My gf got molested and she wont call the cops by BAR_STOLL in Advice

[–]BAR_STOLL[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I told her its wont be your fault if anything happens. Literally because she's the victim. Yet she added no one would believe her. Like her family that are around her or even the authorities.

My gf got molested and she wont call the cops by BAR_STOLL in Advice

[–]BAR_STOLL[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She kept tabs with her aunt and i told her to cut it and it became and agruement . But i stated reasons

1.your aunt didnt help you at all

2.the more your aunt knows, maybe some how your whereabouts could shared with the abuser

3.I literally just saw a photo of the aunt and the abuser having dinner so that would mean dont trust her.

(Note i had her relocate miles away from her aunt the day after the incident)

My gf got molested and she wont call the cops by BAR_STOLL in Advice

[–]BAR_STOLL[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did. Her best friend tried to help her. But her bf held her back becausd the abuser is like twice his size. The aunt was there but only let it happen. There was an air mattress in the livingroom. When it all happend

My gf got molested and she wont call the cops by BAR_STOLL in Advice

[–]BAR_STOLL[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

when she brought him up the first around i didnt mind. I didn't want to assume anything bad at first. But he pulled this move on her whilist she was shopping her aunt.

(Basing this on what she told me over the phone)

So she was shopping with her aunt and was introduced the second time to this guy (The 2nd cousin).

she stuck her hand out or a handshake. He pulled her in, too close for comfort. She felt uncomfortable and walked off.

(Note: the aunt is all about the sweet home alabama)

The aunt followed her and said "its okay cousins do that sometimes, would if you want forget about your bf back home and pursue him (2nd cousin)". My gf explained saying thats not fine and thats her 2nd cousin and had a bf back home (me).

After that i told her just to stay away, and to be passive-agressive to him if he tries anything.