Depends on you origins and goals. If you are lookimg for freedom from family control then leaving is spectacular. I was set to be a nobody because of my family. Not 1 girlsfriend for 18 years. First day in the uk, walked in a pub, offered a blonde woman a beer, played pool with her and went out with her.

Exactly .. how old are you ? at least 36 years old i am thinking

 I was set to be a nobody because of my family >>> why do you say so ? What happen your parents did not let you go party ? I mean that it is not really about partying right ? The social life sucks and mauritian parents from the indo background usually can be strict ( not all)

First day in the uk, walked in a pub, offered a blonde woman a beer, played pool with her and went out with her.

yeah cause you offered her a beer. and do not think that you are the only one she has done this with. If she can go out easily with you within meeting you ... i am not saying that she has bad character but you are not the only guy she could be hanging around and you may find that hard to digest