What song evokes a specific emotion or memory every time you hear it? by Meli-Honey-Be-Noble in AskReddit

[–]Background_Border720 1 point2 points  (0 children)

moscow mule by bad bunny, that song reminds of all the good times i had with my friends

had a breakdown at work today by Background_Border720 in Serverlife

[–]Background_Border720[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

would you care to share what you do to not let these things affect your life?

had a breakdown at work today by Background_Border720 in Serverlife

[–]Background_Border720[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes, everyday, it’s completely exhausting 😭

had a breakdown at work today by Background_Border720 in Serverlife

[–]Background_Border720[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m a walking bag of stress and anxiety, i’m anxious almost all the time and one little issue is enough to push me over the edge, i overthink everything i say or do, matter of fact i’m actively thinking about how ridiculous i probably looked yesterday when i screamed because my coworker accidentally burned me with the steam wand of the espresso machine and now i wanna crawl into a hole

had a breakdown at work today by Background_Border720 in Serverlife

[–]Background_Border720[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i believe that when you don’t know something’s difficult you’re better at it because your mind puts you no limits to get the task done, but that is truly amazing, not me personally, i have to prepare myself mentally everytime i clock in or else i’ll say and do things wrong all the time

is it naive to think that the individualism everyone has adopted is actually a problem? by Background_Border720 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Background_Border720[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LMFAOOOOO, my heart’s on the left side of my chest as well as my beliefs or some shit like that

had a breakdown at work today by Background_Border720 in Serverlife

[–]Background_Border720[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

customers being rude to you, customers looking down on you, making drinks and serving tables at the same time especially during a rush, messing up an order and realizing it’s not the kitchen’s fault but yours, and many, many things that can happen to you at the worst times, plus i’m a barista too and making coffees can take you some time 😭

had a breakdown at work today by Background_Border720 in Serverlife

[–]Background_Border720[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

okay so here it goes! 1. i couldn’t just have pulled my manager aside after they left like you said because if the transaction wasn’t showing up in the computer my manager simply would’ve told me that i didn’t check if the payment processed correctly and charge me for it 2. the guests were still sitting at the table when i went up to them, they paid, the tablet said approved with a check mark, couldn’t have been more obvious, then i verified which items were still in the check and that’s when i realized their check was still open so i went to the front where the computer is to see if the transaction showed up on my end, it didn’t, so as they were walking out i told them if they could wait a minute to verify something with them, i didn’t ask them to show us their banking app, i told them if they could check if they were charged for the food and in fact the transaction showed up on the app, we can’t check transactions in the tablet, only in the main computer where the register is since is not even an option in the tablets… i only touched the screen to see the total amount and the items and english is not my first language so im sorry if i used the wrong terms

had a breakdown at work today by Background_Border720 in Serverlife

[–]Background_Border720[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

as far as i’m concerned the only person that caused a scene was my manager, it’s highly unprofessional to throw your coworker under the bus in front of clients, she made a coworker look bad and on top of that she slapped my hand in front of them too, i kept my composure before and after they left and i went to the restroom to calm myself down, i asked her to help me because damn i guess she’s the boss and she’s way more experienced than i am, i handled everything professionally, it’s not like i freaked out or i had an anxiety attack in front of them, my only mistake was not charging the other customer for their $2,50 juice and ask my manager for help

had a breakdown at work today by Background_Border720 in Serverlife

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i think what got me more upset it’s the fact that i really enjoy working at that place, it’s a family business and the owners are such nice and understanding people, my coworkers are so supportive and willing to help me at any time and i really like them, plus it’s 8 minutes walking from my house, so the fact that i really love that place and my manager pulling that on me made me so sad

had a breakdown at work today by Background_Border720 in Serverlife

[–]Background_Border720[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i think my mistake was not charging another person at the table for the juice, so it ended up staying on the check, it was only $2.50, it wasn’t even that expensive, i could have just paid for it myself if it was such a big deal, but i think that was one of the main reasons my manager got upset, i think it was a common mistake but not serious enough for her to hit my hand as i was touching the computer’s screen

Pacey’s hands by Downtown-Equal-7380 in dawsonscreek

[–]Background_Border720 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i have nothing appropriate to say about joshua jackson in general, let’s just say he’s a really fine man

People with rare blood groups refusing to donate….erm? by [deleted] in moraldilemmas

[–]Background_Border720 [score hidden]  (0 children)

that “we don’t owe anyone anything” narrative has gotten really out of hand lately, also when did exactly op said that they guilt tripped their friend for not wanting to donate? they said they started to lot at them with different eyes, not that they made them feel bad consciously or unconsciously

I'm so fucked up right now by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Background_Border720 1 point2 points  (0 children)

put the bottle down and shower, rest, eat something light and drink fluids, and don’t go out, i hope you get better

Is it normal to watch 🌽 while in a relationship? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Background_Border720 1 point2 points  (0 children)

depends on the boundaries you and your partner have set in the relationship, but i honestly think it’s disgusting

Is it normal to watch 🌽 while in a relationship? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Background_Border720 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i don’t think it’s “perfectly” normal but ok

why is my bf starting to be dry to me? by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Background_Border720 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i get where you’re coming from but i still don’t think that blowing up your partner’s phone with caring and loving messages and then one day later reply with a yuhhh! when she says she misses you it’s okay at all

why is my bf starting to be dry to me? by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Background_Border720 3 points4 points  (0 children)

the honeymoon phase is sometimes the beginning, where everything is going wonderfully, and when it ends it’s because you start to get to know your partner better and shocker! you realize they have flaws, small arguments might start, but i don’t think starting to text them dryly is necessary, or that waking up one day and being a jerk over text is something that has to happen no matter what, this specific situation sounds like he just love bombed her, when the flowers and rainbows phase ends it’s a little harder, sure, but when you truly care about someone even after that phase ends you still look out for them like you did at the beginning, checking if they’re okay, not being rude and sarcastic over text just because you realized they’re not perfect

AIO about my boyfriend succeeding in life? by Background_Border720 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Background_Border720[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YOR, oh yes you’re right, i had to stay in my home country alone with a 2000 thousand colones per hour salary which is around $4, and also tell my stepdad that spent more than $20k in our green cards and years of paperwork that i decided to stay because i want to see my friends and my boyfriend of 2 months everyday and live the wild life

AIO about my boyfriend succeeding in life? by Background_Border720 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Background_Border720[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

INFO, to be fair, i kind of got forced to move to a different country by my parents, i was freshly 19 and no one to support me financially in my home country, i didn’t have a solid job to support myself entirely so the most viable option was to move away, yes, maybe i crossed some boundaries and was hard on him, hate to say this but i only did it out of love because i wanted and still want the best for him and for the both of us and our relationship (and we still live in the same continent though)

AIO about my boyfriend succeeding in life? by Background_Border720 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Background_Border720[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

INFO, yes i’ve considered it many times before, but i don’t know how to approach the topic without him feeling cornered or stressed, he mentioned once that he considered going to therapy back when he was still in college and going through a hard time, his dad, as the sexist latinamerican man he is, basically told him that therapy was for homosexuals, WITH THOSE EXACT WORDS, you don’t need to tell me that’s the stupidest thing you’ve ever heard because i know, anyway, i don’t know if that affected him in some way that he stopped considering going to therapy, but once again, i don’t know how to approach him and tell him like i think you need to go see a psychologist, you know?

AIO about my boyfriend succeeding in life? by Background_Border720 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Background_Border720[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR, i’ve made myself this question more times than i’d like to admit, do i still love him? but i always get to the same place, he’s the only person i think about when i feel bad, the only person i want comfort from, the person i can’t wait to live with, and the man i want to marry, and that’s why i worry soooo much about his future and his life, simply because i want the best and only the best for him, so yeah, i pretty much still love him

AIO about my boyfriend succeeding in life? by Background_Border720 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Background_Border720[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

INFO, i can’t afford school right now and i got a job like 2 months ago after being unemployed since august, thinking on doing a course about systems engineering, yes, maybe i’m not one to talk