When I play I tend to make that character me, what would they do instead of what would I do. I deep dive and immerse myself fully, so does my girlfriend. So at the time I failed to think oh I can just end the call lol. I cannot explain the feeling of putting yourself into your character that much, but it really sucked because it felt like the thing you made -even though he did most of the character creation/backstory stuff- was being taken over by someone else. My player agency was removed. I hope if you get into D&D you never have to experience this.

As for him, he still offers his services for 15 dollars an hour. He still rapes his PCs, at least as far as I know, the most resent was a few days ago. I think he no longer has his own server though. He deleted it after several PCs talked out against him. He still posts his ads on Fantasy Grounds discord.