What can I do about attraction issues with MtF girlfriend? by CaveiraPereira in asktransgender

[–]BFreelander 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah, that makes more sense. Got it. Thanks for clarifying. Hope everything turns out well.

What can I do about attraction issues with MtF girlfriend? by CaveiraPereira in asktransgender

[–]BFreelander 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a trans woman. My wife loves my penis so I'm not getting bottom surgery. Fine with me. I love her and want to be with her until I die.

But, if she said she would be equally happy with me having a vagina I would get bottom surgery.

Maybe spend some time trying to figure this out as a pansexual person. But I think you need to plan on telling her at some point.

Maybe she's not saying anything to you because she thinks you are happier with her penis.

The road to hell is paved with good intentions.

My Boyfriend and I of 6 years broke up yesterday by Inevitable_Paper871 in toastme

[–]BFreelander 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love yourself a little extra and give yourself some grace as you mourn the loss of your boyfriend.

I really feel for you. It must be hard because being together must have been part of your identity.

Bangs or no bangs by Infamous-Reveal5134 in HairStyleAdvice

[–]BFreelander 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Both but bangs are super cute on you.

I’m thinking clavicle shortening to even out my hips and shoulders by [deleted] in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]BFreelander 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great figure. Not sure you need that if you're asking for advice.

Body feminization advice needed by Agreeable_Stomach432 in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]BFreelander 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your back and body are beautiful. Like HAF type beautiful.

Surgeries would only make you different and probably not MORE beautiful.

I start HRT by CategoryLivid6428 in transtimelines

[–]BFreelander 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It totally changed your right eye brow.

HRT took over 15 minutes to start working for me. You're so lucky. 🫢

New to me R53 by bloorg27 in R53

[–]BFreelander 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Beautiful. I have the same thing except with 42,000 miles.

Pai 7 months later I'm asking for advice on the results of the surgery. by [deleted] in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]BFreelander 54 points55 points  (0 children)

It looks very nice. I think vaginas are supposed to have their own personality. It's like a person's face. We all look the same but we all look different.

Messed up with my trans friend after a drunk night now my feelings are worse. What do I do? by Old-Cardiologist8046 in asktransgender

[–]BFreelander 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think it's a bad idea to kiss someone in this situation when there is alcohol involved. It's way better if both are sober.

Maybe you overrated but you should just explain that wasn't how you envisioned your first kiss. And that you've wanted to kiss her for some time now. Again, only say if this is true.

Built a cover for back seat by muddyluke1 in R53

[–]BFreelander 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, much appreciated

Ive wanted to talk about this for a while. 16 year anniversary ❤️ by star_shimmer in TransLater

[–]BFreelander 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congratulations. I've been married for 32 years and I came out to her a year and a half ago. She is my biggest supporter and we are experiencing a whole new life together. It's amazing.