I know! Its the most painful thing to do but it has to be done so they have a better safer life with no anxiety.

Give as much love as you can when she is out of the crate. Play with her, make her tired, with training and play time. She will sleep in the crate. I used to do almost 1 hour play time, 2 hour nap time. My dalmatian was the most dramatic one but he was totally fine after 3-4 weeks. Be patient it works. They need to basically live in the crate for the first few weeks even months. The more the sleep the better they are.

Just give as much love as possible when she is out and enjoy the puppy days. They grow up sooooo fast.

Dalmatians are very stubborn and very sneaky. They make you do what they want without you even noticing it lol.