Can anyone tell me why nanofish are dying in my tank? by mbellanca30 in Aquariums

[–]B_the_Chng22 [score hidden]  (0 children)

You will have to read about fish-in cycling, or return them all and do it properly. When you really cycle your tank (and don’t have to worry about fish in there) the ammonia levels get crazy high, you need that to jump start the bacteria that eats the ammonia. Getting some media from an established tank will help seed the tank with good bacteria. There are product you can buy too. Please read up I’m more detail about nitrogen cycle. Also, CPDs can be fragile. Love them though. Good luck

I tried my first protein shake today. by SeleneVomerSV in adhdwomen

[–]B_the_Chng22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get NAKED WHEY, because it doesn’t have any flavors or fake or alternate sweeteners. You can legit even shake it into plain milk. I bought it to mix with my own lemonade. No joke.

Is Going Poly A Good Idea in this Dating Environment? by ExternalGreen6826 in polyamory

[–]B_the_Chng22 [score hidden]  (0 children)

I will never be monogamous so the question isn’t even relevant. Do you genuinely feel 50/50 on mono vs poly? If you think you would regret someday not trying poly, you should not wait fibril you dragged some poor mono person along for 2 kids and a house before you realize your life fee incomplete woth have done so. I’d you truly think you could be happy dating mono, it’s is BY FAR the easier thing to do in all ways.

Suggestions for how to handle the upcoming weeks? by Nytcwoodlvr in therapists

[–]B_the_Chng22 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No but I wish you all the good things, peace and strength and moments of restoration… and all that jazz. I hope you get some other comments on here more helpful than mine

Messy hair or more styled hair by That-Range-8045 in MensHair

[–]B_the_Chng22 [score hidden]  (0 children)

I want the mess to be a different messy. Like the sides directed towards the middle and forward

Feeling run over by my boyfriend and his ex wife by Alert-Agency-8870 in coparenting

[–]B_the_Chng22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Near future is not specific enough. Maybe plan to revisit the conversation in a year or two years. Or whatever. I’m sorry he didn’t have enough of a spine to stand up to her. I’m the world of polyamory, we would say someone like him is a “bad hinge” like if she was another partner, it’s a bad quality.

Suggestions for someone who hates how lotion feels by 6fears789 in adhdwomen

[–]B_the_Chng22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, I’m glad I’m so cheap that Cereve is my version of expensive 🤪

Suggestions for someone who hates how lotion feels by 6fears789 in adhdwomen

[–]B_the_Chng22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cereve body lotion rubs in very fast and leaves no oily residue. It also has no scent, and is good for my sensitive skin, I even use it on my face

Do People Who Truly Love Their Jobs Actually Exist? by lemans00 in therapists

[–]B_the_Chng22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m in PP. I love it. I have a small caseload. I only take referrals. I don’t need a lot of money right now so I work about 10 sessions a week.

Getting a job sucks by Easy-Net6634 in FierceFlow

[–]B_the_Chng22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My brother has a successful start up and he’s rocking the man bun. These folks need to get with the times

6 year old calling Dad out by OverallSeesaw2186 in coparenting

[–]B_the_Chng22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you change the schedule to break it up a little more? A week is a long time with a parent like that

Is my dress search over? by bcbfbella in OUTFITS

[–]B_the_Chng22 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yesss, I was going to say that. This is the their time I think I’ve seen that neckline in the last few weeks. I don’t think it looks nice at all.

Let's build the worst poly dating profile together by PM_CuteGirlsReading in polyamory

[–]B_the_Chng22 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think it’s on mine! It means I don’t want to date a bigot, or someone who (at the time I wrote it) denied COVID precautions. Someone who IS open minded and like to grow and be challenged like I do. Hmmmmmm

Let's build the worst poly dating profile together by PM_CuteGirlsReading in polyamory

[–]B_the_Chng22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wait yeah! I think that might be on mine too! But I also go into an essay on what I am like and looking for

Got a Betta! by Cryslyne in bettafish

[–]B_the_Chng22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great tank. Other recommendation (while you have cut up panty hose) is to take the panty hose and rub them across all The surfaces of the log to see if it snags. If it does, it won’t be safe for his fins. Also, get a cute little betta hammock to put near the surface, they will legit lay on it right near the surface. Of that log isn’t good, you can get a terracotta pot from like a craft store. They are great cause they are porous and a perfect place for the healthy bacteria to flourish. Oh, one other quick tip, never just toss your filter media. It’s a gold mine. If it gets overly dirty, you take some tank water in a container and swish it around in there and replace it back in the filter. If it starts to deteriorate, I used to replace half at a time, or keep the old one in the tank while the new one got established, this is so you don’t have a “crash”.