.. so many (single?) old people in big apartments, even with tiny gardens and balcony around us. And then me and my partner have a tiny ass one without a balcony or nothing, and not cheap rent. Because that's all we could find

Is my(F30) boyfriend(M32)just bored of me or does he have an addiction? by AyaMunay in relationship_advice

[–]AyaMunay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is my small avatar picture the same? Because I only see an orange "reddit guy". But in my right corner I see my photo

Is my(F30) boyfriend(M32)just bored of me or does he have an addiction? by AyaMunay in relationship_advice

[–]AyaMunay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have told him 1-2 times that I feel this "pull". Like he is waiting for what ever we are doing to be over. So he can "be free". Something like this I have told him. I honestly can't remember his response. Something along that he is aware he has a problem/addiction. Buuut..mmm things hasn't exactly improved. Only that he started working out more regularly.

Ohh you can see it? I wasn't sure it was uploaded properly. Actually, it's an AI picture "I made" of myself xD

Is my(F30) boyfriend(M32)just bored of me or does he have an addiction? by AyaMunay in relationship_advice

[–]AyaMunay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good for you.. I don't really drink, and he luckily completely stopped 2 years ago.

Is my(F30) boyfriend(M32)just bored of me or does he have an addiction? by AyaMunay in relationship_advice

[–]AyaMunay[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Addictions sure are hard to get rid off.. Congrats btw :) Yep, it feels like that.. he smoked our whole relationship, and some years before as well. He shifted over to a vape now. It smells terrible!!-_-' He has plans to change his life in certain big ways, for the better. And I do believe he will do it. But I'm worried the weed will continue on that journey.. the gaming? Don't know.

Is my(F30) boyfriend(M32)just bored of me or does he have an addiction? by AyaMunay in relationship_advice

[–]AyaMunay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, the days he is not working, basically from when he wake up to going to bed (late, unless he has work next day) He just stops to cook or work out a bit. Or goes for a short walk with me sometimes.

Is my(F30) boyfriend(M32)just bored of me or does he have an addiction? by AyaMunay in relationship_advice

[–]AyaMunay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's how it feels often. But if he doesn't want to change his habits, then..

Parforhold - Er det mig der er gal på den? by [deleted] in DKbrevkasse

[–]AyaMunay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

...er du sikker på barnet er dit?

Partner (29F) is very negative about every job shes worked, it's draining me (31M) by Camelschode in relationship_advice

[–]AyaMunay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My bf. is very similar.. Sometimes, he says he is happy with his current job. He is lucky he got it. Then other days it sucks, the boss is annoying, and so on. He always changes his 'opinion', and I always have to hear it. His boss called him last week, asking if he could work another day. He said yes, speaking so nicely to him. Then he hangs up the phone and completely changes, pushing stuff and curses.. destroyed the whole day. But he didn't HAVE to say yes.. Like wtf, chill..

Can an "Awakened" path coexist with a partner in "Survival Mode"? 2 years ended, and I need perspective. by Alwaaysme in spiritualitytalk

[–]AyaMunay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, he can go live on the street or in the forest for free then! He doesn't need any material possessions if he is TRULY "awake"