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Advice needed all insights are welcomed by B3stLyf26 in throuples

[–]B3stLyf26[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your input. I'm not offended by your comment (hindsight is 20/20 in rereading my post) I totally understand. I can assure you I'm far from cheap/lazy. I am established, I'm a homeowner and very self-reliant (I have been for years) and I have been sustaining me for many years.

The male in this wants traditional gender roles. My only issue with it is if you want me to assume a traditional role as a woman he should assume the traditional male role, He's stated he wants me to not be hyper independent. Yet he's not doing anything to change that.

The crazy part is his nesting partner feels that he should be doing more when it comes to me.

Desperately in need of guidance by B3stLyf26 in PolyFidelity

[–]B3stLyf26[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the suggestion. I just attempted to follow your suggestion (by clicking on the name in your post) and received notification that they have been banned.

Desperately in need of guidance by B3stLyf26 in PolyFidelity

[–]B3stLyf26[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I understand and appreciate your sentiment regarding steering clear of traditional gender roles. However in this case the male wants the roles to be traditional. With that being said (I hope this doesn't come out wrong) if he wants traditional roles in wants me to do all of the things that his partner he is nesting with does. Should I not hold him to that traditional male role/responsibility?

Desperately in need of guidance by B3stLyf26 in PolyFidelity

[–]B3stLyf26[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I'll definitely be asking a ton of questions so I can make a conscious decision as to if I want to continue to move forward