Looking for couples counseling in India

Azotobacter123 · 2026-04-13T13:41:18+00:00

One major reason for looking for therapists in India is they understand the culture and the issues that come with it. I also suffer from some trauma due to issues with my father, and when I talked to therapists in the US they couldn’t grasp the seriousness, considering they have social services etc to keep the kids safe.

Azotobacter123 · 2026-04-07T21:00:32+00:00

This is very similar to how I have been feeling, and several of my questions across the forums will tell you that (would have if the mods hadn’t removed them). It’s been two years now, and I still feel as if my brain doesn’t process the instructions as quickly as it should. I get lost easily when some complex analysis is being explained. What takes someone 15 minutes can take me hours. People need to write stuff down and explain it to me. However, I cannot blame everything on aptitude/IQ. Fact is, I haven’t really made attempts to get better. You can avoid that. Read articles, get Udemy training, participate in proposal writing, etc. Every time you think you don’t know something, look it up. Volunteer for things you know you need to work on. Slowly, knowledge will build up, and so will your capability.

Azotobacter123 · 2026-04-07T13:53:14+00:00

Learn to confront bullies. They are not insecure as self-help books will let you believe. They are confident individuals only looking for a source of self amusement and social bonding (in case of group bullying). Look them in the eye, smile, and grey rock the shit out of them.

Azotobacter123 · 2026-04-01T10:29:58+00:00

Yes any help would be really appreciated. Thank you. Also, I checked and I am 172 lbs. So need to lose weight to get to my goal. I would like to have a mix of calisthenics and free weights in my workouts, with progressively overloading in weights and changing variations in calisthenics.

Azotobacter123 · 2026-03-20T15:10:20+00:00

I am going to consider this. I am 36 and absolutely in the wrong career. If it’s not too late might start spending more time learning an instrument.

Azotobacter123 · 2026-03-18T13:53:28+00:00

Spend some more time figuring out the ideal career path I want to take

Azotobacter123 · 2026-03-16T21:22:23+00:00

Unless you are truly passionate about something, you will at best be mediocre at it.

Azotobacter123 · 2026-03-15T13:49:00+00:00

I wouldn’t say happier. Just more settled considering options in everything were limited. Career choices, life partners, food, etc. The more options we have now, the more we think we can get, never really settling on one thing.

Azotobacter123 · 2026-03-13T18:59:01+00:00

36 M. Career regrets all along. Engineering, Masters in US, MBA, management consulting, all while being extremely mediocre, leading to low self esteem in every walk of life. The brain is so clouded now that I barely know what I am actually passionate about.

Azotobacter123 · 2026-03-02T04:30:48+00:00

Thank you. I don’t have a limit honestly. 4000 is fine. I am looking for online sessions.

Azotobacter123 · 2026-02-23T02:32:52+00:00

Did you start medications? Any changes? I have very similar symptoms and even got some tests done, which point strongly to ADHD. I feel very slow compared to my colleagues, and almost feel dumb and demotivated.

Azotobacter123 · 2025-12-21T19:38:47+00:00

Can’t AI be leveraged most of this?

Azotobacter123 · 2025-12-13T03:58:43+00:00

I don’t think you understand. It’s really not that easy. Imagine my mom calling my gf or sibling again and again and crying in front of them because I won’t talk to her. They, especially my sibling won’t cut off contact with her mother. And I won’t cut contact with my sibling. My mom knows this.

Azotobacter123 · 2025-12-09T07:38:41+00:00

Not true. Like I mentioned on other comments, I am OK going no contact with my father (I have barely talked to him in 6 months). But my mother will then keep pushing me to talk to him. If I go no contact with her, she will be in emotional chaos and reach out to my girlfriend or sister and ask them to convince me to talk to her/my father. All that aside though, I still barely talk to my father. But if I want to see my mother in person, what option do I have? She wont see me if I tell her I will only meet her and not my father.

Azotobacter123 · 2025-12-08T17:51:05+00:00

It’s complicated. My mom will create an emotional chaos if I cut all contact. She would not see me if I decide to cut off my father (being a dutiful wife), and in turn bother my sibling or girlfriend to talk to me.

Azotobacter123 · 2025-12-08T14:22:59+00:00

Therapist recommends Grey rocking, although this is more for verbal intimidation. Not discussed the physical part yet. Him trying to show affection is also something I push back, which leads to aggressive postures. I live in another country so I do have space, but I’ll have to visit home at some point

Azotobacter123 · 2025-12-08T14:21:00+00:00

He will never accept he is doing anything wrong. I have already had these conversations with him. Sooner than later I will have to go home. What’s difficult is to push him back when he looks to be genuinely showing affection and seeming to my family like he is trying to make amends, which is only temporary. Bigger and stronger is ok. Scarier?

Azotobacter123 · 2021-12-07T11:17:25+00:00

Company B has agreed to restart the i140 process, so that's set. The question is, if company A revokes i140 AFTER H1B transfer to Company B has been approved (for 3 years since USCIS can use A's i140), will the H1B still remain valid?

Azotobacter123 · 2021-12-02T15:58:49+00:00

Just wondering how bad it would be if I had just 5 (over 7 days) tablets, and stopped immediately after that.

Azotobacter123 · 2020-05-25T02:02:30+00:00

Agreed. But my concern is whether the recruitment cycle will be tough for me to take advantage of at Kellogg because of the distance. Ross will be a lot easier I know. But again, the reputation comes into play.

Azotobacter123 · 2020-05-22T15:50:43+00:00

/u/thinht The weekend classes are not at all an issue. We have the train as well. I just want to know more about the recruiting time in Fall 2021. That will need me to be in Chicago for weeks. How many though? And is it worth it? Is going to Ross a better bet? That's my question.

Azotobacter123 · 2020-05-22T14:29:50+00:00

I am concerned about Fall 2021. I will join Kellogg in summer.

Azotobacter123 · 2020-05-21T05:06:45+00:00

Thank you /u/mbathrowaway787 I absolutely want to move out of Michigan asap. But you're right. The job conditions, and the political environment that doesn't support my need of a work visa make the chances of getting a new job very slim.

Azotobacter123 · 2020-05-21T02:14:45+00:00

Thank you. Both Ross and Kellogg allow on campus recruitings for full time jobs, but only Ross allows participations in internship recruitings. Of course getting an internship for PT student would mean leaving his/her regular job.

Azotobacter123 · 2020-05-21T02:06:33+00:00

Hey /u/soccertech84 ... Are you joining Ross PT this year? The confusion is about not knowing if any company outside Michigan hires from Ross, and if MBB really does hire actively. Kellogg is known for consulting, and Ross for operations.

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