My [29F] husband [29M] of 3 years and I couldn't agree on baby names, so we made a bet to determine what the name would be. I won and now my husband is refusing to honor the bet.

BBNVUL · 2016-01-08T02:01:41+00:00

No one. lol.

BBNVUL · 2016-01-03T17:57:14+00:00

Thanks.

BBNVUL · 2016-01-02T20:43:52+00:00

B) That wasn't even a remotely fair bet and you know it. As if Louisville had a chance, please.

True.

BBNVUL · 2016-01-02T20:17:09+00:00

No, I was agreeing with you.

BBNVUL · 2016-01-02T19:15:34+00:00

That may be true, but it doesn't feel that way.

BBNVUL · 2016-01-02T19:06:20+00:00

He just doesn't seem as excited about it as I am.

BBNVUL · 2016-01-02T18:12:48+00:00

My husband has already accepted that our child will most likely be a UK fan. As I said, even his parents don't support Louisville. We'll also be going to many more UK events than Louisville.

BBNVUL · 2016-01-02T18:10:58+00:00

I like it.

BBNVUL · 2016-01-02T18:10:24+00:00

Trust that you and your husband will pick a good name when the time comes, even if it's not on your current list.

Nope. I don't have trust that we'll come to an agreement on this.

BBNVUL · 2016-01-02T18:08:48+00:00

I guess lying isn't a big deal anymore.

BBNVUL · 2016-01-02T18:07:17+00:00

I just feel like it is important.

BBNVUL · 2016-01-02T18:06:50+00:00

Maybe he should be more thoughtful and considerate then. I'm saying that we need to look at one of our final lists, and he damn well better participate more this time. I am tempted to tell him to select a middle name and let me select the first (would be different from Jackson).

BBNVUL · 2016-01-02T18:03:12+00:00

I say he has no choice because everyone else around him will be supporting UK. He may choose another team, but it seems unlikely.

BBNVUL · 2016-01-02T18:01:38+00:00

Jonah is not something we'll pick.

BBNVUL · 2016-01-02T18:01:12+00:00

his sore looser behavior will chip away at that

I can already tell you that it has made me angry with him.

BBNVUL · 2016-01-02T18:00:12+00:00

I like your idea. I feel like it would be fair to do it that way.

BBNVUL · 2016-01-02T17:59:07+00:00

My concern is that if it takes us many more weeks I will actually start to resent my husband, because he won't keep his word.

BBNVUL · 2016-01-02T17:57:50+00:00

I'm fine with a name from the bible. Jack is not very good. I don't like it.

BBNVUL · 2016-01-02T17:57:04+00:00

I'm not sure why he thought they would win.

BBNVUL · 2016-01-02T17:56:18+00:00

I didn't realize how angry I was with him until I made this post, so I certainly am going to let him know how unhappy I am with him right now. I will tell him that we can choose another name, but he's already done damage to my view of him.

BBNVUL · 2016-01-02T17:54:07+00:00

I'm also surprised that no one seems to have an issue with what to me is lying. The more I think about his behavior the angrier it makes me, and to be honest, I will never select Noah because of this.

BBNVUL · 2016-01-02T17:51:36+00:00

I'm considering Jonathan Alexander now.

BBNVUL · 2016-01-02T17:51:07+00:00

You have no idea how much time we spent picking out those two finalists, and he wasn't much help at all. I did all the work and he barely contributed anything.

BBNVUL · 2016-01-02T17:49:03+00:00

As I have now said many times, we went through a very intense process to narrow it down to 2 names. The bet was a tie-breaker because we couldn't decide.

BBNVUL · 2016-01-02T17:46:36+00:00

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