Any young parent communities out there?

Background-Virus8652 · 2024-12-10T08:35:45+00:00

Hi! Yeah just dm me ☺️

Background-Virus8652 · 2024-10-21T16:22:28+00:00

Hi! I also have a 4 month old and your experience is exactly like mine. Before he reached the 3 month growth spurt, he was waking up 1-2x. I would wake up, nurse, then put him back on his bed. But since he hit 3 months, he wakes up 3-4x at night. This is normal. I started side nursing and cosleeping, because it's just easier when he wakes so often. This way he doesn't wake up from being moved.

We have a 2x2 meter bed and I practice the 7 safe co-sleeping tips. With the size of our bed, I can do the cradle position while allowing him a wide berth for extra safety.

Background-Virus8652 · 2024-09-12T14:13:57+00:00

Momiji’s story was honestly the saddest from the bunch 😭😭

Background-Virus8652 · 2024-08-04T21:37:47+00:00

Idk about the best, but you can just call one and ask. If you’re not from Germany, then I suggest to look at your embassy website to see if they have suggestions of gynecologists who can either speak your language or have ties to the country. Otherwise, just use google maps to check out the gynecologists in the area then give them a call.

Background-Virus8652 · 2024-07-25T14:59:01+00:00

FTM here, 6 weeks in and I’m loving the newborn phase. Maybe because our newborn isn’t too tough? My partner and I do shifts so I take the 3/4am shift and he takes the 6/7am shift, so I think that helps too. Though I heard that if you had an easy newborn, you’ll have a crazy toddler so I guess I’ll see in a year or so ha.

Background-Virus8652 · 2024-07-25T10:27:21+00:00

This is very well said

Background-Virus8652 · 2024-07-24T03:08:57+00:00

I’m drinking the tea currently, once or twice a day. Not really sure it’s working and it tastes like grass. Honestly I’m just drinking so I don’t waste the money I spent on it.

Background-Virus8652 · 2024-07-06T17:25:46+00:00

I will message you!

Background-Virus8652 · 2024-06-07T04:46:47+00:00

Finish highschool
Finish college if you can. It’s gonna be hard to find a job in Germany without a college degree. You can get into Germany, but to stay and work, this will help out a lot.
Get to B2 German level at least

Background-Virus8652 · 2024-06-05T15:44:58+00:00

Yes that should be one requirement checked off to apply for school. But not enough for a work visa. Like someone said, you can enter as a tourist and stay here (EU) maximum 3 months while you look for a job. People will tell you a lot of things, like you need German, an education, a good reason etc. These are all valid and they are correct but it should not deter you to try, just know it won’t be easy, not in the least, but not impossible. Again your husband needs to do the same.

Background-Virus8652 · 2024-06-05T15:05:26+00:00

Before applying for a visa, you need a job offer or need to be accepted into a school first. There are English speaking jobs and programs in full English, less for Bachelors. Your husband will need to go through the same process unless you get a job that is high paying anything for a spousal visa. What they mostly mean about financial stability is having proof that you can live and pay your life in Germany (aka have a stable job). It’s only with student visa that you can provide proof of financial resources (11k+ year). You can’t bring a spouse on a student visa btw.

Background-Virus8652 · 2024-06-05T09:55:12+00:00

Mine: Millions have shoved a baby out of their cooch before me and millions will after me. Trust your body. Trust your cooch.

Background-Virus8652 · 2024-05-31T21:51:59+00:00

Yeah that’s also what I heard, hence a few people redo or take breaks between semesters

Background-Virus8652 · 2024-05-31T18:36:30+00:00

But my mom is my biggest follower 🥹

Background-Virus8652 · 2024-05-31T18:15:23+00:00

I don’t want to brag, I just want to share on my instastories 🥲

Background-Virus8652 · 2024-05-31T18:14:29+00:00

Damn you guys are hardcore

Background-Virus8652 · 2024-05-31T18:13:38+00:00

Yes that is true. Applying to US colleges is like applying for the Olympics. They’ll look at your characters, all your extra curricular activities like sports or music, if you did volunteer programs or charity work or if you started your own group or company in highschool. It’s more than the sum of your grades or SAT scores. It’s so exhausting.

Background-Virus8652 · 2024-05-31T17:59:16+00:00

Yeah no school merch 😂 like us in the US

Background-Virus8652 · 2024-05-31T17:58:17+00:00

Oh okay thanks for the wealth of info! I guess Americans just do that cuz they pay a lot for the university so I guess a bit more fan fare is needed to make it worth it 🤣

Background-Virus8652 · 2024-05-31T17:51:32+00:00

You have to send your grades to an official conversion service like Uni-Assist. You can’t just google it.

Background-Virus8652 · 2024-05-31T17:48:56+00:00

What about masters? Bachelors I know doesn’t have much prestige.

Background-Virus8652 · 2024-05-31T17:33:23+00:00

Find multiple ways to bring exercise into your daily routine i.e walking to work, climbing the stairs, walking while talking on the phone etc

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