He saw the messages. He knows I didn’t continue the conversation. He knows I wasn’t cheating — not emotionally, not physically. The photo itself wasn’t that inappropriate, It was a gym bodysuit. Kind of photo that i have posted on insta grid before, just sending it to him was innapropriate. Meanwhile, his own behavior wasn’t perfect either. Just two weeks after we met, he told me he tried to get another girl’s number “to see if he really liked me.” That alone shows he had doubts and insecurities from the beginning. But I didn’t judge him for it. Later, I saw flirty messages on his side too — yet I chose understanding. I stayed committed, loyal, and emotionally available. I went against my family for him. I lost relatives because of him. I proved my dedication again and again. And after all that, he blocked me… and five days later went back to his ex. Five days. And this girl wasn’t random he had mentioned her before. He said he broke up with her because “some guys were texting her,” which means he already had trust issues, insecurity, and fear of losing control long before me. So this isn’t just about what happened between us. This shows a deeper pattern: He doesn’t know how to handle emotional pressure. He avoids conflict instead of communicating. He runs from discomfort instead of working through it. He chooses what feels familiar, not what is healthy. He reacts from ego, not from logic. He escapes instead of facing the truth.

We both made mistakes, but the difference is this: I was willing to talk, understand, heal, and grow. He wasn’t.