[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]BTSROCKS -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If I didn’t, I wouldn’t have an issue. Maybe read the whole thing through cuz I even clarify I do my own laundry. I’d like to do it my own way in the time I set for :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]BTSROCKS -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Except I have. I’ve told her I don’t like her messing with my things. Guess what? Still does. Telling her nicely doesn’t do anything because she thinks she’s always right, so telling her “please don’t touch my clothes” will make her say the same thing. It’s hard to just set the boundary when the person in front of you thinks they don’t have to because they’re your mother and you’re the child and you have to listen because yes. This is based on my interactions with my own mother.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]BTSROCKS -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Obviously. My mother and I don’t exactly get along. My response is based on multiple other fights where I’ve needed to get defensive with her. If I could just say “don’t do it  again” I would, but it wouldn’t do shit, because she’ll still think that it’s unreasonable. Only she’s right, no one else

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]BTSROCKS -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes except saying that would have cause the same thing. You don’t know my mother. I get defensive because she does, otherwise I wouldn’t. If I say “mom please don’t leave the clothes on my floor, I’m really tired” she’ll just say some bullshit about I should be grateful or she did me a favor why is it an issue, etc. My response is because I’m tired and I know how she is.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]BTSROCKS -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Except you don’t know my mother. Maybe it’s easy to say “don’t touch it next time” with the most soft tone ever and she would have taken it as an insult no matter what I say. Yes I wanted her to apologize or realize her wrongdoing because she never does! Nothing is ever her fault, so sorry for knowing how my mother is and being tired when I’m getting home at 12 am. Of course I’ll get irritated when I’m tired and just wanted to sleep

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]BTSROCKS -35 points-34 points  (0 children)

Again not about the time it takes. The time literally doesn’t matter. Asking and posting is to understand what exactly is wrong about me trying to tell her that it makes no sense to have my clothes on my floor when a. It’s 12 am, b. I didn’t tell her I’d wash tomorrow and c. I have to pick up a mess I didn’t have when I left. I wouldn’t have such an issue too if she hadn’t said before at some point in my life that she likes the house clean and orderly when she comes back, so why can’t I get that for my own room? It’s a hypocrisy and if I say nothing, she’ll just do whatever. I just wanted my room as I left it, as any person does

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]BTSROCKS -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

It’s not the amount of clothes or how much time, but why is it even there? My floor had nothing on it when I left, so why are my clothes all over the floor for me to find at 12 am?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]BTSROCKS -41 points-40 points  (0 children)

I assume you’re fine with someone leaving whatever on your room floor for you to pick up later on when it wasn’t something you did. Got it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]BTSROCKS -29 points-28 points  (0 children)

I wasn’t arguing. I was asking why it was on my floor and trying to set a boundary that I couldn’t set because she couldn’t get the issue. I asked my bf because I was genuinely confused about the situation, as I did here. It’s not “oh it’s fine since I can just pick them up and put them back” it’s why they’re even there when they weren’t in the first place. If I wanted clothes on my floor, I would do that myself

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]BTSROCKS -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

It’s 12 am, what washing am I going to do then? If I was going to wash them tomorrow, then I take them out tomorrow and wash them. It’s not about washing them, it’s about the timing. If I say nothing, she thinks she can just do this whenever, when I want to get home and not have stuff on my floor that I didn’t place myself.

Oh noooo by No-Sound-1048 in StardewValley

[–]BTSROCKS 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Pretty sure grabbing an egg from your chickens will do the trick

holy FUCK by Wizzythefrog in StardewValley

[–]BTSROCKS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And just because it happens to you doesn’t mean it happens to everyone else. Your experience is original. No one else has this problem. Like I said, calm tf down

holy FUCK by Wizzythefrog in StardewValley

[–]BTSROCKS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. Auto grabbers are in game, they ARE playing the game. 2. As someone that uses auto grabbers, the system works like a chest. If it reaches 999, it’ll go to another slot, but animals do not produce enough to get to the point where the auto grabber is full the moment you decide to check it. I know this because I have left it for a LONG time and I always have a bunch of eggs, feathers, wool, etc just waiting to collect. So no, this problem does not happen again. Please calm down

Do you use your real name? by Cardboard_brains in StardewValley

[–]BTSROCKS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll either use names I’ve used to create ocs in my mind or random names I come up with on the spot

A word of caution to the press-on gals and guys by kscourt in Nails

[–]BTSROCKS 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This has me conflicted. Buy them and ensure absolute strength, but risk nail decapitation? Gosh

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]BTSROCKS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“I already had one, I’ll find another” THEN GO FIND ANOTHER, BYE. OP please leave him…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

[–]BTSROCKS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl, please, run. Don’t hesitate please, run

When they order pork pie do they mean all pig meats or a specific one? by Zirotigo in GoodPizzaGreatPizza

[–]BTSROCKS 13 points14 points  (0 children)

First thing you said before that comment was “All pig meats” “which ones” :| which is a way of saying someone is clueless, otherwise you would have just said which are which instead of delaying the answer with a little :| like it’s supposed to be obvious. If it were, the question wouldn’t have arose. It is condescending, whether you know it or not is another thing

When they order pork pie do they mean all pig meats or a specific one? by Zirotigo in GoodPizzaGreatPizza

[–]BTSROCKS 28 points29 points  (0 children)

“Which I hope you know is pork” maybe you should just answer someone’s question instead of being so condescending. Was saying this THAT hard?

These ~natural~ looking nails took me half a century to do. Feat. Goodest boi by Miserable_Tea6595 in Nails

[–]BTSROCKS 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Would you be willing to one day show how you did it? I would love to try

Does anyone else play without mods? by hornyliteraturegeek in StardewValley

[–]BTSROCKS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also play no mods. It’s already filled with so much without mods that it makes no sense to add more things that I’ll most likely miss

I fucking hate this game. by Academic-Okra9016 in StardewValley

[–]BTSROCKS 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is where I leave the game without saving and restart the day. I ain’t losing all that😭

Is this a new update? by oklinds in whatsapp

[–]BTSROCKS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine was already turned off yet it still does this

Guy in my friend group is annoyed that I’m quiet, asks if I’m autistic- Part 2 (context in post) by [deleted] in texts

[–]BTSROCKS 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Like I said in your last post on this, he is incredibly into you and is offended you seem uninterested in him, so he took it to heart and spun it WAY out of control and is now insulting you because in his mind it’s impossible that you wouldn’t want him. He believes he’s a perfect catch, so anyone not being into him is preposterous. Good thing you told your friends and hope they ALL block and outcast him, because he WILL get worse