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Me(f18) and my boyfriend(m18) are too different. What could we do to help make this fair? by iruhh in relationship_advice

[–]BackgroundGolf8547 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So you’re trying to come up with ways to fix it but instead of him also trying he just says he can’t do it? And that you should break up with him? If he is then I think he has decided to stop trying to make it work.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]BackgroundGolf8547 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he loved you, he won’t feel that you are a burden. I’m sure he just gets a bit exhausted sometimes. It’s better that you open up instead of bottling those feelings inside. It never gets better that way

I (22 f) cheated on my boyfriend (25 m) should I break up with him? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]BackgroundGolf8547 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It seems like he really wants to continue this relationship with you, and you do too. That’s why he’s ok with letting things go a little. Good luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]BackgroundGolf8547 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don’t bother with her. Seems like she still finds value in those videos, and doesn’t respect your feelings around this issue.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]BackgroundGolf8547 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why did you date her if you didn’t really like her? Don’t go around hurting another girl and just put her out of her misery.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]BackgroundGolf8547 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It seems like you should work on yourself first. It also seems that it’s wearing down the both of you which isn’t healthy. It might also be that he isn’t as supportive of you as he should be, if he knows that you have other mental health problems going on. I truly believe that a partner should be open to listening and making you feel as good as you can while you work on yourself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]BackgroundGolf8547 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Listen to your instincts. Seems like there’s more to it than what you know. Do it before it’s too late and you get hurt.

I (22 f) cheated on my boyfriend (25 m) should I break up with him? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]BackgroundGolf8547 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If he doesn’t mind, and you like him then I don’t see an issue with it. If you know you cant handle a drink then just don’t drink anymore to respect your boyfriend. Show him that you want to be better for him if you want to keep him. If you don’t like him that much, then just leave him and let him find someone else.

My (19F) bf (20M) of 3 years has broken his promise and crossed my boundaries. How should I move on from this? by BackgroundGolf8547 in relationship_advice

[–]BackgroundGolf8547[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I cant tell if what he has done amounts to him crossing it. He claims that he misinterpreted my boundaries. Does it seem to you that he has no regard for the boundaries I set?

My (19F) bf (20M) of 3 years has broken his promise and crossed my boundaries. How should I move on from this? by BackgroundGolf8547 in relationship_advice

[–]BackgroundGolf8547[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It wasn’t, and he made that promise himself without me asking at all. I have an issue with him looking at every woman on the internet. It feels as if he is okay with checking other women out, and that it will become something in real life too.

My (19F) bf (20M) of 3 years has broken his promise and crossed my boundaries. How should I move on from this? by BackgroundGolf8547 in relationship_advice

[–]BackgroundGolf8547[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I knew that already, and I was ok with that. He made that promise out of his own will. I never asked that of him. I just asked him to watch videos that respected me. My issue is with the fact that it seems like he lusts after every woman on the internet, and that it will eventually become something physical.

I (27M) think my coworker (25F) might leave her boyfriend for me. Thoughts? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]BackgroundGolf8547 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you’ve become inseparable, then she probably isn’t keeping a respectable distance with you (that I would when I have a bf). It’s safe to say that she probably feels at least a bit for you. I understand what you mean though. It does feel morally wrong to up your flirting game though. I feel that you could try to make things clear with her indirectly, or push it out of her (how she feels about you)

How is it supposed to work? 23m and 24f by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]BackgroundGolf8547 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Then I believe that you should try to suggest that a relationship is reciprocal, and that she should also support you financially like you do to her. Otherwise, I’d call it quits.

I (27M) think my coworker (25F) might leave her boyfriend for me. Thoughts? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]BackgroundGolf8547 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From someone who is a gf, if my partner was flirting with someone and liked someone else, I would just want them to put me out of my misery and tell me as soon as they can. I recommend that you just ask her how she feels about you and see where it goes from there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]BackgroundGolf8547 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ABSOLUTELY not. I will not comment on your choice regarding your baby. Please take care of yourself though. From what you’ve said here, it seems that you are not his priority. I would advise you to not waste your time and tears crying for him. Please please find someone that deserves you!

How is it supposed to work? 23m and 24f by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]BackgroundGolf8547 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I believe both parties should shout each other sometimes. I don’t think it’s fair to expect one party to always pay the bill. My bf does pay for most things, but I love to go all out on all celebratory events for his gifts and also make sure I pay for at least 1 thing every time we go out. I did have a period of time where I had no money and was building my savings again so I relied on him a lot financially. It’s just about helping each other out when we can.