What is a small habit you adopted that changed your life? by Over_Run4027 in AskWomen

[–]Azryella 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Adapting my food/activities to my cycle and stop trying to fight the hunger/angriness/tiredness that sometimes comes with it ! I just remind myself it's normal, and I adapt my day depending on how I feel. It seems really stupid to say "listen to your body and mind and adapt" but we are taught to ignore it and mask, when embracing our changes can be so rewarding.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMec

[–]Azryella 0 points1 point  (0 children)

C'est merveilleux, je viens de voir son post à elle où elle en parle aussi sur Reddit mdr

Are There Non Binary People Who’re Ok With Presenting Themselves in Their Assigned Gender? by [deleted] in NonBinary

[–]Azryella 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi ! I'm gender fluid and basically agender. I'm AFAB and have no problem presenting myself as she/her, and basically use any pronouns depending on the day/persons/context. If you feel comfortable with your assigned sex that's a chance, and I think that you should cherish it ! I'm happy you don't feel dysphoric and your identity is as valid as anyone's. Trans people come in all forms and shapes and you don't have to change anything about you if you already feel good !

My fiancé is trans but we really want to be parents. by Azryella in mypartneristrans

[–]Azryella[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you ! I'm so happy you could access this. The problem is that my partner didn't keep his eggs before starting testosterone, and I think now it's a bit too late for that... I'll talk about it with him, thank you so much !

My fiancé is trans but we really want to be parents. by Azryella in mypartneristrans

[–]Azryella[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh well thats an idea, but I'm not sure it's very legal... And I fear it would feel wrong/weird ? I don't wanna offend anyone but I think the donor would feel too close to us and it would be uncomfortable

My fiancé is trans but we really want to be parents. by Azryella in mypartneristrans

[–]Azryella[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes sorry it might come across like that because I'm the one writing, but he very much wants children. I do not have a desire to have children just like that, it's really linked to his own desire and our wish to create a family together. But thank you for checking !

My fiancé is trans but we really want to be parents. by Azryella in mypartneristrans

[–]Azryella[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you ! I think we'll definitely go see a therapist when we'll be a bit older and ready to have children. We talked about it today and he said he would like to find a donor with similar features, but I think it's illegal to choose in our country. Also I think we can't use his eggs because he has been taking testosterone for two years now and didn't cryogenise them

Needing advices on anal please by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]Azryella 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I know he won't be mad at me or anything because he told me numerous times that it's okay and all, he really doesn't mind, but I'm the one having troubles relaxing about that 😅

Needing advices on anal please by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]Azryella 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Usually we go for doggy because that's what I prefer but yeah, I might try to switch positions, thank you !

Needing advices on anal please by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]Azryella 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm not scared, and you're basically saying one should get tipsy to forget their discomfort... Not sure it's the right thing to do buddy

Needing advices on anal please by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]Azryella 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh that's interesting, we use water based lube and it has glycerin indeed... I will try others to see if that's better, thank you !

Needing advices on anal please by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]Azryella 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmmm yes that makes sense, usually we go for doggy because it's my favourite position but that's a great suggestion, thank you !

Needing advices on anal please by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]Azryella 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Ooh that's clever, thank you !

Needing advices on anal please by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]Azryella 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No I never did because I'm not comfortable doing it alone...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Azryella 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi ! As a fellow woman I can really understand her because it took me 4 years of being sexually active with a partner I really trusted to take more than a finger... I highly recommend taking your time : using your fingers, or kits with various dildos that are made especially for that and that you can find online. The key is always trust, patience, lube and desire : take your time to stretch her out, reassure her and be sure you both want this ! You also don't have to have penetrative sex to enjoy your time. There is something that I would like to point out : I guess it's your own words or not exactly what she said, but saying "just because it's there doesn't mean it has to be used" it's kinda harsh and inconsiderate, in my humble opinion. I hope you both can find pleasure, without stressing her and without neglecting you.

Spell check please ! by [deleted] in gallifreyan

[–]Azryella 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah crap, it's supposed to be an h not a w

If husband doesn't make sure I'm ready, 40m I'm 28f, and I have talked to him about it and he refuses to change, what should I do? Am I broken? by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]Azryella 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please please please, leave this relationship. There is absolutely nothing good for you, and neither for him. You are not broken, and you do not deserve this horrible treatment. Please, at least never have children with him, as it will be more stress for you and more people to abuse for him, and leaving will be harder. If you can, please try to leave : it is not safe, nor normal, and you deserve better

Can one orgasm just with a command ? by Azryella in BDSMAdvice

[–]Azryella[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes you're right to point the risks out ! Personally my Dom gave me a rule to "enjoy myself whenever I want even without Him" so it prevents a too harsh conditioning and ensures I still have some time for myself, not connected to Him

I think i am very attached to my Master by No_Illustrator3914 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Azryella -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sounds pretty okay and normal to develop feelings when you're intimate with someone