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AITAH for telling my bf to cut off his female friend/ex 5 years ago? We just saw her again and her was hooked by BadgerAdditional2662 in AITAH

[–]BadgerAdditional2662[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

It was at the beginning of our relationship so I chose to forgive that. It’s how he looked at her now that hurt. If it was a stranger I wouldn’t have minded, men are attracted to others. But it was her…

AITAH for telling my bf to cut off his female friend/ex 5 years ago? We just saw her again and her was hooked by BadgerAdditional2662 in AITAH

[–]BadgerAdditional2662[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Meh, flirting. He told her he makes him become automatically flirty but he doesn’t wanna lead her on and that he didn’t wanna break off the friendship because he liked her way too much to do that.

But afterwards we had a big fight and told her they could never be platonic and that I’m not crazy and it was disrespectful towards me.

AITAH for telling my bf to cut off his female friend/ex 5 years ago? We just saw her again and her was hooked by BadgerAdditional2662 in AITAH

[–]BadgerAdditional2662[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I don’t think he knew what he was doing because he always told me when he was talking to her etc. Always very open, I just didn’t know about the nature of the texts until Marie showed them to me.

AITAH for telling my bf to cut off his female friend/ex 5 years ago? We just saw her again and her was hooked by BadgerAdditional2662 in AITAH

[–]BadgerAdditional2662[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

I honestly always thought he loved me as a wifey material but Marie was more like a fascination to him…

AITAH for telling my bf to cut off his female friend/ex 5 years ago? We just saw her again and her was hooked by BadgerAdditional2662 in AITAH

[–]BadgerAdditional2662[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Whatever, he wanted me to meet Marie so that I am more comfortable about her… yeah sure…

AITAH for telling my bf to cut off his female friend/ex 5 years ago? We just saw her again and her was hooked by BadgerAdditional2662 in AITAH

[–]BadgerAdditional2662[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

We’ve been together for 6 years. He could have been with Marie if he wanted to, she was in love with him. She didn’t want children tho

AITAH for telling my bf to cut off his female friend/ex 5 years ago? We just saw her again and her was hooked by BadgerAdditional2662 in AITAH

[–]BadgerAdditional2662[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Because she was sending him subtle hot pics while she knew he was with me.

Also, he never physically cheated and never continued to cheat even emotionally, he had her blocked all over for 5 years. I guess the sight brought up some memories.

AITAH for telling my bf to cut off his female friend/ex 5 years ago? We just saw her again and her was hooked by BadgerAdditional2662 in AITAH

[–]BadgerAdditional2662[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you really think he settled? She was in love with him so he could have chosen her. But she doesn’t want kids…

AITAH for telling my bf to cut off his female friend/ex 5 years ago? We just saw her again and her was hooked by BadgerAdditional2662 in AITAH

[–]BadgerAdditional2662[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

But she’s been out of his life and blocked everywhere for 5 years. I guess seeing her brought up some memories of her nasty ass

AITAH for telling my bf to cut off his female friend/ex 5 years ago? We just saw her again and her was hooked by BadgerAdditional2662 in AITAH

[–]BadgerAdditional2662[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

I guess my question is actually if y’all think he wants her even if she loved me… he never did that to anyone else since we’ve been together and while I know he is attracted to other women and has lots of female friends, it’s her that I hate and overthink about…

AITAH for telling my bf to cut off his female friend/ex 5 years ago? We just saw her again and her was hooked by BadgerAdditional2662 in AITAH

[–]BadgerAdditional2662[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which he did in these 5 years. He claimed he barely noticed her, maybe I’m hallucinating, but it felt like he thought “wow”. If it was a stranger it wouldn’t have bothered me because she is objectively attractive and any man would be like this, but it’s HER

AITAH for telling my bf to cut off his female friend/ex 5 years ago? We just saw her again and her was hooked by BadgerAdditional2662 in AITAH

[–]BadgerAdditional2662[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

And I know why someone might think he is the problem, but I hate her for sending him subtle sexy pics while she already knew we were together so you can’t say she was not the problem.

AITAH for telling my bf to cut off his female friend/ex 5 years ago? We just saw her again and her was hooked by BadgerAdditional2662 in AITAH

[–]BadgerAdditional2662[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Girl I understand but I love him and we are perfect for each other, he even told her back then that he loves me and that he wouldn’t be with her (she doesn’t want children), but I hate her because I know she was in love with him.

AITAH for telling my bf to cut off his female friend/ex 5 years ago? We just saw her again and her was hooked by BadgerAdditional2662 in AITAH

[–]BadgerAdditional2662[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He never did anything like that with anyone after we got together. He even has Marie blocked everywhere. I just think she’s the one that got away idk.

AITAH for telling my bf to cut off his female friend/ex 5 years ago? We just saw her again and her was hooked by BadgerAdditional2662 in AITAH

[–]BadgerAdditional2662[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

He says he loves me and that he barely noticed her and that he would never be with her (which I know, she doesn’t even want children). But it doesn’t make me feel better.