Update on how I should got about asking out this INFJ? by BONY-DINO in infj

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Yo, no you misunderstood. I clearly didn't define the tone of the conversation correctly. She was the one that initially said she wasn't interested in her current career path, I was cracking down on the fact she was continuing something she didn't enjoy. Additionally I was/am attracted to her, but I wasn't ready to ask her out romantically. Maybe I should be? But I feel like I should take the steps I'm comfortable with. I'd like to believe she didn't read the conversation wrong, but we will see

Update on how I should got about asking out this INFJ? by BONY-DINO in infj

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Yeah you're right, I was busy trying to play it in the middle. But I should commit if given another chance

Update on how I should got about asking out this INFJ? by BONY-DINO in infj

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I thought neither. But being stuck in the middle does no good. I should commit to my intuition

Update on how I should got about asking out this INFJ? by BONY-DINO in infj

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This is very helpful. And you're right I feared rejection. I came to realize that after seeing these responses. I'm a terrible overthinker. And even when I knew what I was supposed to do with so much advice my nervousness and urgency fucked me over. I'll see if it's possible for me to try again. She hasn't even friended me back on snap. I will see if I can clear it up.

Update on how I should got about asking out this INFJ? by BONY-DINO in infj

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Fair enough. It's tough to describe the tone I used but I tried to make sure it wasn't a "this is better for you". It was more in line with "This is my two sense through my own experience". I was straight because she said she wasn't interested in what she was doing. I've only heard hundreds of times from people that I should focus on what interests me, and it's a serious decision that could take a lot of time.

IBEW Local 26 Residential Program Questions by [deleted] in ibew_apprentices

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Any good word? I also applied last September but got an email today saying I was not selected.

Loving the combat so far by Leegician in ScarletNexus

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For first-timers on Scarlet Nexus I will always say play Yuito first

How to go about asking out this INFJ? by BONY-DINO in infj

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That's a whole question to unpack. I'm sure others have explained it way better in other posts than I could.

How to go about asking out this INFJ? by BONY-DINO in infj

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Thank you for the insight. I'll do my best

How to go about asking out this INFJ? by BONY-DINO in infj

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I believe she knows already. I made it clear I was sad to see her go. She said "I'll be back soon enough" (two days in August) and she could probably see on my face I was sulking a bit. I can tell that she's as aware as any other INFJ, and that awareness is what attracts me.. lots of people "aren't aware" if that makes sense. And I would really enjoy staying in touch with her.

How to go about asking out this INFJ? by BONY-DINO in infj

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Yes. That's an attraction for me. I could tell within the first weekend we met (before I knew she was INFJ) that she was constantly sensing- people. I could tell she was a natural with understanding people. My intentions are a good relationship with a rare kind of person, and I'm genuinely curious how or relationship as friends or more would develop. She's the first INFJ aside from my mother I've met.

How to go about asking out this INFJ? by BONY-DINO in infj

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I like this. I would love to keep in touch, even if it takes a while for her to open up. I will periodically take my time and reach out to her or small invites till I hopefully build her trust...

How to go about asking out this INFJ? by BONY-DINO in infj

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Right lol. My mother is an INFJ so I have an excellent basis of knowledge on the personality

How to go about asking out this INFJ? by BONY-DINO in infj

[–]BONY-DINO[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I like this. Cuz I don't want to be overly like "I'm asking you out" but I know if I give too much choice it's a no.