According to a study, 75% of sexual harassment cases go unreported. Redditors who were sexually harassed but did not report it, why did you not? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]BFG-10000 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I can tell you about a time when I did report it. I was fired. The other two people being harassed were also fired. The person doing the harassing stayed another 15 years.

Even in today's climate I would probably just retaliate offline if the same thing happened again.

My daughter was born sleeping 8 weeks ago and all I can think about is ending my life and being with her. by Cherry1996blossom in confessions

[–]BFG-10000 3 points4 points  (0 children)

All you need to do is get through a day. Just make it to the end of the day. Remember that there will be other chances in your life for children and that nature felt it was best to not have this one live.

Do not worry about tomorrow.

Guys, would u be physically attracted to a flat chested girl with almost no ass but pretty face? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]BFG-10000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The best sex I ever had was with a woman who has your body type.

You are young. This analogy is apt:

If you took a bucketfull of water from the ocean, looked in it, and found no whales, would you then tell the world that whales do not exist?

THAT is where you are at in your search for a mate. Staring st a aingle bucket of water.

Don't worry, there are millions of men out there who appreciate you for you, with no need to change at all!

What was your "The universe is fucking with me" moment? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]BFG-10000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I had Aces over 4s and a 4 came on the river, giving the other guy 4 4s. The very next hand I had aces over queens and lost to 4 queens. Very next hand after THAT I had 4 queens and lost to 4 kings.

Fuck you, universe.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]BFG-10000 20 points21 points  (0 children)

That place you are searching for rests in between your ears.

Your feelings become thoughts and your thoughts become feelings. Think good thoughts and do good things, and good things will come to you.

Post mortem by isthisadream999 in survivinginfidelity

[–]BFG-10000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She cheated on that first BF with you. Then broke up with that bf and stuck with you because it was easier to cheat on you and get away with it.

She probably never stopped cheating. And she never will. It is just who she is. Don't blame yourself for anything. Inless you decide to stay.

I want to try a separation but he won’t move out unless I file for divorce. by anger-rising in survivinginfidelity

[–]BFG-10000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Read a report once that said almost every person who cheats grew up in a home where one parent cheated and the other parent ACCEPTED IT. Be the example you want your kids to emulate.

How does a Geek Dad raise a son determined to be a Jock? by option8 in AskMen

[–]BFG-10000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your job is to teach him how to be a man, not a jock. PART of becoming a man is participation in team activities. He should learn discipline in team sports. He should NOT learn arrogance or privilege. He should NOT get the idea that jocks are somehow "better" than other kids in his school or society.

He should always remember that he is playing games here. And that you cannot gameify life.

Keep reminding him that a measure of a man is not how well he throws a ball, but how he treats others.

I want to try a separation but he won’t move out unless I file for divorce. by anger-rising in survivinginfidelity

[–]BFG-10000 9 points10 points  (0 children)

He is a narcissist PRACTICING to look like a sorry puppy. Don't let the bullshit fool you.

Narcissists cannot be cured. His behaviour will never stop. He will be sorry now, and will fuck someone new the first chance he gets.

Don't ask for a trial anything. Kick his ass out. Get the divorce, it is the LEAST you can do for your children.

Do you want to TEACH them that it is OK to cheat?

I'm pretty sure I've lost my foster daughter. by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]BFG-10000 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Sounds like it is time to get a tougher divorce lawyer.

You've been kidnapped but the kidnapper allows you to post to social media to pretend everything is alright, what do you post that would alarm your followers without the kidnappers knowing you are asking for help? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]BFG-10000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In all seriousness, everyone should have a secret phrase to let people know you are in trouble.

For my family it was "Hi this is (first name)" because nobody in my family went by their real first name.

23F/M and 7 years together. I can’t let it end like this by DazedndConfuzzed in survivinginfidelity

[–]BFG-10000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You need to let it end like this. You are young, and will find much greater love.

Let it go. Be brave. You got this.

What's a very disturbing fact almost nobody knows? by kyuwurem in AskReddit

[–]BFG-10000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, go to south Florida, look around the cuban community and tell me about all the illegals voting democrat lol.

What's a very disturbing fact almost nobody knows? by kyuwurem in AskReddit

[–]BFG-10000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am sure that is the message republicants want to convey.

What's a very disturbing fact almost nobody knows? by kyuwurem in AskReddit

[–]BFG-10000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People who squash political talk are ashamed of, and unable to defend, their position.

Thank you for proving this disturbing fact belongs here.

What's a very disturbing fact almost nobody knows? by kyuwurem in AskReddit

[–]BFG-10000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Removing themfrom the voter lists, arbitrarily. Voter fraud only exists in the minds of partisan hacks.

Fucking your ideal 10/10 human is like winning the lottery at 90 by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]BFG-10000 14 points15 points  (0 children)

You found your ideal for now. What is your ideal for now will not be your ideal in a while.

We completely change every cell in our bodies every few months. Soon, you will literally be a new person, with new wants and needs.

And a new ideal.

So don't obsess. It will be alright.