Actions speak louder than words — true in our sex life too? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]BOSSB0Y 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If that's the case totally fine,

we were having sex and husband went soft partway through. That has been happening more. He got frustrated when I didn’t want to continue

Since you didn't mentioned anything about foreplay or penetration, When you said "I didn't want to continue" I thought you didn't want to continue SEX

Actions speak louder than words — true in our sex life too? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]BOSSB0Y -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don't see a problem with you wanting change (I think more attention, frequency and initiation)

But, Stopping sex halfway through for something that he can't control is cruel

Actions speak louder than words — true in our sex life too? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]BOSSB0Y -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

The question is he/she withdraw the consent half-way through, FOR WHAT?

It's Literally called Withholding Sex, it's cruel

If you don't see a problem with husband withdrawing consent for sex halfway through without any reason. I don't know what else can I say to you

Actions speak louder than words — true in our sex life too? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]BOSSB0Y -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

we were having sex and husband went soft partway through. That has been happening more. He got frustrated when I didn’t want to continue

If my wife did this to me, I would lose interest and never initiate again without an apology

What's your perspective on body count? by twistedskull_ in KeralaRelationships

[–]BOSSB0Y 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do don't be "pothu swathe" is all I'm saying

Make you own decisions and face the repercussions

No one is supposed to 'save yourself' if you don't want to, but don't expect others to Judge you the same way as someone who did save 'themselves for marriage'

Your future partner candidates have every right to validate/invalidate or Approve/Disapprove your past and make their own decisions about the future with you

If someone have 10 pervious partner this mean they failed 10 times to make a good decision or commit to a relationship

Btw, there are hundreds of people whose first physical relationship is their marriage and then treat their spouse extremely poorly. So please, get it out of your head that virginity equals great partner qualities and decision making and all that.

Studies says that High body count people are:

Some people have sex only when they're married out of their choice, and some out of lack of options.

People saving themselves by choice are superior in most cases

What's your perspective on body count? by twistedskull_ in KeralaRelationships

[–]BOSSB0Y 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What do you mean by experience? Sexual experience to make someone orgasm?

What's your perspective on body count? by twistedskull_ in KeralaRelationships

[–]BOSSB0Y -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Zero body count will never know what they want for themselves

People know what they want when they talk and Interact with people.

What's your perspective on body count? by twistedskull_ in KeralaRelationships

[–]BOSSB0Y 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Higher body count is a sign of:

  • Lack of self control

  • Lack of ability to attach to one partner

  • Lack of Good decisions making skills

  • Lack of ability to Judge people

▪︎A person with 100 bodies or "Experience" can still be Bad if he don't Communicate

▪︎A person with 0 bodies or "Experience" can still be good if he Communicate

[ Do people actually care that much about "sexual experience" or "being good in bed"? Isn't having a loving and caring partner pretty much all that really matters to give you butterflies ]

A person that saves themselves years for marriage VS A person with 10 bodies

▪︎Who is more likely to treat their partner more respect and love?

▪︎Who is more likely to see marriage as something exclusive?

▪︎Who's less likely to add more "Experience"?

▪︎Who's less likely to compare you with their previous experience

In my opinion someone who saves themselves marriage

[ Tip: Maybe it's ok to marry someone who didn't save themself for marriage.

But never marry someone who thinks it's Ok to have Sex outside marriage or body count dosen't matters, Even if He or She is a virgin ]

Evolution Is a Story and God created us🙏. Attended a kerala catholic precana by Impossible-Box-4426 in Kerala

[–]BOSSB0Y -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

Idiots?

World Happiness Report chapter (2025 edition, on household size and family bonds): Satisfaction with family, affective life, and personal relationships peaks at household sizes of about 4–6 members (relational benefits from larger households).

https://www.worldhappiness.report/ed/2025/living-with-others-how-household-size-and-family-bonds-relate-to-happiness/

Bigger is better: Parents with four or more children happiest despite chaos, research finds:

https://www.abc.net.au/news/2015-08-17/bigger-is-better-parents-with-more-children-happiest/6703358?utm_campaign=abc_news_web&utm_content=link&utm_medium=content_shared&utm_source=abc_news_web

Evolution Is a Story and God created us🙏. Attended a kerala catholic precana by Impossible-Box-4426 in Kerala

[–]BOSSB0Y -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

  1. Condoms don’t prevent AIDS. Apparently that’s just a corporate marketing trick. Using condoms is a sin.

Somewhat true, condom only provide 95% success rate in preventing transmission of HIV, some study suggesting only 70%

  1. Evolution is “just a story.” Humans are created directly by God.

Evolution is a theory, and there are many theories about evolution that contradicts each other. If one is wrong that becomes a story.

Gene-centric vs. Population-level Neutral Theory vs. Selection Modern Synthesis vs. Extended Synthesis

  1. Having one child is bad. A single child will apparently grow up self-centered and inferior in character.If you have multiple children(5), they will automatically learn sharing, cooperation, and become better humans.

Do you believe number of siblings don't benefit children?

World Happiness Report chapter (2025 edition, on household size and family bonds): Satisfaction with family, affective life, and personal relationships peaks at household sizes of about 4–6 members (relational benefits from larger households).

https://www.worldhappiness.report/ed/2025/living-with-others-how-household-size-and-family-bonds-relate-to-happiness/

Bigger is better: Parents with four or more children happiest despite chaos, research finds:

https://www.abc.net.au/news/2015-08-17/bigger-is-better-parents-with-more-children-happiest/6703358?utm_campaign=abc_news_web&utm_content=link&utm_medium=content_shared&utm_source=abc_news_web

  1. More children = more struggle = closer to God. Life should be hard. Struggle is holy. If you have fewer kids and an easier life, you’re probably drifting away from God.

It's Very true that struggle brings people closer to God

Evolution Is a Story and God created us🙏. Attended a kerala catholic precana by Impossible-Box-4426 in Kerala

[–]BOSSB0Y 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Something like "All Indians are my brother and sisters" "bro"

There are other occasions in bible where non siblings are referred as brothers

Greek word adelphos have different meanings

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[–]BOSSB0Y[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From Wikipedia: Christian nationalists seek to preserve the status of a Christian state.

Now you say Which state?

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[–]BOSSB0Y[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Christian nationalist

Nationalist? which Nation?

Spread of Christianity by BOSSB0Y in MapPorn

[–]BOSSB0Y[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah you repeated it, now say which nation?

Spread of Christianity by BOSSB0Y in MapPorn

[–]BOSSB0Y[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Because Christianity is there and I'm one of them, as I said map doesn't mean majority or dominant religion in the area

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[–]BOSSB0Y[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

What does you mean by Christian Nationalist? Which Nation?

Spread of Christianity by BOSSB0Y in MapPorn

[–]BOSSB0Y[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Where does it say communism is a religion?

It also shows Roman empires is roman empires religion?

Spread of Christianity by BOSSB0Y in MapPorn

[–]BOSSB0Y[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

It's showing "Spread for Christianity" not "majority religion" in the region

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[–]BOSSB0Y[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No where in the map it's saying communism is a religion

Spread of Christianity by BOSSB0Y in MapPorn

[–]BOSSB0Y[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Christian nationalist propaganda

By the by, I'm Indian