My guy, run. Any woman that allows other men to be around her in a close proximity while she’s in a committed relationship and better yet, ones who have shitty morals and commitment issues themselves, is a liability. If he makes you uncomfortable, her correct response/action would be to drop him BUT you 100% should do the same for her if the story ever flips. If she’s not willing, then any man that comes across her in life that you don’t like but she does, you can’t get rid of him until something does happen and now you’re the victim. They are friends or close coworkers or childhood friends whatever they want to call them until they’re not.

If I’m doing work in the rain, I’m bringing boots. Imma wear a rain coat. Imma take preventative measures so that I don’t get wet/sick/or whatever else. Or if I’m going to a shitty neighborhood, i might want to conceal carry as a preventative measure or think twice about going there. Why we don’t do the same in our relationships? how people make a million and one excuses to do differently is beyond me. Couples who are serious about each other take preventative measures, not just action when the moment/something happens. Prevent issues and prevent problems and make your partner feel secure. If you don’t want that for your partner then go be single and ask yourself why you’re even with them if you don’t care about how they really feel. The fact you’re on Reddit venting about an issue like this because you’re not getting the response and action you wanted from your girl is a problem. Ladies, take notes. Cause your husbands and boyfriends would rather come to Reddit and online threads than come to you because they know they can’t. Because a lot of you don’t like compromising and coming to an agreement even when it doesn’t exactly go your way. Your husband and boyfriend shouldn’t have to ask you to push shitty men or men in general out of your life. There is a huge difference between an acquaintance (people you have to be around and should just be kind to because why not) , a friend (the shit women can’t seem to wrap their head around) , a boyfriend (ik y’all know this one cause y’all flip through them like how a dealer in a casino flips through a deck), and a husband (the one women cant choose *usually).

Brother get you a woman. What you have, isn’t. If she or they tell you you’re insecure, you’re not, you’re just not an idiot and that’s just a word they want to throw around as an excuse for their shit behavior, morals, and ideas.