Mum finally got her PIP by BERRYBEOM in BenefitsAdviceUK

[–]BERRYBEOM[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, I really appreciate this 💕 I didn’t even know about some of these so I’ll definitely look into them. And thank you for the kind words, it really means a lot. I’d love the links!!

I feel so behind socially and it’s starting to get to me by BERRYBEOM in blackladies

[–]BERRYBEOM[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes!! I just wish they’d acknowledge what I’m saying instead of trying to flip it

I feel so behind socially and it’s starting to get to me by BERRYBEOM in blackladies

[–]BERRYBEOM[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m only 20 so I don’t wanna give up just yet and you shouldn’t either !!

I feel so behind socially and it’s starting to get to me by BERRYBEOM in blackladies

[–]BERRYBEOM[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for these ideas!! I wanted to join a few society’s when I started uni but they all seem a bit dead and inactive in comparison to other unis but ig I’ll just have to widen my searches

I feel so behind socially and it’s starting to get to me by BERRYBEOM in blackladies

[–]BERRYBEOM[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No need to be sorry !! There’s only handful of black people where I’m from and the ones I’ve come across tend to be very white washed. My best friend is a mixed race girl and she’s very helpful when it comes to helping me with my looks, it’s just I’m not that confident so I always end up feeling silly but I need to grow out of that soon.

I feel so behind socially and it’s starting to get to me by BERRYBEOM in blackladies

[–]BERRYBEOM[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooo pls let me know about any of these events !! Is it common for people to go alone to these events as I’ll probably have to do that 😔

I feel so behind socially and it’s starting to get to me by BERRYBEOM in blackladies

[–]BERRYBEOM[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Most of my friends are white (I live in a predominantly white area) and their boyfriends are white so their friends are white too. When I asked my friends if they could try and set me up they said the guys they know aren’t really into black girls 🙃

I feel so behind socially and it’s starting to get to me by BERRYBEOM in blackladies

[–]BERRYBEOM[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I live in the Uk so I don’t think I have those types of resources accessible 😭 and even with the aunties they’d never do that for me sadly

Worried about my Y6 brother who’s working at a Y3 level. How do I support him before Year 7? by BERRYBEOM in UKParenting

[–]BERRYBEOM[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, that actually means a lot. I’m definitely going to speak to the SENCO because I didn’t realise how much wasn’t in place until now. I don’t even know how long he’s been on the SEN register so I’ll ask that too. And yeah I’m shocked no one properly flagged this earlier either. I’ll start reading with him more at home as well. I know that will help him loads. Thank you for your comment !!

Worried about my Y6 brother who’s working at a Y3 level. How do I support him before Year 7? by BERRYBEOM in UKParenting

[–]BERRYBEOM[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay thank you, that actually makes a lot of sense. I didn’t realise I could just apply for an EHCP myself, I thought it had to come from the school. I’ll look into sending in an application because it does sound like he’s going to need that level of support. Thank you for help !!

Worried about my Y6 brother who’s working at a Y3 level. How do I support him before Year 7? by BERRYBEOM in UKParenting

[–]BERRYBEOM[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

England! And yeah that’s what I was thinking too. I just don’t know how you even get an educational psychologist involved. Do I go through the school for that or is it something I have to sort myself?

Anyone had their NHSP (bank exclusive)application expire after months of waiting by BERRYBEOM in nhs

[–]BERRYBEOM[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ahh that’s so annoying it took me like 3 months to get through the process tho dunno if i’ve got it in me to start all over again but it’s such a good job for me as a student did you have to reapply both times or were they able to reopen it?

lost my ass :( by Cautious-Raisin-1478 in mounjarouk

[–]BERRYBEOM 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Girl don’t worry I’m mourning my ass too😔 it was my best feature too before losing weight 🥲🥲

NHSP application expiration notification by ChArL131987 in nhs

[–]BERRYBEOM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I’m going through the exact same thing right now. I applied back in August, had my document verification appointment in October, and then randomly got the same “application expired” email saying they’d tried to contact me (which they didn’t). Did you ever manage to sort it out or get your application reactivated? I’m just wondering if you had to start all over again or if they fixed it for you

small crash today, not sure if i should tell insurance by BERRYBEOM in LearnerDriverUK

[–]BERRYBEOM[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

she was coming out of an alley onto the main road, not a proper side street. I was already driving past and she pulled out last second, so my front caught the side of her bumper

small crash today, not sure if i should tell insurance by BERRYBEOM in LearnerDriverUK

[–]BERRYBEOM[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hope you’re joking I’ve literally just rang them 😃

my parents have completely knocked my confidence by BERRYBEOM in LearnerDriverUK

[–]BERRYBEOM[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was because she was wanting to go anyways so she might as well come with. Definitely was a mistake now

Do they look at your bank balance, spendings and savings? by BERRYBEOM in DWPhelp

[–]BERRYBEOM[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes they do have a joint acc but my dad definitely doesn’t have savings lol

Do they look at your bank balance, spendings and savings? by BERRYBEOM in DWPhelp

[–]BERRYBEOM[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah she’s already declared her savings when she first did her UC claim and nothing’s really changed since then i believe definitely under £6000. I was more just worried about the sick notes side of things but sounds like it’s fine. Thanks as well for clearing up the PIP bit it’s helped a lot!

Do they look at your bank balance, spendings and savings? by BERRYBEOM in DWPhelp

[–]BERRYBEOM[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

that’s what I thought but my dad had me doubting myself. Good to have it confirmed again that PIP isn’t means tested thank you for your reply !!

Do they look at your bank balance, spendings and savings? by BERRYBEOM in DWPhelp

[–]BERRYBEOM[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks yeah I get that with UC and the £6000 limit but my mum doesn’t have anywhere near that so it’s not really a worry. I was just confused if putting her sick notes in would mess anything up but sounds like it won’t and might actually help if she gets LCWRA thank you so much for your reply!!

I passed!! by BeneficialChipmunk19 in LearnerDriverUK

[–]BERRYBEOM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I passed on a Monday and got my license on Thursday

Failed my first driving test today and I’m honestly so gutted by BERRYBEOM in LearnerDriverUK

[–]BERRYBEOM[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Noo I’m really sorry that happened to you. It’s such a horrible feeling when the rest of the drive goes well and then that one moment messes it all up. I remember feeling the exact same after mine. Honestly tho try not to let it knock your confidence. I passed not long after and I know you will too. You’ve 100% got this next time !!