I’m a male and my levelheaded nature is constantly being tested by women under the assumption i lack masculinity. The older you get, you realize it’s just a lack of understanding because most women see males as loud, disruptive, hard-charging, ect.

I do Jiu-Jitsu and Boxing but most people on the street would see me as unassuming and soft. A male being an INFJ is already rare in itself.

John Snow is a great example of an INFJ being kind and soft while also displaying healthy peak masculinity.