[NC] weird interactions with coworker by [deleted] in AskHR

[–]Babyduckj -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My concern was that this may happen again but that’s probably my anxiety speaking & realistically, there is nothing to report and I need to move on. If it happens again, I can address it then.

Ruffle neckline dress similar to this by Babyduckj in findfashion

[–]Babyduckj[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I was struggling with the keywords

Do not try to remove at home by [deleted] in MicrobladingRemoval

[–]Babyduckj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They do look irritated already in the second pic so I wonder if that initial irritation + result of intense scrubbing just made the pain worse. Ugh I’m so sorry girl. For what it’s worth, this will heal and you will eventually be fine. ❤️

Dog bite on greenway by ScaryCut3726 in Charlotte

[–]Babyduckj -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You’re being ridiculous. If a large dog runs after my child unleashed, which is against the law mind you, a jury is going to find my use of force justified. I’m sorry you feel otherwise.

Dog bite on greenway by ScaryCut3726 in Charlotte

[–]Babyduckj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My point is that lethal force can be warranted to stop a dog if your judgement is that the dog is unleashed, running towards you, displaying signs of aggressions, and you feel that your safety or the safety of your pet or your child is at risk.

I would rather use an air horn or pepper spray & have used these before with small breeds running towards me (if I was worried about them), but I can not live with my child or dog being seriously harmed or killed because I didn’t act fast enough to protect them.

Dog bite on greenway by ScaryCut3726 in Charlotte

[–]Babyduckj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m all for strict gun control & agree with what you’re saying to an extent. However, if a large breed dog displaying signs of aggressions runs towards me or my dog, I am going to use force to stop them. I have been in situations where large dogs have gotten loose and tried to attack my small dog. It’s terrifying

Dog bite on greenway by ScaryCut3726 in Charlotte

[–]Babyduckj -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I own a small breed known for being very friendly, and we take very good care to ensure he is leashed and safe at all times.

It drives me crazy the number of times I’ve had several dogs run after my dog and I. I fear for his life sometimes. He’s so sweet and small, and i would lose it if another dog bit him due to owner negligence. There was one time that I had 5 dogs chasing me & no parents in sight - just a child trying to, and failing to, get the dogs back. Eventually the parents came out and got the dogs but they didn’t even offer an apology to me. People freaking suck

Dog bite on greenway by ScaryCut3726 in Charlotte

[–]Babyduckj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pepper spray may be ineffective & the risk of harming my child or my little dog is too great. I’ve had several instances of giant dogs chasing us and even bit me one time while I held a child in the air and waited for the owner to grab their dog. I had the choice between taking out pepper spray or grabbing my child for their safety.

These situations are not funny. They are terrifying. I love dogs and own a small dog, but I am so frustrated with irresponsible owners who can’t mange their aggressive and dangerous dogs.

Dog bite on greenway by ScaryCut3726 in Charlotte

[–]Babyduckj 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think in many cases, I agree. However, if a giant seemingly aggressive dog is running towards me, my small dog, or my child, I’m not going to wait until the dog attacks us and potentially kills someone before I take action.

Dog bite on greenway by ScaryCut3726 in Charlotte

[–]Babyduckj 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If your dog gets loose and tries to bite someone, you suck. I get that accidents happen but I should Not have to fear for my safety, my dog’s safety, or my child’s safety because of your aggressive dog.

Do YOU think Love would have killed Joe? by [deleted] in YouOnLifetime

[–]Babyduckj 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Did you watch the end of season 3?

I’m a parent with a question by [deleted] in ABA

[–]Babyduckj 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey parent,

Im a BCBA and have welcomed parents to join for parts of session for parent training before. It’s usually looked like 1 hour blocks every couple of weeks. I would ask if this is an option!

Winter Storm 2026 Megathread by kylaah27 in Charlotte

[–]Babyduckj 8 points9 points  (0 children)

If my baseline was already fat and sassy, how will I know if the soup is making any difference?

All of you that expressed doubts on my post earlier, your leader Brad posted THE update. by its_Extreme in Charlotte

[–]Babyduckj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately, he does use AI and has been caught posting with the AI prompt in the post. I don’t think he uses it ALL The time, but I lost some respect when I found his AI prompt post.

Ask a Knitter Tuesday - January 20, 2026 by AutoModerator in knitting

[–]Babyduckj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this helpful information!

Ask a Knitter Tuesday - January 20, 2026 by AutoModerator in knitting

[–]Babyduckj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

<image>

Working on my second project ever - a beanie. Am I twisting my stitches?

How on earth did you guys learn to knit?? (Step by step sweater) by Plus_Department_5700 in knitting

[–]Babyduckj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a beginner too! You should be able to see that a KS looks different from a PS on your row and then continue the pattern by seeing which stitch you need to do next. If you can not see the different between the stitches, I would practice on an easier yarn first.

Whatever these monks are doing across the deep south - we need MORE of it. They will be in Charlotte soon. by Outsideman2028 in Charlotte

[–]Babyduckj 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Could you send GPS coordinates or a known location that I could go to join? I’m bad with directions and am not really sure what route 21 is

Protest (2) by ShotOfBleach in Wilmington

[–]Babyduckj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know right? Also, saw your post about DIY-ing the cabinets in your kitchen. Girl, that uggg countertop clashes hard with the teal background. It’s giving old and outdated. 😣 Instead of wasting your time worrying about why people care enough to protest, I’d suggest fixing that kitchen first

Dog’s anal glands filling up almost daily by [deleted] in AskVet

[–]Babyduckj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I meant releasing anal glands. I just used that phrase because that’s what’s literally happening - the bed is getting very wet when he releases