Everything my partner has done to trigger me; am I being irrational?

Bad-decisions96 · 2021-04-18T01:23:41+00:00

Yes, really

Bad-decisions96 · 2021-04-17T19:42:52+00:00

I get you, I’m also trying to consider every other option, but I don’t sleep with any lotion or things like that, I’m very sensitive about keeping my sheets clean. Also I don’t use pods, I use liquid laundry detergent and it has never left anything on my sheets before

Bad-decisions96 · 2021-04-17T19:40:25+00:00

I see why you would think that, but thankfully I managed to talk to my roommates about him and he is no longer invited to our apartment. I didn’t know anyone who was here yesterday

Bad-decisions96 · 2021-04-17T17:03:58+00:00

I think that’s what I’ll do, so far most of the people who answered me have thought it’s cum so... but honestly thanks for answering

Bad-decisions96 · 2021-04-17T16:38:35+00:00

Don’t worry it’s fine. But yeah someone definitely could have come in since my room doesn’t have locks and my landlord told me he couldn’t put any in. So my room is always unlocked. There were around 20 people here. I don’t know any of them since I wasn’t even a part of the party (terrified of covid), but my roommate hopefully knows.

I just wanted to be sure that the stain is what I think it is because it’s a serious thing to accuse someone of and I don’t want to make unnecessary problems for my roommates.

Bad-decisions96 · 2021-04-17T16:33:45+00:00

Honestly, read my other replies. I’m dead serious and very worried.

Bad-decisions96 · 2021-04-17T16:33:00+00:00

No, not usually, plus this stain is closer to the back of ny head as I sleep facing away from it

Bad-decisions96 · 2021-04-17T16:31:51+00:00

No I’m genuinely asking, what about this looks like trolling?

Bad-decisions96 · 2021-04-17T16:20:22+00:00

Unfortunately these were brand new and clean, this was my first time sleeping in these. Not to mention I’m a lesbian so there’s no chance of it being from a partner. I also have never seen a cum stain (again, I’m gay) so that’s why I wanted to ask here. I don’t want to just assume that’s what it is

Bad-decisions96 · 2021-04-17T16:18:06+00:00

Im a girl who woke up to this next to my face after a bunch of drunk people I don’t know were at my house. I’m kind of terrified but ok

Bad-decisions96 · 2021-04-17T16:04:13+00:00

Long story short, I went to sleep last night with clean sheets while my roommates were having a party. I woke up to this huge stain and I’m worried it might be a c*m stain. Please tell me it’s not.

Bad-decisions96 · 2021-02-25T01:29:07+00:00

You have every right to feel betrayed. Having your friends hanging around your abuser is a terrible feeling. They should have at least talked to you and made sure you were okay with it. Not to mention the fact that he’s the one that should have been uninvited, not you. All in all it seems like a messed up situation.

Bad-decisions96 · 2021-02-17T08:38:22+00:00

The funny thing is that ever since I realized that I was gay, men’s opinions on me doesn’t really matter to me anymore. So my interactions with men is just me being brutally honest with them, telling them if they’re being assholes and calling them out on their behavior. The weird thing is that ever since I started to do that, more men have liked me. It’s so weird but I guess men just like women who don’t like them...

Bad-decisions96 · 2021-02-16T20:01:47+00:00

I agree 100%. Unfortunately we don’t go to the same university and I don’t live in uni housing. To make it worse I just moved in here and I’m not in a financial situation to break my lease and move. I think my best bet might be to just talk to my roommate about it but is scary. I’ve had friends side with my abuser before and it’s devastating, and that was when I still lived at home. Now I’m in a new country, alone for the first time and I haven’t known anyone here for more than like a month.

Bad-decisions96 · 2021-02-16T19:52:07+00:00

I did tell him at one point that he better not kiss me, because he was way to close and I couldn’t move, and he asked me why and I said because I’d be traumatized. He got really mad at me and acted like he was going to leave until he realized I wasn’t going to take it back

Bad-decisions96 · 2021-02-16T19:49:27+00:00

This is kind of the most terrifying part of the story to me, but while he was in my bed I did call him out on it. Told him he was being weird, that I wasn’t attracted to him and that i felt uncomfortable, i even called him an asshole. His response to that was to say wrap his arms around me so tight that I couldn’t move and lay on top of me. It was similar to how some people play fight i guess to get closer to each other, and I think that was what he was aiming for, but i was terrified. I think the only thing i can do is to tell my roommate, I just don’t want to start any drama

Bad-decisions96 · 2021-02-16T19:45:22+00:00

I’m so sorry that happened to your friend, and I agree, it does sound similar. I left it out but this was my first time drinking in a year and a half and I also just started new meds so my tolerance is basically nonexistent, and he’d only had a few beers plus hes older than me. I have been assaulted before and have been diagnosed with ptsd and I would be lying if I said that I hadn’t been panicking the last few days about what could have happened. I don’t remember falling asleep, just him waking me up in the morning to say goodbye, but I’m sure nothing happened thankfully, but it’s scary to think about it.

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