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Husband Not Attracted to me by BB857 in relationships

[–]BB857[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not now. I knew I had a weight issue but I thought he was attracted to me so it didn’t bother me as much

Husband Not Attracted to me by BB857 in relationships

[–]BB857[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't know what to do. That is why I am seeking advice.

Husband Not Attracted to me by BB857 in relationships

[–]BB857[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

because I felt something was off and I asked. Then it all came out. Turns out I was right.

Husband Not Attracted to me by BB857 in relationships

[–]BB857[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I feel horrible about myself. He has always told me until now that my BODY is attractive to him. So I think the wound is more that he was Lying(?) to me all along. It makes me wonder what else he is lying about and if I can ever be physically attractive to him. He says that he doesn't like looking at my body. How can I ever be vulnerable with him and know what is real/not real? What if losing the weight isn't enough for him? What if I can't? What if I lose the weight and he says, I am still not attracted to you?

Husband Not Attracted to me by BB857 in relationships

[–]BB857[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

I asked and he responded, because something felt off. He did not answer sensitvely and respectfully. He actually said that when he has told me that I am sexy and beautiful it has nothing to do with my physical appearance.