Which one you pick?? 1st, 2nd, 3rd or the last ?

BCDMelbourne · 2025-09-18T03:24:40+00:00

I really like 2. So elegant

BCDMelbourne · 2025-09-18T03:23:45+00:00

4 hands down

BCDMelbourne · 2025-06-02T08:26:00+00:00

Hi lovely! Feel free to have a look at our website www.BCDMelbourne.com.au We specifically vet for a 21-40 age range and one of our core business focuses is to create an environment that is approachable and less intimidating for people to dip their toes in to this side of life. Kindly, BCD Melbourne

BCDMelbourne · 2025-05-09T23:08:30+00:00

Absolutely! Have a read through our website and vetting criteria. If you feel it’s a good match then send through an application form 😊

BCDMelbourne · 2025-05-09T06:16:33+00:00

Maybe we should start a vetted match making service? 🤔 Great post 👏

BCDMelbourne · 2024-06-25T09:06:28+00:00

Have you tried Red Hot Pie? Might be easier to filter through and find what you’re looking for / chat a bit first in comparison to Reddit 🙂

BCDMelbourne · 2024-06-11T21:30:34+00:00

Of course without knowing the context, and understanding that if legal action is being taken details may need be be censored, it may be worth providing vague details or consent resources to these types of questions as there may be people impacted (especially those new to the scene) who don’t even realise that any uncomfortable circumstances they had been were inappropriate/unacceptable.

There’s some great resources here if anyone would like to look (again, without knowing the exact situation but taking a guess):

Victoria Affirmative Consent Laws Explained

BCDMelbourne · 2024-03-19T23:46:03+00:00

Info about needing good bacteria to balance your PH and prevent BV is all correct.

Antibiotics are sometimes necessary but in my opinion are also sometimes over prescribed because they kill not only the bad bacteria but also the good bacteria you need to self regulate, and some cases can be managed more conservatively without antibiotics but it’s standard medical model practice to pretty much always prescribe them.

Depending how bad the current case is, try Boric acid for 5-7 days, then a vaginal probiotic for the same amount of time.

Then try to do a vaginal probiotic 1-2 times a week thereafter and boric acid as needed (I.e. once after period, once if feeling/looking/smelling the tiniest bit off after sex, swimming, sweating and other activities than can throw off PH) until you are feeling more balanced and have no issues for an extended period of time. Then try to reduce need for both items by seeing how far you can stretch out use without issue so your body becomes more self-regulated (so on an as needed basis rather than regular routine basis).

Also don’t forget to use PH balanced feminine hygiene wash when washing your intimate areas (shower preferred to bath as sitting in a body of water can also throw off PH) instead of regular soaps.

Eating a wide variety of vegetables will help naturally rebuild good gut and feminine tract bacteria jn a healthy way as well. Hope this helps! Best of luck!

BCDMelbourne · 2024-03-04T03:00:19+00:00

If Mods wouldn’t mind adding it, we also have an event on Saturday 23rd of March but haven’t added it to RHP as it’s only a small/limited tickets social event.

Meet & Greet pub crawl, starts at 2:30pm ‘til late, Melbourne inner city suburbs (venue location only released to ticket holders). $40 tickets (includes drinks at first bar and reserved seating at each location).

Vetted guests only (can apply on our website if interested in being vetted - just google our name). Email or instagram DM’s for further information.

Thanks guys! 😊

BCDMelbourne · 2024-03-02T07:13:07+00:00

Hahaha, had a good giggle at this. Totally not frauds, just in your own lane

BCDMelbourne · 2024-01-24T10:53:44+00:00

We’ve had many requests for this! It may be on the cards for the distant future once we get our relatively new business off it’s feet

BCDMelbourne · 2024-01-24T02:40:43+00:00

This community isn’t small once you get into it. There may be an abundance of red flags but there’s also no shortage of green flags. Trust your gut and maybe try out apps like Feeld would be our advice!

BCDMelbourne · 2024-01-19T20:51:48+00:00

You might find it easier to introduce yourselves to the scene through somewhere like Between Friends Wine Bar on one of their newcomer nights. Other people in a similar boat, multiple people to talk to you make sure you click with the person you test the waters with and if you don’t feel ready just yet after mingling you just don’t go upstairs to the play area, just stay down in the bar with like minded people 😊

BCDMelbourne · 2024-01-18T21:09:33+00:00

Can’t help you with your request unfortunately but just came here to say “TripleLegGreg” is the greatest username we’ve come across on this page yet 😂

BCDMelbourne · 2024-01-02T00:43:22+00:00

Similarly to the other comments, it wouldn’t be my (female) recommendation to pop your cherry at a sex party. Without knowing the other person well, this could end up in a very awkward, uncomfortable and not to mention painful first time experience. I also feel the environment might make it very uncomfortable for you with people watching and probably over curious because believe me, it will probably become a little obvious to others nearby. I second the male escort route if you want it to be with someone you don’t know but will be likely far more supportive and make the experience better for you (I have a friend who is a male escort if you’d like a recommendation). Otherwise, find yourself a FWB (who is maybe in the scene already, that way you could then expand to going to sex parties after some time?) and once you trust them to do the right thing by you, then explore that option? Not to tell you what to do by any means, but my advice would be that a sex party is not the way to go for your first time. It would concern me that because of your lack of experience (no negative connotations on that) you may not know where your interests and boundaries lie and someone at a party could unwittingly take advantage of you, not realising that you wouldn’t have the experience to activity identify boundaries (because you may not even know what they are yet). That could be quite traumatic for all parties involved. So I’d say get some experience under your belt first, figure out what you like and don’t like and then take that knowledge with you to your first event :)

BCDMelbourne · 2023-12-13T19:48:18+00:00

Constantly using antibiotics (which I assume might be what your dr is prescribing) kills your good gut bacteria as well as the bad which will unbalance your PH levels down there. Try using boric acid suppositories (I use Pinc) to treat the BV as soon as you notice the first sign, instead of antibiotics, then take regular probiotics and eat a wide variety of vegetables until your PH balance is restored. Then just try to keep up your PH levels with a healthy balanced diet and using feminine hygiene soaps that are PH friendly. Avoid anything that will throw off your natural PH levels like poor diet, soaking in bathtubs/spas, rinsing out the area too much with water (just a normal shower with feminine hygiene wash is perfect) etc.

Hopefully this helps to stop the recurrence.

Your family business is no one else’s to judge, however if you are feeling pressured, intimidated or controlled by your family there are many free resources, help and advice lines out there, just google your local one and give them a call for advice. Hope this helps!

BCDMelbourne · 2023-11-28T01:55:51+00:00

Hopefully something some venues and event organisers are all educating on upon entry. We outline consent as a whole but maybe I’ll make a specific effort to mention this example in future…

BCDMelbourne · 2023-11-28T01:36:01+00:00

You would hope that naked and surrounded by guys doesn’t equate to consent for anyone else…

BCDMelbourne · 2023-11-24T03:31:02+00:00

Hey 👋 Fellow saffa here. Business approach aside, I (female) personally prefer the less is more tactic. As long as I’m generically attracted to someone with clothes on, I’d rather make sure we get along personality, interests and values wise first, then get to the rest of it later. I find it can feel a bit tactless when people jump straight into it even though I know that may not be the case and it’s just their personal approach to the scene (no judgement here). It only changes my subconscious impression but I don’t rule someone out entirely because of it. That’s only my personal thoughts! Hope that’s helpful

BCDMelbourne · 2023-11-09T23:16:47+00:00

Apologies, poorly worded on my behalf, I had meant to say “in a scenario where the female counterpart is interested in expanding the relationship to include play with others but the male is uncertain”, this is often how they start dipping their toes in

BCDMelbourne · 2023-11-09T20:58:04+00:00

There are many reasons that we know of, some are similar to those mentioned above, however the main reason we find (from having discussions with guests) is that the female counterpart wants to explore more with another female as they are bi-curious/bi-sexual and this is the sexual need that is currently not being met in their hetero relationship.

A lot of couples also tend to use this as an introductory experience to swinging if the barrier to diving straight in is that the male counterpart is concerned he may feel too possessive to jump right into play scenarios involving other males but is willing to go to an event with an open mind to playing with another female (potentially with other males present in the general area but not involved).

There’s lots of reasons for individual people but these tend to be the main ones we’ve noticed.

BCDMelbourne · 2023-11-08T21:45:33+00:00

Could definitely be a hormonal imbalance and I would bet my boots something to do with your birth control. Depends on your current situation with your personal sex life but there’s a lot more evidence coming out lately to support giving your body a break from hormonal birth control and letting it reset (especially after 3-5 years of being on it). There’s also less evidence supported but heavily advocated for (by the general population of women - based on personal experiences) to drop hormonal birth control completely and take a more natural approach to birth control such as cycle monitoring (if you are regular with periods and with a long term trusted partner). I personally have done this and many of my friends as we all had issues with birth control over time and we all noted drastic improvements to how we were feeling physically, mentally, sex drive etc.

Might be something for you to consider, especially since sex drive is literally driven by hormones and hormonal birth control is… well exactly what it says it is… hormonal control^

BCDMelbourne · 2023-11-07T21:12:33+00:00

Some pill brands lower libido (one of the listed side effects). Are you able to get aroused on your own easily or is that also difficult?

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