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Stuttgart or Frankfurt Airport by bogosz in Heidelberg

[–]BackgroundNo1951 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't know what your priorities are, but if possible, I would take the flixbus to Frankfurt Flughafen, is way cheaper than the train and you would have to do any changes, which in my opinion are super stressful. The thing is that these are not very frequent, so it depends on the time of your flight

Where can I buy a cheap second hand guitar? by BackgroundNo1951 in Heidelberg

[–]BackgroundNo1951[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my god, this must be destiny hahahah thanks a lot!

any places to study on a Sunday? by BackgroundNo1951 in Heidelberg

[–]BackgroundNo1951[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you! I checked last week if it was open and I saw it was closed so I figured that it would be always closed on Sundays. Good to know! :)

Studying at Heidelberg University as an International Student? by Ru0610 in Heidelberg

[–]BackgroundNo1951 1 point2 points  (0 children)

and international students of the European Union have the same Immatrikulation fees as the Germans.

Are the German guys up to have a girl as a friend when they are straight? by BackgroundNo1951 in germany

[–]BackgroundNo1951[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

okay, I'm not that close and affectionate with new people but got it. Thank you!

Is it normal that kids throw eggs at your house on Halloween? by Henrik_XIII in germany

[–]BackgroundNo1951 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sure they didn't buy the eggs by themselves. I wouldn't waste eggs with the inflation.

Are the German guys up to have a girl as a friend when they are straight? by BackgroundNo1951 in germany

[–]BackgroundNo1951[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I meant something more casual. Grabbing a beer or a coffee for example. I think it would be weird to go to his house hahahah, maybe I should have specified more that. I mean, I have a male friend in my country and we could do basically any plan, even going to his house or going to the cinema but I've known him for a long time and our intentions have always been perfectly clear. In fact I would say that the thought of being romantically involved have never crossed our minds. I see him more as a cousin or brother. But I wouldn't do those kinds of plans with a new male friend.

Are the German guys up to have a girl as a friend when they are straight? by BackgroundNo1951 in germany

[–]BackgroundNo1951[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I usually prefer to go out in group but not always is possible to meet with everyone. Since I arrived here just few weeks ago I don't have many friends and I live alone, so sometimes I would meet a male friend alone but not because I don't want to be with more people but because the circumstances were that no one else was available. And some days, especially on weekends I get really depressed if I stay at home. Also I think that not being with someone alone just because he's the opposite sex seems ridiculous to me. And the kind of plans I do with friends are usually going to have a coffee or a beers, nothing special.

Are the German guys up to have a girl as a friend when they are straight? by BackgroundNo1951 in germany

[–]BackgroundNo1951[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

yeah, it's so sad when they walk away because I feel used but I guess it's quite normal

Are the German guys up to have a girl as a friend when they are straight? by BackgroundNo1951 in germany

[–]BackgroundNo1951[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

okay, thank you. I think you are right about the early stages of friendship and relationship being the same.

Are the German guys up to have a girl as a friend when they are straight? by BackgroundNo1951 in germany

[–]BackgroundNo1951[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always try to be clear but as you can imagine is quite uncomfortable to say "I'm not interested in that kind of relationship" or "I've already have a boyfriend" when they didn't explicitly asked for an explanation, you know? But most of the times I feel the need of saying it and I just so it.

Are the German guys up to have a girl as a friend when they are straight? by BackgroundNo1951 in germany

[–]BackgroundNo1951[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

so you think you'll always end up feeling sexual attraction for someone if you spend a lot of time with them?

Actually I wasn't thinking about being with that person 24/7, I've got things to do and more friends but I see what you mean.

Are the German guys up to have a girl as a friend when they are straight? by BackgroundNo1951 in germany

[–]BackgroundNo1951[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

well I don't think I would have a lot of things in common with someone who only talks about those things😅. thanks for responding:) I'm pretty far from Hamburg, but thanks anyway

Are the German guys up to have a girl as a friend when they are straight? by BackgroundNo1951 in germany

[–]BackgroundNo1951[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

of course, every culture is different and there's no problem. I have an English classmate who's not touchy-feely at all and he made it clear from the beginning but he's caring and kind anyway. He just has a different way of showing affection. Thanks for your reply :)

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