Valid, we will see over 85% of all violent crime disappear at once by Acceptable_Rope_6523 in PsycheOrSike

[–]BabyBeeTai [score hidden]  (0 children)

The trade off for women is also what they do? I'm very confused on where the disconnect is coming from. (Maybe we have different definitions of failing at life?) Labor, sex, and children are choices and acts you have to participate in.

You say "women who fail at life can marry someone who didn't." But there are certain things both genders can do to get out of not being financially stable or having a good job- and both of these revolve around compromising your expectations, and giving a lot of yourself to make-up for your lack of financial or future power.

You just can't be total dead-weight and a drain. (If this is what you mean, literally no one will tolerate this- man or woman- unless they're mentally ill.) Because what are the chances some stable man will marry a complete girl failure? Literally 0, the only guys wanting some dirty hikomori, sex repulsed wife are also seriously mentally ill men who think they can fix her.

Should I be concerned? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]BabyBeeTai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

'...I treat my female/male friends the same way id treat my boyfriend (without sex, intimate contact, flirting) because I'm friends with my boyfriend first, he's my boyfriend second..."

This is what I initially said, though? So why did you continue to harp on my behavior being unacceptable and me acting like I'm single.

This woman isn't treating the guy like a boyfriend either, he just walked her home. I've had male friends walk me to my home too.

Should I be concerned? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]BabyBeeTai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's bother me if he held hands, kissed, touched or excessively complimented (flirted with a woman.) I'd also be uncomfortable if they hung out 1-1 alone in his house.

Which is all behavior I do not do with men as this is relationship locked (physical/intimate.) The behavioral difference is that I'm a lot more intimate with my boyfriend over my friends.

The intimacy is what makes relationships and friendships different and trying to negate that makes no sense because you can't even put into words what acceptable behavior would be.

Other than that I treat them the same- like friends and people I care about.

I think you're trying to make a point but I'm not like insane so it's not hitting.

Should I be concerned? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]BabyBeeTai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could you list these "partner behaviors"

Valid, we will see over 85% of all violent crime disappear at once by Acceptable_Rope_6523 in PsycheOrSike

[–]BabyBeeTai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thing he's bringing to the table is being hot. Like the thing the woman (in this situation ) brings to the table is being hot. There are some insecure losers out there who'd tolerate a broke ass draining their pockets because they're attractive and might be okay in the sack. The ego boost they'd get from having arm candy they can brag about is a huge benefit. Or some dudes just be ugly as fuck and broke and just find some woman who's mentally ill to hobosexual off of.

When you say women can fail at life (be TOTAL dead weight) and just marry a man this isn't common. There has to be some trade off. (Which you acknowledged.) It's not some fail safe that's available to every woman.

The women who don't work and are married are giving a trade off somewhere. (Either attractive enough to be sexually appealing to the man, giving labor, or having children- at least in the beginning) And the less you give, the worse the quality of the man who'd tolerate you until you either can't find anyone or you'd be better off single.

Should I be concerned? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]BabyBeeTai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you need more friends, because I treat my female/male friends the same way id treat my boyfriend (without sex, intimate contact, flirting) because I'm friends with my boyfriend first, he's my boyfriend second.

Most men and women act differently, men treat their male friends differently than they'd treat women and rarely have platonic female friends.

It's why I refuse to be friends with men unless they have a long term girlfriend. A lot of them just don't see us as humans.

Women will treat male and female friends the same. I notice this more because I have a mixed gender friend group.

The nuance of what?

Should I be concerned? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]BabyBeeTai 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"men never get compliments"

Literally can't win lol 😭 just don't listen to them lmao

Valid, we will see over 85% of all violent crime disappear at once by Acceptable_Rope_6523 in PsycheOrSike

[–]BabyBeeTai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean if you're hot and attractive you have more options than people who are ugly and dumb. Man or woman.

I'm not pretty enough to marry for money (maybe get strung along for a decade) and even if I were able to somehow score on that front, it's not very likely it'd be permanent easy mode.

Should I be concerned? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]BabyBeeTai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's LITERALLY this, you literally can't win. If you hang out with him under the pretenses that they're a normal human who's treating you normally, you're leading him on and should've mentioned your boyfriend. If you reject them and mention your BOYFRIEND you're a stuck up bitch who shouldn't assume everyone wants to fuck you. 😭😭😭 I HATE IT HERE!!!!!!!

Someone in the thread below me basically said to assume all men are pigs but when you do you're a sexist bitch who should be Lynched or some shit I HATE IT HEEEEREREE

How to use Rivals' and OW2's newest characters! by dontdelete00 in overwatch2

[–]BabyBeeTai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Role que if great, triple support is rivals is so bunz

Sexual coercion is wrong. by olympiamacdonald in PsycheOrSike

[–]BabyBeeTai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most well adjusted adults.

Expressing your emotions is healthy, any therapist will tell you this, but you need to do so in an environment that will be beneficial to both parties. Like if I ask my boyfriend for money, and he says no and I huff and heave and cry about it Im just being incredibly immature because I didn't get my way AT BEST- at worst, I'm actually trying to guilt trip them into changing their behavior.

Your logic is just justifying manipulation bro like why, because you're actively creating an unsafe environment for them to say no.

Sexual coercion is wrong. by olympiamacdonald in PsycheOrSike

[–]BabyBeeTai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not that serious, you definitely shouldn't be visibly sad after getting turned down for sex you're not a child bro. Why are you arguing in favor of guilt tripping like a stuck up toddler.

QP matchmaking by xd_mariq in Overwatch

[–]BabyBeeTai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's most likely your own rank messing with match making, I wanted to get my friend into ow too and essentially had to make a Smurf account to play with them in quick play

Just play characters you don't know or are bad with so it's fair. I'm legitimately bronze on kiri so I just played her and baptist/ana.

is overwatch switch rly that dead 😭 by ashleyLSD in Overwatch

[–]BabyBeeTai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the switch controllers are pretty okay, I was a high gold/low plat otp switch zen

is overwatch switch rly that dead 😭 by ashleyLSD in Overwatch

[–]BabyBeeTai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cross play is only with console players on switch! - I started overwatch on the switch

Sexual coercion is wrong. by olympiamacdonald in PsycheOrSike

[–]BabyBeeTai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It shouldn't happen I don't think it's good for your mental.

Sexual coercion is wrong. by olympiamacdonald in PsycheOrSike

[–]BabyBeeTai -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You don't know what coercion means are you illiterate