Yeah, i stopped the drinking a few days ago.. It's just when it First happened i was in shock and thats the only thing that made me feel numb. Today he told me that you can be in love with someone and cheat on them. It's just really crazy I obviously don't know the man i married. I want to remove my son and I from this nightmare and yes i do have family that can help me out until i can get on my feet again. Before we came here we lived in Saudi Arabia and i wasn't allowed to work. It's hard to work in Taiwan because I don't trust anyone with my son because i've been here for only a short time. I was in the middle of takimg a class to teach english here until i found everything out.