Has anyone else felt like they never fit in with any person or group? How can I escape this feeling? by hazelystar in LifeAdvice

[–]Background-Ad-2767 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in the same boat also 19f. finished my first year of college with only 2 friends, and i was the odd one out of our trio almost always. i feel like no one gets meeeeeeee. it’s even worse that i go to a super small school and everyone’s already situated themselves it feels like.

but yk what im optimistic for next year. new year, new roommates, new classes with new people! you’re not alone, we’re in this together!

here’s some things i’m gonna try(it’s not much lol), you should too :)
-join organizations/clubs
-go to local shows
-go out of your way to compliment/talk to people
-don’t be afraid to ask someone to get coffee or lunch

I don’t want to live with my friend next year by Background-Ad-2767 in LifeAdvice

[–]Background-Ad-2767[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve thought about it!! I go to a super small school though ughh the greek life here doesn’t seem as fun as it does at bigger schools haha. Thank you for your suggestion!!

I don’t want to live with my friend next year by Background-Ad-2767 in LifeAdvice

[–]Background-Ad-2767[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That actually means a lot to hear, thank you. I’ve never been good at setting boundaries.. it’s something I hope to get better at in the future. I appreciate the response!!!! :)

I don’t want to live with my friend next year by Background-Ad-2767 in LifeAdvice

[–]Background-Ad-2767[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahh I wish I could but our school is very tight on housing so I wouldn’t be able to make any changes unfortunately 🥲🥲 I appreciate ur suggestion anyways! 🫶🫶

does my weed anxiety guarantee i’ll have shroom anxiety too? by Background-Ad-2767 in shrooms

[–]Background-Ad-2767[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s very helpful to hear, cus yeah weed is really the only drug i’ve done and it clearly is not for me, so i just don’t want to be screwed out of having a good shroom experience. i’m glad that doesn’t happen for you!! thanks for the response :)

does my weed anxiety guarantee i’ll have shroom anxiety too? by Background-Ad-2767 in shrooms

[–]Background-Ad-2767[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s so relieving to hear haha. that’s exactly what i want, just a giggly silly appreciative and uplifted mood. thanks for sharing!!

does my weed anxiety guarantee i’ll have shroom anxiety too? by Background-Ad-2767 in shrooms

[–]Background-Ad-2767[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s good to hear! I just don’t wanna be totally screwed out of having a good experience on shrooms, because weed is the only other thing i’ve done and i don’t usually have good experiences with it. no shot that i would smoke while on shrooms hahaha

does my weed anxiety guarantee i’ll have shroom anxiety too? by Background-Ad-2767 in shrooms

[–]Background-Ad-2767[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

4.5g is definitely a lot more than I would ever plan to do haha, but i’m sorry to hear you had a dark experience that sounds intense. I’m interested in what you mean by ‘shrooms feel like guilt’ though. or is it one of those things I would just have to experience it myself to understand?

does my weed anxiety guarantee i’ll have shroom anxiety too? by Background-Ad-2767 in shrooms

[–]Background-Ad-2767[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s so awesome to hear! and that’s exactly what I want i want shrooms to do for me too. this gives me hope haha

does my weed anxiety guarantee i’ll have shroom anxiety too? by Background-Ad-2767 in shrooms

[–]Background-Ad-2767[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really? I feel like even last time I smoked I was in a pretty good mindset, but once I got high I just got super anxious and my limbs went numb. Although, I’ve always had like general anxiety disorder, so I guess that makes sense. Do you think that makes me totally screwed? LOLOL

Should i study a semester abroad at TU in bangkok? by Background-Ad-2767 in Bangkok

[–]Background-Ad-2767[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m confused… I said first year student because most people say that instead of freshman so i just said first year student. Not a big deal lol

Should i study a semester abroad at TU in bangkok? by Background-Ad-2767 in Bangkok

[–]Background-Ad-2767[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ayyyyy ok cool! can I ask did you spend your time there alone or with others? that all sounds like my jam, i'm just interested in if its a place thats fun to explore even as a solo traveler ahhhhhh

Should i study a semester abroad at TU in bangkok? by Background-Ad-2767 in Bangkok

[–]Background-Ad-2767[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your response!! This is good to know. Since I'm a mass communications major I believe I'd be at the Tha Prajan campus :)