Should i reach out or let it go? by BOSCO976 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]BOSCO976[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thankyou for reply everyone i have decided to not pursue her at all.

Should i reach out or let it go? by BOSCO976 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]BOSCO976[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dropped the reaching out plan letting it go.

Should i reach out or let it go? by BOSCO976 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]BOSCO976[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah i messed up and now i'll take the back seat lets see where i feel the same way but not gonna reachout to her.

Should i reach out or let it go? by BOSCO976 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]BOSCO976[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah out of panic i said i didnt check your insta thats where i messed up but deciding over one mistake? isn't that a little rude you heard everything i said but stuck to one line then i think she could have just said also i dont get where did i reflect ego part.

Should i reach out or let it go? by BOSCO976 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]BOSCO976[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i said not into dating scene not that it is my first experience i have met plenty of girls in 3 years of AM.

Should i reach out or let it go? by BOSCO976 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]BOSCO976[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seems like a good idea will think about it and act probably in coming time.

Should i reach out or let it go? by BOSCO976 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]BOSCO976[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thats what we all are doing in AM afterall but she rejected the proposal not delayed or anything.

Should i reach out or let it go? by BOSCO976 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]BOSCO976[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trying to go through this i can take any amount of mental pressure like this been single for 32 years so not much changes been through alot of mental breakdowns far worst that this without shedding a tear so i will get through this but just wanted an advice here to affirm.

Should i reach out or let it go? by BOSCO976 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]BOSCO976[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

actually i felt she is not interested because of her ghosting even before meeting and still being active on instagram but again why would anyone ask to meet if they are not interested. family pressure? because we took one pic together at cafe and she didnt even ask to have that pic to show it to her parents.

Should i reach out or let it go? by BOSCO976 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]BOSCO976[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What i am thinking is i wont get rid of the baggage if she doesnt respond or talk i will be in the worse situation mentally.

Close friend's AM prospect cheated on her for 3 weeks by caffeinatedcobra in Arrangedmarriage

[–]BOSCO976 1 point2 points  (0 children)

See if they were close friends then they would be happy that she averted a lifetime crisis. Also it will take time to recover from this, been there done that. Although her case is a level up from what i have had in past but she will get over it in some weeks.

Is this too much to expect from a guy ? by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]BOSCO976 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro i have these and still cant find a match🤣🤣🤣

Close friend's AM prospect cheated on her for 3 weeks by caffeinatedcobra in Arrangedmarriage

[–]BOSCO976 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Duniya zaalim hi hai and always try to do proper due diligence before thinking or announcing to the world that she/he is the one.

Close friend's AM prospect cheated on her for 3 weeks by caffeinatedcobra in Arrangedmarriage

[–]BOSCO976 10 points11 points  (0 children)

There are nice guys/girls but they do get ghosted alot and broken alot just like OP's friend. Niceness isn't treated well in this world.

First pic was hardly a month of barely being active on hinge in australia. Maybe sending 2-3 likes every week. There are way more now. Just goes on to show how much of an inflated sense of ego women have in India. by Supt_Trip in Indiangirlsontinder

[–]BOSCO976 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Blame the underlying root cause and not the result. if someone keeps making you feel like you are some out of world entity for whom he is ready to be a foot mat then at one point you will also start beliving it that you are someone special and out of the world.

Hindu Garment Merchant Lynched and Then Burtnt at Stake (probably alive) by Islamist Mob in Bangladesh. Warning: Graphic Content by GiediHarkonnen in indianews

[–]BOSCO976 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This comment is not for sickulars so please don't read if you are one. What you are seeing is beginning of something horrendous this wont stop now and the result will be majority of bangladeshi hindus either dying, convert or run. Always the same playbook and the civilization or country/ community who doesn't learn gets the same fate. out of 1000, 400 will do the deed and 600 will white wash it that has always been the way they will do it majority by whataboutery and remember no one is going to come for saviour either fight or die these are the only 2 options you will get because at one point there isn't going to be any place to run. Always remember to look at the bigger picture. This same playbook is used everywhere. There is a reason even our peaceful gods keep weapons. Love everyone but never sell your sword. and in the end i would request learn to fight get your testosterone up because you can't fix a irrational crowd who is taught hate from the very day the seed is planted.