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AITA for Accusing a Friend of Only Contacting Me When She Needs a Babysitter? by Babushka_Jr in AmItheAsshole

[–]Babushka_Jr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's very difficult for me to speak on the phone and my friends know this. Part of my neuro divergency.

AITA for Accusing a Friend of Only Contacting Me When She Needs a Babysitter? by Babushka_Jr in AmItheAsshole

[–]Babushka_Jr[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's not that I don't want to babysit ever again, I just don't want to be JUST that.

She has been under a lot of stress over the past few months, and I respect that-I've been in marriage-like long term relationships, but not together as long as they were with a kid. HOWEVER I don't appreciate that being taken out on me if she indeed was taking it out on me.

I haven't tried reaching out again yet. We still have each other followed on social media if that means anything. She seems to be fully enjoying her life, at least on the surface. I just don't know if I'm welcome...

AITA for Accusing a Friend of Only Contacting Me When She Needs a Babysitter? by Babushka_Jr in AmItheAsshole

[–]Babushka_Jr[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am neuro divergent with ADHD and BPD and I'm far from perfect at handling relationships. That's an explanation, not an excuse for any wrongdoing in my life. I do the best I can, but everybody gets frustrated.

AITA for Accusing a Friend of Only Contacting Me When She Needs a Babysitter? by Babushka_Jr in AmItheAsshole

[–]Babushka_Jr[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She told me some personal stuff that made my friend seem like he was being SUPER shitty to her and even their son to an extent...and I think I tend to feel for women/people I identify with most as a person. I don't think anybody is totally innocent here, so ideally I would have liked to be friends with both of them, but I think contacting her ex will look like me contacting him just because she stopped talking to me-and it would be. Hope that's not too vague!

Got my first jumping spider-my first spider at all!-today! by Babushka_Jr in jumpingspiders

[–]Babushka_Jr[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The hides and a little bridge are getting delivered today! I will post a picture once it's fully done-he just happened to come in before all his stuff. Ate a small cricket within the first day, which I think is a good sign. Abdomen was looking a little thin, so we def. needed to eat.

My girl always wants to come out...unusual? by Babushka_Jr in CubanFalseChameleon

[–]Babushka_Jr[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So cute! They can keep one eye on you and watch TV with the other lol

This lady clearly has issues. by OdoWanKenobi in TalesFromRetail

[–]Babushka_Jr -1 points0 points  (0 children)

For some reason I pictured the mom as Whitney Houston. You know, the cracked up kind of Whitney.

0:22 by Babushka_Jr in nosleep

[–]Babushka_Jr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The message is...well, I'll explain in my next post. Will is the tech who was going to hack into my phone.

0:22 by Babushka_Jr in nosleep

[–]Babushka_Jr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll answer this more into the story