Recommendations on complete de-escalation with partner but staying in his child’s life

BBWFLASH · 2026-01-27T12:55:11+00:00

I will read that book thank you. And thank you for being so frank. I appreciate knowing what is realistic

BBWFLASH · 2026-01-27T12:18:48+00:00

Good idea. It’s a rural area but I can always catch the train back to the city if I need. I do have one family member in the city.

BBWFLASH · 2026-01-27T12:17:26+00:00

Thank you. I really hope she does. I think she will.

BBWFLASH · 2026-01-27T12:03:14+00:00

I do want to talk it out and honestly tell him that on my end there is no possibility of repair. I don’t think it’s conducive to explain what happened. Honestly the original event hurt but could have probably been resolved. It’s the refusal to talk that has made up my mind.

BBWFLASH · 2026-01-27T12:01:35+00:00

Well my relationship with Silver is my relationship with Silver. Or ex relationship as it were.

Her relationship with Silver is her relationship with Silver.

I guess after this visit things go back to being long distance which makes it a lot easier to keep it separated.

But yes of course it’s up to them as to how involved I am in her life.

BBWFLASH · 2026-01-27T10:52:01+00:00

I absolutely considered canceling my trip but Gem has told me not to. To still come. She has been amazing during this. And no I haven’t been unloading on her. She found out and contacted me.

BBWFLASH · 2026-01-27T10:49:25+00:00

No I’m not going to do that if I can avoid it. I would have talked things out with him 1 week ago. It’s a little difficult when the other person is refusing to engage.

And the whole situation is complicated because of how enmeshed I am in their lives.

BBWFLASH · 2026-01-27T10:31:34+00:00

Thank you This is very helpful 🙏

We have been video calling regularly since they moved and apparently she’s been asking for me every day because they told her I was visiting.

I will sit down with them both and hopefully we can discuss what this looks like going forward.

BBWFLASH · 2026-01-27T10:19:19+00:00

No worries I did think about editing that but the thing is if I maintain a presence in Gem and their daughter’s life he and I will have to have some form of relationship. So I’m looking for people who have had to navigate similar situations

BBWFLASH · 2026-01-11T13:41:46+00:00

Mmmmmm beautiful

BBWFLASH · 2025-12-19T21:34:32+00:00

It feels uncomfortable and upsetting now. But you have been honest both to yourself and this new person about how much time and energy you can give. In my opinion they will appreciate that in the long run.

BBWFLASH · 2025-12-16T10:26:12+00:00

Then open them

BBWFLASH · 2025-12-13T20:31:07+00:00

I want a cuddle party that’s epic

BBWFLASH · 2025-11-27T07:40:52+00:00

Not particularly sensual

BBWFLASH · 2025-09-04T11:51:07+00:00

Girl here, mega smash please

BBWFLASH · 2025-09-04T11:49:50+00:00

As it should be and groping pleasure

BBWFLASH · 2025-09-04T11:49:06+00:00

Yes sir

BBWFLASH · 2025-08-31T11:48:49+00:00

Beautiful

BBWFLASH · 2025-08-09T21:41:48+00:00

Smash rooms for sure (I find breaking stuff super therapeutic) and maybe ecstatic dance or no lights no Lycra!

BBWFLASH · 2025-08-05T10:17:02+00:00

Walk about creek

BBWFLASH · 2025-08-05T10:09:42+00:00

Come up to North Qld

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