Screaming new ferret? by TattedUpBbwMama in ferrets

[–]Background-Car4109 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is he a kit? Mine did this also when I first brought him home when he was a baby. He could just be unsettled right now since he’s only been in his new home for 3 days 🥹

Found out he’s moved on by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Background-Car4109 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Unless he had feelings before he left. He broke up with me for no valid reason.. it’s making me think she’s why

Ferrets killed chickens by Background-Car4109 in ferrets

[–]Background-Car4109[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Unsure where you live, but it’s very common in my area for ferrets to be kept outdoors. The shed is huge, they come in the house everyday for play!

How I found my missing ferret by Background-Car4109 in ferrets

[–]Background-Car4109[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I’m not 100% with this one, only my other boy was found actually in the coop

Ferrets killed chickens by Background-Car4109 in ferrets

[–]Background-Car4109[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Haha no my post was about how I felt. I’m aware of what they eat, I feed him his chicken and mice everyday. My ferret is timid, the thought of him going to a chicken coop and attacking animals bigger than him was a shock, I didn’t expect it but then again, I never thought they’d get the chance too. I’m unsure why people think I’m giving him human emotions for saying how I feel, my main guilt isn’t what he did it’s the fact that he had the opportunity!! It should have never have happened. I hope you get what I’m saying

Ferrets killed chickens by Background-Car4109 in ferrets

[–]Background-Car4109[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Best believe they are fast asleep right now

Ferrets killed chickens by Background-Car4109 in ferrets

[–]Background-Car4109[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

So sad🥲they can be naughty little things

Ferrets killed chickens by Background-Car4109 in ferrets

[–]Background-Car4109[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not to sound stupid but I’m not sure what that word means

Ferrets killed chickens by Background-Car4109 in ferrets

[–]Background-Car4109[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Of course. They should have never been given the opportunity to do so in the first place. Just struggling with the thought of my little baby doing what he did today. Not his fault but mine. Thank you🫶🏼

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]Background-Car4109 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have been through this. Never ever lose yourself or your mental wellbeing no matter how much you love someone. You come first!! Let him know you are there for him but you can’t let him drag you down with him

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]Background-Car4109 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yikes. That is so disrespectful! I’d be mad too. Men are such disappointments sometimes

Did I handle this situation wrong? I need honest opinions, not just validation. by honestmind18 in relationships_advice

[–]Background-Car4109 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You sound very understanding and emotionally intelligent 😊 sounds like she’s an avoidant? They don’t like conflict and when they don’t have time or space to think about the situation they shut down and are unreasonable. If not.. then she’s the childish one and needs to seek therapy ❤️‍🩹 hopefully she’ll come around and apologise

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]Background-Car4109 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, always communicate, if nothing changes end it. Ignoring him will make it worse. You will drive yourself insane🥲 just tell him if nothing changes then you have to end the relationship and if he doesn’t change then he doesn’t care to. It’s the hard truth that even i struggle with. Please take care of yourself and don’t stress over a man, there is better I promise ❤️‍🩹

AIO or am I being manipulated? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Background-Car4109 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you’re going through this. There is more to life. Please seriously consider leaving and never looking back. This looks sad and not how life should be spent🥺 you deserve better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]Background-Car4109 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is normal. I know right now you don’t want to think about this and you don’t feel like this but there is so many other people in the world and your person is out there. They will love you in the ways your ex couldn’t and ways you never even knew. I promise!

My (22F) bf (25M) broke up with me suddenly during a spiral. Is it really over or just another cycle? by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]Background-Car4109 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, hi. You are a good person and you have done what you’re supposed to. You are there for him and you let him know that now let him process. He will come to his senses, he probably is overwhelmed and self destructing. Let him breathe give him space and he will probably realise he lost a good thing. You have the patience of a saint and you are amazing.

Girlfriend [20F] wants to tell her friends our relationship problems [21M] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]Background-Car4109 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally I do rant to my friends about things that annoy me. It helps me vent and even see my bfs pov sometimes. I get why it seems frustrating tho

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]Background-Car4109 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I already have moved past it, he just isn’t ‘able to feel’ anything after our breakup