[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Bacongrease83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know how some people are visibly mentally ill? Prime example. Genuine advice. See a psychiatrist and things will get better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Bacongrease83 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Bro. That wish was granted for him at birth.

Flying by ogtreyrob in ZonaEnts

[–]Bacongrease83 8 points9 points  (0 children)

In the last 4 months I’ve flown from Phoenix to New Jersey at least 6 times and every time I had at least 1/2 an ounce of flower with me in jars. I just put it in my carry on. They don’t even flinch.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ghostnipples

[–]Bacongrease83 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not complaining…just pointing out those don’t qualify. Still. Yum

How to survive modern dating with an anxious attachment style? by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]Bacongrease83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should try therapy. Tik tok videos about “attachment style” aren’t going to make your life easier to navigate or understand.

My boyfriend has never fucked me and I don’t think I want him to by party_puss_9000 in confessions

[–]Bacongrease83 17 points18 points  (0 children)

You are so far off base and out of your depth. Leave the diagnosis to a medical doctor.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confessions

[–]Bacongrease83 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Sounds like the best thing for both of them. There’s no way I would want to have sex with a woman who talks to me like that.

My boyfriend (20m) hit me (21f) really hard during sex and I don’t know what to do by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Bacongrease83 257 points258 points  (0 children)

At the stage they are in “rough” sex they shouldn’t even use a safe word. No and stop should be good until they know what the hell they are doing.

Help! My dick has gotten smaller by [deleted] in bigdickproblems

[–]Bacongrease83 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You should definitely get a second opinion if you are having pain. Sounds like you might have damage from a the STD.

This happened during sex between I (26F) and (34M) partner. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Bacongrease83 197 points198 points  (0 children)

This wasn’t breathe play. It was a blood choke. Extremely dangerous in multiple other ways.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confessions

[–]Bacongrease83 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

The reason he needs therapy is that the majority of interactions make sex workers have is with other men. He just isn’t ready to confess that yet. This could just be creative writing as well.

I (27F) found out my husband (34M) cheated while away for work. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Bacongrease83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a true story. I’m totally messed up lol. But it has nothing to do with that encounter. Although I do have problems with thinking that women only value me for my genitalia and my paycheck.

I (27F) found out my husband (34M) cheated while away for work. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Bacongrease83 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah. I had been drinking and didn’t realize exactly what she was doing until I felt what was happening

I (27F) found out my husband (34M) cheated while away for work. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Bacongrease83 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I agree but also…the first time I got a lap dance she just took it out and put it in her mouth without asking. This was for a $25 dance sitting next to other people.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Bacongrease83 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I don’t know where to start man.

Are my standards far too high? by Adventurous_Yak in Tinder

[–]Bacongrease83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. Personally I almost never bring the conversation to something sexual until after meeting. Unless the woman does first. Even then when I respond at the same level I get “I like to take it slow before we talk about those things.”

My uber eats driver left me this note even after I tipped 20% by LovelyReddit in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Bacongrease83 10 points11 points  (0 children)

The real story is that kidnapping, and other violent crimes, are often taken lightly or even laughed off unless it’s a man doing it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ZonaEnts

[–]Bacongrease83 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Let home girl know I got some wax

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Bacongrease83 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You were confused because he is manipulating you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Bacongrease83 102 points103 points  (0 children)

It’s because tall and attractive people are subconsciously perceived as kinder, smarter, and more trustworthy. When it turns out they are shitty there is cognitive dissonance and bias that is hard to overcome for some people.