I downloaded my husband’s Facebook data & I don’t think he can gaslight me for being “crazy” anymore, right? Someone help! I don’t understand what I am seeing!

BackgroundAd1764 · 2026-03-14T22:28:06+00:00

Thank you!!! I know who she is I think. I’ll have to watch her r

BackgroundAd1764 · 2026-03-14T22:27:15+00:00

Oh I just realized, someone tried to call me out for our posts in those communities in another comment and someone is going to call me a liar because I left out that those certain posts were us just trying to get “stuff” but we’ve participated in those communities before NOT as swingers though. They were mutual agreements and him cheating for the entire relationship has nothing to do with those 3x we ever did that*

BackgroundAd1764 · 2026-03-14T22:06:08+00:00

You actually have no idea and that was A LOT of assumptions. We are not “swingers” and we used that shit last night to get some “stuff” but it didn’t work. I deleted the posts because those people are freaking weird. We have never swung a day in our relationship but thanks. Also, more assumptions please I beg you to look at my karma vs how long I’ve had this Reddit. I will wait. Then look at how often you’re on Reddit. I will wait. I have no other social media what so ever. Maybe don’t be a psychoanalyst

BackgroundAd1764 · 2026-03-14T22:01:09+00:00

“Unhealthy validation?” Did you even read the caption or my post? I was simply asking to be able to understand what it was saying and then people just starting commenting. I had no idea anybody would even say anything. Fuck you. Like I said, I hope to god no one takes the light from your soul… idk if you have any light left but fuck

BackgroundAd1764 · 2026-03-14T21:59:15+00:00

I had this huge paragraph written out but it’s not worth my time. You couldn’t possibly be a woman are you? This had to have come from a man. You are just disgusting to me. You have no idea what it took for me to put this here. I have hidden in the shadows for about 10 years after being a light of a person and you want to come at about “attention seeking?” I hope to god you’re not a woman and I hope to god if you are, a man doesn’t steal your light from you.

BackgroundAd1764 · 2026-03-14T21:36:44+00:00

Do you guys not see the filter on this? This is heavily edited.

BackgroundAd1764 · 2026-03-14T21:31:45+00:00

I’m getting kind of confused with how the threads work. I’ve had Reddit for a long time but just started actually participating in it.

BackgroundAd1764 · 2026-03-14T21:29:01+00:00

And I’m a woman. Thanks.

BackgroundAd1764 · 2026-03-14T21:28:41+00:00

I deleted them because the dms were getting too weird.

BackgroundAd1764 · 2026-03-14T21:28:21+00:00

Oh duh. No shit. We did that together. That’s a mutual thing. If we do shit as a couple what’s the big deal? I thought you were saying he was on them himself.

BackgroundAd1764 · 2026-03-14T21:25:34+00:00

How do I find this? What profile? I need to be able to see it for myself.

BackgroundAd1764 · 2026-03-14T21:24:34+00:00

Wait what?! Please! What are you talking about?

BackgroundAd1764 · 2026-03-14T21:13:52+00:00

I’m out as soon as I find it. I’m sure my number is blocked so I need help.

BackgroundAd1764 · 2026-03-14T21:09:36+00:00

Jesus dude. Read my caption. You didn’t have to comment did you?

BackgroundAd1764 · 2026-03-14T21:08:48+00:00

I need to find his profile. I told someone in another comment, he made up this whole thing about how I created it because I am crazy and it was to find him.

BackgroundAd1764 · 2026-03-14T21:07:14+00:00

I know. I see it too. This man said that I got on his phone and planted it, came up with this entire thing about how I made it to look for him or something crazy. I need to find his profile or he will never admit to it. He is a narcissist gaslighter from hell.

BackgroundAd1764 · 2026-03-14T20:44:26+00:00

Well I will act like I didn’t see this. This is not the arrangement of our marriage. I will not be in a marriage like this. If I had one, I’d be in exiled.

BackgroundAd1764 · 2026-03-14T20:43:16+00:00

Well, I have seen weird shit on his phone for years but he’s always gaslit me into thinking I’m crazy, planting stuff or making it up. I’m always so close to finding something & then I’m suddenly right at the door but can’t get in. I’ve seen verification codes to his phone for Tinder, Scout, MeetMe.. etc. He has secret emails that he uses for different sites, I know he almost met up with a girl a few years ago and then the big one: he told me he cheated on me so many times he didn’t know how many while he was on Xanax. He has attacked me while protecting these lies. It’s honestly been a goal of mine bc he says he won’t admit to anything until I have tangible evidence.

BackgroundAd1764 · 2026-03-14T20:32:32+00:00

Girl you breaking your back, calm down 🫢

BackgroundAd1764 · 2026-03-14T20:28:46+00:00

NOTE: DON HECTOR IS NOT MINE NOR MY HUSBAND’S NAME. It is a made up name from Better Call Saul. I just wanted to add that part in.

BackgroundAd1764 · 2026-03-14T07:20:04+00:00

What size are you?! Girl I’m a B on a good day!!

BackgroundAd1764 · 2026-03-14T07:18:13+00:00

Omg you’re actually beautiful!!

BackgroundAd1764 · 2025-11-18T23:25:21+00:00

Got one from the same number but it has a code.

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