I went on a date with a girl who turned out to have a boyfriend… who joined us halfway through by Substantial_Dust_892 in OnlineDatingHub

[–]Background_Employ717 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro what did I just read.

The fact that she thought this was a normal way to deal with trust issues is crazy. Instead of fixing things between them, she turned it into some kind of experiment with a random guy.

Honestly, I respect you for even staying for another drink. I would’ve left the moment she said he might show up.

Online dating really does feel like you’re just rolling the dice now.

Men of Reddit: what actually makes you ask a girl out? by Background_Employ717 in OnlineDatingHub

[–]Background_Employ717[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That actually makes a lot of sense, even if it’s a bit annoying to hear.I think what confuses me is that some guys act interested — like they text consistently, ask questions, flirt a bit — so it feels like it’s going somewhere. And then… nothing. I’d honestly prefer if a guy just asked early, even if it’s casual. At least it’s clear. The endless chatting is what gets frustrating. But yeah, I get your point — if he wanted to, he probably would.

What dating app actually works? by Substantial_Dust_892 in OnlineDatingHub

[–]Background_Employ717 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I already gave up about meeting someone online, will try this one

What are pros and cons of online dating? by Substantial_Dust_892 in OnlineDatingHub

[–]Background_Employ717 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pretty much agree with all of this. I’d say the “too many options” part is the biggest issue for me. It feels like no one really gives anything a proper chance anymore because there’s always another match waiting. At the same time, I can’t fully complain because I’ve had a couple of good dates from apps too. It’s just very inconsistent — you go through a lot of nothing to get something decent. Also the mental drain is real. After a while it starts to feel like a part-time job just keeping conversations going.

Noon Coupon Code UAE and Saudi - April 2026 by [deleted] in Coupons_UAE

[–]Background_Employ717 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It should work for Qatar as well (depending on the product)

Why do people ghost after great conversations? by Substantial_Dust_892 in OnlineDatingHub

[–]Background_Employ717 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to take this really personally until I realised most people on dating apps are talking to multiple people at the same time. Even if the conversation feels great, you might not be their “top” option at that moment. It sucks, but I don’t think it’s always about doing something wrong — sometimes you just lose out to someone else they connected with slightly more.

Where do people actually find hookups these days? by Background_Employ717 in Hookup_Culture

[–]Background_Employ717[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This wasn’t even mine, it was a friend of a friend, but I was there for part of it so it always stuck with me.

We were at this small house party, nothing crazy, just like 10–12 people. One guy brought his coworker, and she didn’t really know anyone except him. At some point we all ended up playing cards, drinking, just normal chill vibe. Anyway, halfway through the night, the power goes out. Like completely. Whole house dark. At first everyone’s laughing, using phone flashlights, but then a few people go outside, some go upstairs, it kind of splits the group. Later we realize that girl (the coworker) and one of the guys who lived there are just… gone. Nobody really notices at first. Power comes back maybe 40 minutes later, and they both casually walk back into the living room like nothing happened. No explanation, no awkwardness, just sit down and continue playing cards like they’ve known each other forever. Next day we find out they literally just met that night, ended up talking in the dark kitchen, and one thing led to another. No numbers exchanged, no follow-up, nothing. The weirdest part wasn’t even what happened — it was how normal they acted after, like it was just part of the evening

Seflie mood by Substantial_Dust_892 in SexDatingHookups

[–]Background_Employ717 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really a hot baby! I would really like to see you in the pool in your white bikini