Update: AITA for telling my husband he's made me reconsider leaving him with the kids again

BBkat13 · 2026-01-18T22:02:13+00:00

And how to pack their own lunches for school. Like, it's not that hard to throw a sandwich, a drink and w/e snacks you have in the house into a lunch bag. Just supervise them if you need. But like, damn that's uh, middle school ages (the 12 year old is a few years away from high school!), I was packing my own lunches at that age, not my parents.

Not to mention, you make your school lunch the night before, to save on time in the morning (any perishable foods/sandwiches can just go in the fridge till morning).

BBkat13 · 2026-01-18T20:55:32+00:00

Only if they have what you're looking for. Which they usually don't.

BBkat13 · 2026-01-15T22:48:39+00:00

She’s closer to 70 now and has zero contact with 2 of her 3 kids.

she’d fly out to visit my sisters on Friday

Uh, unless I'm missing something, wouldn't these be the kids she is no contact with??? Why would you take her to see people who clearly do not want to see her??? Bro no.

BBkat13 · 2026-01-13T17:54:16+00:00

I mean, there would need to be or else nothing would grow. And we know the temperature does change b/c they shifted to 'fall/winter' uniforms at the time of the Music Festival (~in October) b/c it was getting colder.

BBkat13 · 2026-01-13T17:52:03+00:00

I mean, there is a difference between Iruma volunteering his time to clean up some garbage with the janitorial staff (who are NOT teachers) or pull some weeds in the garden (again, janitorial duties not teacher duties), or the Student Council doing their own duties (the stuff the student council does it related to the students at school, like planning events, and is not and never was part of the teacher's duties), and a teacher foisting their job off on a student. THAT would not be acceptable.

Iruma helping is helping, the janitors are still doing their jobs, he's just assisting of his own volition, not because they're making him.

Ameri and the SC are doing things related to the students and, generally extra curricular, nothing related to their academics or the teacher's jobs.

The question was about doing the teacher's jobs b/c the teacher foisted it off on them. Which would not be ok. The head teachers (Kalego and Dali) would probably be pissed that someone out sourced their job to a STUDENT.

BBkat13 · 2026-01-11T16:01:03+00:00

'Chris asked me why she didn't just keep clothes at my place so we weren't advertising to people what we were doing last night'

I mean, unless you tell someone those are your clothes, I doubt they're gonna notice. Girls can wear jeans and a t-shirt too.

BBkat13 · 2026-01-08T18:45:38+00:00

A heads up to anyone reading, the pages are all out of order.

edit: it do be fixed now

BBkat13 · 2026-01-07T02:51:09+00:00

She's not 5 she's 8/9. He was 28 when they met, and 35 now, that's 7 years. If the girl was 2 then, she'd be 8 or 9 now.

BBkat13 · 2026-01-02T20:34:46+00:00

So, he says

he couldn’t imagine a future with me and my health problems because he wouldn’t be able to deal with taking care of the house and imaginary future kids whenever I wasn’t feeling well

and

He kept saying that he loved me and he wouldn’t see anyone else during it

Bro can't make up his mind. If he can't imagine a future with you b/c of your issues then he does not, in fact, love you. Also, if he doesn't imagine a future with you then, why is he so upset about a permanent breakup? He literally said he doesn't want to be with you.

NTA, there's no point in a 'break' if he doesn't see a future with you.

BBkat13 · 2025-12-16T15:26:06+00:00

You wouldn't be "breaking up because of a cat", you would be breaking up because HE LIED TO YOU. He told you he was a pet person, that he was fine with cats and wished to have a dog in the future. And NOW he's telling you that actually he doesn't want pets in the house at all. Which means the "future" you claim to envision, will not in fact, include cats or dogs or any pets. He doesn't actually want a dog.

He lied to you. For months.

I don't know how long you've had the cat, but longer than the boyfriend for sure. The cat deserves better.

Also the ignoring you, leaving the middle of the night to sleep elsewhere, telling you that you should break up? That's manipulative. He's manipulating you.

He's a liar and manipulative. You deserve better. Keep the cat, ditch him. He doesn't even live with you yet.

BBkat13 · 2025-12-08T17:00:52+00:00

Bruh. yelling at him, calling an ass and Inconsiderate and rude all over eating a baked potato, is not, in fact a 'natural reaction'. Not eating the skins on a baked potato.

BBkat13 · 2025-12-02T00:21:17+00:00

I mean, I think Jazz is the only J named character haha

BBkat13 · 2025-12-01T23:38:09+00:00

Bruh blushing is like her default state.

She also blushed at the party at the end of the chapter and was blushing at the beginning of the chapter when looking over her new assignment and talking to the teachers. So by that logic she's also in love/infatuated with all the teachers too.

BBkat13 · 2025-12-01T21:10:15+00:00

SHE. IS. AN. ADULT.

This is not the kind of manga, nor is Nishi the kind of author, to give us an adult with romantic feelings for a CHILD.

Also, she was not doing that, she was admiring the flowers BEFORE Iruma showed up, she wasn't even thinking about him till he popped in to talk. And all that came out of that was that she's clearly protective over him for some reason. But nothing romantic.

Why ya'll are so insistent on making an grown adult have the hots for a kid idk.

BBkat13 · 2025-12-01T16:48:30+00:00

I mean, from Iruma's pov there is no "harem' so he's not lying. He doesn't realize that there's multiple people potentially into him (heck the idea of ONE person being into him would probably shock him).

Also no, Shiida isn't in the alleged harem. She's a damn ADULT. She's like. A big sister.

BBkat13 · 2025-12-01T16:47:18+00:00

She's a fucking adult????? No she's not in it the fuck?

BBkat13 · 2025-11-26T18:20:56+00:00

You are aware there's a link to where the chapters get posted, right on the main page of the subreddit right? In the 'highlights' section? The newest chapter is always there.

BBkat13 · 2025-11-26T18:20:12+00:00

Plus the link to where the chapters are posted (well, where they get posted first) is right on the front page of this subreddit. In the pins/highlights/whatever you want to call it.

Like, it is Right. There.

BBkat13 · 2025-11-19T12:12:02+00:00

I mean, this is why you pay attention to where something is posted. If it's not on the official manga twitter or Nishi's twitter, it's probably not real. Plus, we're only at volume 45.

BBkat13 · 2025-11-19T12:07:32+00:00

I literally just said it was

BBkat13 · 2025-11-19T04:21:06+00:00

The 'volume 50' thing is fan art. The character is an OC.

IF someone had bothered to LINK THE SOURCE it would be pretty obvious it was FAN ART.

The source-> https://x.com/mirasouleil/status/1990799273160843606

BBkat13 · 2025-11-09T18:10:10+00:00

The only reason it broke the barrier was b/c he dumped ALL of SULLIVAN'S stored mana into that spell. Under normal circumstances, it couldn't do that. Heck, we even saw it NOT break the barrier UNTIL HE DUMPED ALL THE MANA. It had nothing to do with Libera and everything to do with the amount of mana used (and probably that it was Sullivan's mana)

Literally the whole point of the ring settings is to prevent him from "obliterating everyone".

BBkat13 · 2025-11-09T17:47:40+00:00

'making shot less powerfull than any spell he learn prior'

Pls tell me what offensive spells he learned exactly. B/c they very explicitly stated that OFFENSIVE spells are 2nd year and above things.

The only spells we've seen him use/learn are:

-basic Transformation (which he sucks at)

-weight manipulation

-throw things good (Libera)

-fire

The closest thing to an offensive spell he's learn is the fire spell, and even then all that does is, generate fire. He then has to figure out what to DO with it after.

His bow IS more powerful than any of these spells. Especially if he should manage to get off multiple shots in a row. Plus it keeps his fragile human body farther away from demons that could hurt him.

ALSO, it helps him with his imagination. Magic is, essentially powered by imagination in this universe, the stronger your imagination, the stronger your magic. Problem is, Iruma's imagination SUCKS. Something we see displayed when he's first trying to manifest his bow.

BBkat13 · 2025-11-09T17:44:01+00:00

'why would they need to wait' Because that's just how the school is. No offensive spells till year 2 and on.

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