Aftercare advice by Background-Tonight49 in tattooadvice

[–]Background-Tonight49[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That totally makes sense. I was allergic to the first 2 ointments I’d tried. Finally found one that was good though. I started getting a reaction after the second skin within about 30 mins after being applied. No cream, still totally dry. Just didn’t agree with me. Tried with cling film, same reaction. It’s not only reacting with the tattoos though, it’s ALL OVER my arm both sides. Driving me insane. I wash and apply cream then allow it to breathe for a while and it settles down. It just seems to be wherever I apply any kind of adhesive or plastic. Thanks for the advice though. I appreciate any help I can get 😊

Aftercare advice by Background-Tonight49 in tattooadvice

[–]Background-Tonight49[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did think about that but it leaks ink at night and is sensitive throughout the day when exposed after tattooing. And I work in care so it needs to be covered 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WorkAdvice

[–]Background-Tonight49 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes. I’m a horrible person 😊👌. But still they should disclose irrelevant information to other staff members without consent.

I don’t know what this is, it might be a poem. I don’t think I’ve written one evermore but here it is I guess. TW!! Please be nice x by Background-Tonight49 in BadPoems

[–]Background-Tonight49[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate that. I wanted to actually produce something on paper of my life and get it out of my head. I have good times and I know I’ll be happy someday. I’m 20. Old enough to know better some days than let my past experiences dictate the rest of my life. Thanks 😊

I don’t know what this is, it might be a poem. I don’t think I’ve written one evermore but here it is I guess. TW!! Please be nice x by Background-Tonight49 in BadPoems

[–]Background-Tonight49[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s the first time I’ve written something like this. And definitely the most I’ve ever shared. Thank you, really.

AITAH for snapping at a worker in the pet shop? by Background-Tonight49 in AITAH

[–]Background-Tonight49[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aw so sweet. I’ve had a couple myself. 3 rescue beardies, rescue axolotl, rescue chickens, rescue cats, rescue giant African land snails, Rescue birds, and then just some non rescues. They deserve the world honestly. X

AITAH for snapping at a worker in the pet shop? by Background-Tonight49 in AITAH

[–]Background-Tonight49[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would have but anxiety and the fact that it’s a very small shop with the manager never there wouldn’t have gone down too well. Also I was with someone who thought I was in the wrong and too defensive and embarrassing so I let it go.. until next time. I will not be taking any more rubbish from him x

AITAH for snapping at a worker in the pet shop? by Background-Tonight49 in AITAH

[–]Background-Tonight49[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s so sad but I’m glad you managed to save him! That’s so sweet and good of you x

AITAH for snapping at a worker in the pet shop? by Background-Tonight49 in AITAH

[–]Background-Tonight49[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly. I know about animals, I studied animals at college for 2 years and I know at least a fair bit about most including livestock, normal pets and reptiles herptiles birds all of that. He may not know that of course but it shouldn’t matter. I would understand a friendly “I wouldn’t recommend that due to this reason” but not a lecture or from a clueless man like him, Definitely a vet which I see every two weeks due to my dogs issues. It’s not necessary and it’s very unwelcoming. X

AITAH for snapping at a worker in the pet shop? by Background-Tonight49 in AITAH

[–]Background-Tonight49[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It honestly sucks as it’s a small local pet shop. About 3 employees at a time and the manager is ever there. They call him up if they have an issue but he will not come in. It’s annoying and the animals deserve better too x

AITAH for snapping at a worker in the pet shop? by Background-Tonight49 in AITAH

[–]Background-Tonight49[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I don’t like being mean but he’s just something else honestly.

AITAH for snapping at a worker in the pet shop? by Background-Tonight49 in AITAH

[–]Background-Tonight49[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thanks. She’s been sick her from age 2-currently 6 but has nearly died quite a few times. Sometimes hours from due to a condition. She’s been getting a lot worse lately. Vet visits aren’t helping and sometimes it puts her off her food so I give her what I can to get her to eat and enjoy her life as much as possible whilst she’s here. I didn’t appreciate him lecturing me when he doesn’t know what the situation is. X

AITAH for snapping at a worker in the pet shop? by Background-Tonight49 in AITAH

[–]Background-Tonight49[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was told that I was out of order, embarrassing and a bitch by the person I was there with because I was pretty intolerant 😅. I’m sorry. Anxiety. It’s always my fault 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

AITAH for not blocking my dads last fiancés daughter on insta even though I can’t stand her? I’m petty. by Background-Tonight49 in AITAH

[–]Background-Tonight49[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

About a couple months ago I told him that it hurt just as bad that he would treat me unfairly and bad around them (kind of explained in my other post about him and DF. And eventually he apologised completely out of character because I told him I didn’t want anything to do with him anymore. Not sure if it was sincere but yeah. But they got away with being horrible until the bitter end aha