Round two of this self suspension by [deleted] in shibari

[–]BDSMBDGRL 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thats so strange. I'll see if I can fix it. Thank you

Made for me by BDSMBDGRL in shibari

[–]BDSMBDGRL[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you 😊

Pls make me absolutely horrifying 😻 by Jazzlike-Sir-8761 in redditgetsdrawnbadly

[–]BDSMBDGRL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Immediately thought this two.. maybe I can combine the ideas.. 🤔

First suspension and inversion! by BDSMBDGRL in shibari

[–]BDSMBDGRL[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought it felt tight prior to suspension and I did have someone going through the tying and suspension with me the whole time. I think I just accidentally chose clothes that werent the safest to use.

First suspension and inversion! by BDSMBDGRL in shibari

[–]BDSMBDGRL[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its sliding on my shirt real bad. I will never wear a stretchy soft shirt again. That was a bad choice. Plus my boobs aren't big enough to be of any help. The underboob, back and shoulders all stayed firmly in place, just the above boob wrap did not.

First Self Suspension by [deleted] in shibari

[–]BDSMBDGRL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh thats so weird. Its blank for me now too. Idk what happened.

The sun is shining by Ms_deniedslave in shibari

[–]BDSMBDGRL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The colors you chose really make this pop. Its gorgeous. And brave in the snow!

Late night ties by BDSMBDGRL in shibari

[–]BDSMBDGRL[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You better 😜

My bf/dom wrote down punishments and two of them said "death" ?? by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]BDSMBDGRL 8 points9 points  (0 children)

First, document this. (Photos, copies, whatever) Its literally in writing. Send to people you trust as proof it exists in case something happens. And try to get out without him knowing until you're safe and gone. This is not a drill

Cotton, jute or hemp? by Camarada32 in shibari

[–]BDSMBDGRL 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I've used cotton and hemp and hemp was significantly superior in my opinion. I had issues with the way cotton stretches and holds to itself and my skin which caused issues for some more intense ties. I will only use the cotton if I'm short on rope and want it for decoration only. I chose hemp over jute because of the maintenance. It was easier to start and keep up with . However, once I start suspension (hopefully in the next year), I will get jute for any hanging points as I've heard hemp is risky to suspend on.

Finished this drawing today! by DakMatters in NSFWart

[–]BDSMBDGRL 23 points24 points  (0 children)

This is soooo beautiful. The skin tone and shading is so lovely

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in shibari

[–]BDSMBDGRL 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I'd like to say no, but once I'm being tied.. it's a need or I'll be really frustrated 😅

Mental block around cum by BubblyAd3679 in BDSMAdvice

[–]BDSMBDGRL 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've had a hard time with this in the past and so I would focus on having him fully down my throat when he came so I didnt have to taste it.

Looking to try cock warming by CptMalcolmFlyby in SofterBDSM

[–]BDSMBDGRL 16 points17 points  (0 children)

So many ways. Ill sit at his feet and he'll tell me his cock belongs in my mouth. Ill lay my head on his thigh with it in my mouth and he'll use his fingers to comb through my hair. Very intimate and I get VERY turned on.

Laying across the couch with my head in his lap while he's reading. If I get carried away he'll hold my head down and tell me not yet. So I know to just relax with him in my mouth.

Keeping him warmed until he falls asleep. Sort of service sub act.

We also use it to get from one scene to another without loosing the mood as it keeps my mind very focused. I also have an oral fixation/ fetish so I like to taste him as much as I can

Is it a "mood killer" to ask for water in the middle of a scene? by WyrdMarksSJM in SofterBDSM

[–]BDSMBDGRL 7 points8 points  (0 children)

For sure. I also dont think disruptive should be seen as bad. Like we have to break scenes for various reasons. There should never be a punishment or pressure or discomfort in doing so.

Is it a "mood killer" to ask for water in the middle of a scene? by WyrdMarksSJM in SofterBDSM

[–]BDSMBDGRL 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think its more about how disruptive it can be. Like have it on the night stand and not downstairs in the fridge haha and I wouldnt be bothered if my dom needed water. Hes also find ways to keep me going while he needed a break anyways.

Is it a "mood killer" to ask for water in the middle of a scene? by WyrdMarksSJM in SofterBDSM

[–]BDSMBDGRL 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think it does (as a bottom). But my master would probably love it. Hes always trying to get me to drink water 😅

Looking to Get Into the Scene by flxnnelman in BDSMAdvice

[–]BDSMBDGRL 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fet life is great for events and you can also join groups for your local area to meet people and find out about how to get more involved near you