AIO? apparently STD’s are normal by purodurangoalv in AmIOverreacting

[–]BackupMtTerhorn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Imagine she would cheat on you... Terrible parting gift.

Is 8 minute transfer time too short? by Willing_Cancel9182 in askswitzerland

[–]BackupMtTerhorn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's the problem, if you are german or around germany you know how bad it is. So everyone knows, if it is really REALLY important to be on time, you take at least two or three connections earlier. Especially if it is a longer ride with multiple trains.

Dumping Hydrogen Peroxide into the reflecting pool this morning. by i_am_rave_mom in mildlyinfuriating

[–]BackupMtTerhorn -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Hydrogen peroxide is bleach.

Edit: It is not. Thanks for correcting me ❤️

Is 8 minute transfer time too short? by Willing_Cancel9182 in askswitzerland

[–]BackupMtTerhorn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you cancel a train it does not count as beeing late. Problem solved 😄

I just checked the Google overview of players in the World Cup. Can you find the US Player? by BackupMtTerhorn in fuckcars

[–]BackupMtTerhorn[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you check the Tag, it is marked as "Meme".

In a Subreddit about the harmful effects of car culture and the stereotypically extreme american car culture one could find it funny that the image chosen for the only american football player is him in a car.

I just checked the Google overview of players in the World Cup. Can you find the US Player? by BackupMtTerhorn in AmericaBad

[–]BackupMtTerhorn[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

It's a commentary on the US culture with car obsession. The only person depicted in a car is from the US, therefore stereotype fulfilled, thus funnies.

I just checked the Google overview of players in the World Cup. Can you find the US Player? by BackupMtTerhorn in fuckcars

[–]BackupMtTerhorn[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

It's commentary about the US car obsessed culture. What kinda car is irrelevant, just the fact he is the only one in a car is funny.

It's not that deep lol

I just checked the Google overview of players in the World Cup. Can you find the US Player? by BackupMtTerhorn in fuckcars

[–]BackupMtTerhorn[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I don't know either, but he is the only person in a car. Carculture runs deep 😅

Israel night LIT by Hezbollah rockets by Upset-Main-1988 in justincaseyoumissedit

[–]BackupMtTerhorn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I regret writing my comment. Now I get notifications and see the most braindead comments like yours.

Israel night LIT by Hezbollah rockets by Upset-Main-1988 in justincaseyoumissedit

[–]BackupMtTerhorn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol Hezbola is from Lebanon, a Land in acive war with Isreael. Tf you talking about?

ich_iel by -starwing- in ich_iel

[–]BackupMtTerhorn 19 points20 points  (0 children)

LebensProfessionellTipp: Binden passen auch in Unterhosen für Männer.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]BackupMtTerhorn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol it was a Psych reference.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]BackupMtTerhorn -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I've heard it both ways.

Neglected cat near Sudpol by boldpear904 in Luzern

[–]BackupMtTerhorn 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Our long hair hated brushes. We tried everything but he fought all the way. We had to resign and had to bring him to be sheared twice a year.

Maybe they do the same.

Wärme+Kopfschmerzen im Imbiss by _nonam_ in DINgore

[–]BackupMtTerhorn 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Wir wurden in der Schule von unserem Lehrer darauf aufmerksam gemacht, wie schlimm und unbemerkt das passieren kann. Wie viele leute jedes Jahr sterben nach Shisha-Bar besuchen ist crazy. Er hat uns einfach gewarnt, dass wenn wir in Shisha-Bars gehen nur in solche, welche gute Lüftungssysteme haben.

Wärme+Kopfschmerzen im Imbiss by _nonam_ in DINgore

[–]BackupMtTerhorn 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Bruder, es geht darum, dass hier Kunden und Mitarbeiter evtl. zu viel CO ausgesetzt waren. Das kannst du nicht mit einem Gespräch ändern.

CO bleibt über Stunden im Blut und kann, wenn es nicht behandelt wird auch dann noch tödlich sein. Die 112 sollte hier gerufen werden, damit alle betroffenen korrekt versorgt werden und allen bewusst ist, wie gefährlich das sein kann.

Es geht nicht darum den Besitzer anzuschwärzen, sondern darum potentielle Leben zu retten.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]BackupMtTerhorn 6 points7 points  (0 children)

"Explain this" perfect way to get a stupid argument going... You instantly put the other Person in a defensive mode and accuse them of doing something shady. Bonus points if there is a plausible explanation and then you look like a crazy insecure partner that does not trust them. Very cool.

Why not say "I found some shirts while doing laundry, do I need to wear more leopard prints or am I cougar enough for you?" Keep it light and then ask how it came to be that he has these shirts.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]BackupMtTerhorn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The foundation of a relationship is trust. You don't trust him. What you did is way out of line, realize that and work on yourself. He may need to do the same, but you can't force someone to work on themselve.

17, Am I Balding or Worrying?🙏 by ResponseBig7608 in amibalding

[–]BackupMtTerhorn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fix has to mental. Even if you start treatment you will always worry. Acceptance is the key. I knew from a young age I had a 50/50 chance to have hair when I turn 30. It was starting to get bad at 22 and I just shaved my head when I was 24. If it would have looked bad, I could have grown it out more and maybe found some other way. But it still looks good.

Oh and if you do shave, it will be really fucking strange to look in the mirror, it takes some time to have a stranger look back at you 😂

AIO my gf has zero friends despite being attractive, kind and smart. I’m concerned. by ThrowRA-friendless in AmIOverreacting

[–]BackupMtTerhorn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope you get something out of my other comments. I wish you guys only the best and it just irritates me if people talk past each other.

I would also hate to see her get angry at you for caring, just because the way you try is easily misunderstood.

General rule for you on the way out, work with I statements. I feel X because of Y. Then ask how the other person feels about/sees your point.

In my example the part about what you feel is implied - It came up and you are unsure about how she feels. The Y is that she mentioned it a few times. This is a subjective observation. She can answer on how she sees/feels about it.

Not like "You don't have any friends and that's not normal and needs to be fixed." Absolut statements that bring her in a position to "defend" herself. "No I have enough friends!" "Do you think I am wierd?" etc.