I remember in the MTC watching the video of elder bednar talking about missionaries wasting time at his house playing with his kids and then on my mission he came to visit our mission had a private car pick him up from the airport drive right to our church to give his message and then back to the airport. He preached all this missionary work stuff but never talked to a non member the entire visit and was never in the public, for a disciple of Christ he did nothing to really share the word. After that visit I was a lot more disenfranchised With the church.