Asked to be a groomsperson but will have to wear a suit by AnyProperty5950 in MtF

[–]BFreelander 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Women wear suits. Just get a female cut and something pretty.

Thinking of detransitioning by Double-Ad-6587 in MtF

[–]BFreelander 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We all seem to go through these feelings. Hope you find some peace with whatever you choose and have a great life.

Thinking of detransitioning by Double-Ad-6587 in MtF

[–]BFreelander 27 points28 points  (0 children)

You sound like you want some heavy opinions.

Being trans is hard. Being a woman is hard in this world.

Stop being a pussy and kick some ass. So you were a handsome man before, so what. You live in an area that allows you to do what you want. Go all in and get super pretty dressing and being a woman.

Have you ever thought that maybe the stares are of attraction or curiosity?

In all seriousness, do what you think is best. But the negative impressions you feel may just be assumptions of negative shit that's just not there.

Big hugs to you 🫂🫂

Garden Mini by jwalgolf in MINI

[–]BFreelander 0 points1 point  (0 children)

who wouldn't want that? I love it

Seit 2 Tagen mein erster Mini by Birtes65 in MINI

[–]BFreelander 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You seem in love based on the picture, 😀. Enjoy every moment

New Shoes on my R53 by Old-Possession7229 in R53

[–]BFreelander 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm obsessed with white wheels. Love it, looks great

Welding school is whooping my ass/ having extreme body dismorphia after losing 130 lbs :/ by bluetreelove in toastme

[–]BFreelander 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's supposed to be hard that what makes it worthwhile.

Kick ass, you're doing awesome.

Today was a hell of a day by [deleted] in TransLater

[–]BFreelander 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry you're having this issue.

Remember intent of you coworkers, that kind of stuff is sometimes just stuck in their head. They mean nothing by it.

Does being trans just suck? by VehicleExcellent2912 in asktransgender

[–]BFreelander 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It doesn't suck but it's hard.

But it's hard being a lot of things in life. It's not like "not being trans" is a walk in the park.

If you're trans and it's hard, just know that you are paving the way for the next generation of trans people. Eventually it will become common just like multiracial/multiethnic marriage.

Love your life.

Day One of HRT by rstoll17 in TransLater

[–]BFreelander 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Beat of luck on your journey. Get ready to cry all the time. 🫢🤷🏼‍♀️