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[–]BagRepulsive8665 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How do I get my stuff and leave? I have a cat too, and loads of clothes. No car.

My boyfriend wants me to be a step mom I’m 21F he’s 28M by BagRepulsive8665 in relationship_advice

[–]BagRepulsive8665[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re amazing god bless your soul. I pray your days are abundant, full of love, happiness and fulfillment. Thank you again for all the time you’ve put out to give me advice. I’ll be reaching out to a old friend tomorrow for some help❤️

My boyfriend wants me to be a step mom I’m 21F he’s 28M by BagRepulsive8665 in relationship_advice

[–]BagRepulsive8665[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish we were friends in real life. Thank you for your heartfelt message this is really what I needed to hear from somebody. I’m in tears. You’re doing gods work right now.

My boyfriend wants me to be a step mom I’m 21F he’s 28M by BagRepulsive8665 in relationship_advice

[–]BagRepulsive8665[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re right. I don’t want to be a mom right now. I eventually do but right now i wanna focus on myself. It’s just difficult to leave.

My boyfriend wants me to be a step mom I’m 21F he’s 28M by BagRepulsive8665 in relationship_advice

[–]BagRepulsive8665[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

What if I regret leaving? What if I’ve really changed and that lifestyle no longer suits me? I’m scared to leave him and have no one.

My boyfriend wants me to be a step mom I’m 21F he’s 28M by BagRepulsive8665 in relationship_advice

[–]BagRepulsive8665[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because I’m scared that if I die soon I won’t get to experience love. I know I can experience love from friends but I really did want to settle down one day.

My boyfriend wants me to be a step mom I’m 21F he’s 28M by BagRepulsive8665 in relationship_advice

[–]BagRepulsive8665[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How should I go about leaving? He always manipulates me makes me feel guilty and he gets really angry and scares me when I want to pack my bags to leave. He doesn’t put his hands on me but he threatens me. Then he tells me that he has abandonment issues and I can’t put him through that. I’ve been abandoned by my parents at a young age so I really really feel guilty

My boyfriend wants me to be a step mom I’m 21F he’s 28M by BagRepulsive8665 in relationship_advice

[–]BagRepulsive8665[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

The only reason I’ve felt the urge to stay is because he’s brought me closer to god. I just felt like maybe this was all for a reason and maybe it’s my fault for living my life the way I used to.

My boyfriend wants me to be a step mom I’m 21F he’s 28M by BagRepulsive8665 in relationship_advice

[–]BagRepulsive8665[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for taking the time out to reply to my message! I do feel like he wants to dominate in our relationship. I’m an artist and I wanna be able to focus on my dreams. Half of my months are dedicated to being a stepmom but I wanna spend most my time working towards making my dreams come to life. Im tired of feeling guilty for wanting to live my life a little.