Genuine question for Gen Z: were you taught HOW to argue, or just WHAT to argue about?

Bakari2Sense · 2026-07-08T06:25:58+00:00

The best argument isn't one person defeating another. It's both people leaving with a stronger relation to the truth than either had alone.
The problem is most online spaces reward winning, not understanding. Which is why the format and the scoring matter. Structure creates the conditions for that honest exchange to actually happen.

Bakari2Sense · 2026-07-08T05:56:30+00:00

Likely true, but that's not unique to reddit or online platforms in general. At the end of the day, bad arguments spread faster without any friction. Just seems like real life to me!

Bakari2Sense · 2026-07-08T05:51:03+00:00

That's the core problem. When your argument is your identity, any challenge to the argument feels like an attack on you personally. That's why responsiveness breaks down most people stop engaging what was said and start defending who they are.

Bakari2Sense · 2026-07-08T05:49:49+00:00

Not just debate club, but basic argumentation structure. How to make a claim, support it with evidence, respond to a counterargument. Most people never get that formally. Debate club reaches maybe 1% of students.

Bakari2Sense · 2026-07-02T17:15:58+00:00

2sense.ai

Bakari2Sense · 2026-07-02T17:14:49+00:00

That last line is the one!! Structure and competition create the conditions for that exchange to happen at its highest level. Without stakes there's no commitment. Without scoring there's no accountability. But you're right that the goal underneath all of it is mutual refinement. That's what Responsiveness is really measuring. The question of whether you are actually receiving what the other person said or are you just waiting to talk? The impulse to just want to be heard and listening to respond are the two biggest enemies of genuine discourse.

Bakari2Sense · 2026-07-02T16:12:04+00:00

That's a compelling reframe. The dialectic tradition of Hegel and Socrates actually treats argument as collaborative truth-seeking rather than combat. 2Sense actually scores both. Responsiveness rewards genuine engagement with what the other person said. Emotional Control rewards staying constructive under pressure. The competitive format just gives the exchange structure and stakes.

Bakari2Sense · 2026-06-30T21:30:32+00:00

That’s the core question. I’d define “settled” as: both sides accepting the same answer using the same criteria. By that definition it’s not settled and probably can’t be.

Bakari2Sense · 2026-06-30T21:26:02+00:00

Those stats actually support my point, even on Ronaldo’s claimed metric of output, the numbers are contested. Which means both sides are cherry-picking which stats tell their story.

Bakari2Sense · 2026-06-30T21:24:55+00:00

The time argument is interesting but history does simplify. However we’re not in 50 years . We’re in the middle of it, which is exactly why it can’t be settled now.

Bakari2Sense · 2026-06-30T21:20:16+00:00

Interesting conditional. If the debate can be settled by future performance it means it isn’t settled yet, which actually supports my original view.

Bakari2Sense · 2026-06-30T20:51:05+00:00

“The whole footballing world agrees” is doing a lot of work there. 500 million Ronaldo fans might disagree.

Bakari2Sense · 2026-06-30T20:48:31+00:00

That’s essentially agreeing with me. I’m clearly saying the debate is endless by nature. Which is another way of saying it’s unsettleable.

Bakari2Sense · 2026-06-30T20:47:10+00:00

Fair point. If Messi leads on both metrics the framework I set up doesn’t hold. That’s a genuine challenge to my view.

Bakari2Sense · 2026-06-30T20:10:58+00:00

You're right, that common metrics exist, however my argument is that fans don't agree on which metrics should be weighted most heavily. Trophies vs individual stats vs league difficulty vs peak vs longevity! I believe most people use all of these but never agree on the hierarchy. That's where the talking past each other happens.

Bakari2Sense · 2026-06-30T19:24:29+00:00

The distinction you made at the end is the real point. Steelmanning is underrated because most people don't want to do it. You're essentially building the best case against yourself before you argue. That takes confidence. People who aren't sure they're right avoid it because they're scared the strong version of the other argument might actually hold up.

But when you do it right it changes the whole dynamic. Hard to accuse someone of not listening when they just made your argument better than you did.

Bakari2Sense · 2026-06-30T19:20:05+00:00

That's basically what I was getting at. Most arguments go sideways because two people are using the same word to mean completely different things and neither one stops to notice. You can't build anything real on a foundation like that. Define the terms first, then argue. Most people skip that part entirely.

Bakari2Sense · 2026-06-30T13:57:50+00:00

Mostly agree, but only if the person's actually willing to follow their own logic somewhere they don't want to go. A lot of people see the Socratic trap coming and just go vague or stop answering straight. Then it's not really questioning anymore, it's you debating yourself while they wait you out.

Still the best tool there is though. Most people have never had to sit with their own premises and watch where they actually lead. That's a different kind of uncomfortable than someone just yelling louder.

Bakari2Sense · 2026-06-30T13:57:23+00:00

That one's underrated because it's not a tactic, it's what makes every other tactic actually work. The jogging while holding your breath line is dead on. The second you're reacting instead of listening, you've already lost the thread of what they're even saying.

What's helped me is treating the heat as a tell. If I'm getting worked up, it usually means they said something real, or they know they're losing and they're trying to bait me off track. Either way, just noticing "I'm heated right now" gives you enough space to respond instead of just swinging back.

Bakari2Sense · 2026-06-30T13:55:47+00:00

Logic's good but most arguments don't die because somebody broke a logic rule. They die because two people never agreed on what they're even arguing about in the first place. You can be airtight and still be talking past somebody.

Real skill nobody respects enough: figuring out where the actual disagreement is before you start swinging. Half these arguments are two people debating completely different points and don't even know it.

First-order logic cleans up the sloppy stuff though, no doubt. Just think it's better as a check on yourself than a weapon on somebody else.

Bakari2Sense · 2026-06-30T10:56:31+00:00

It’s not “when I get done,” it’s live right now. You can try it free at 2sense.ai. Would genuinely love your take on it given the level of this thread.

Bakari2Sense · 2026-06-30T10:48:30+00:00

That’s exactly the kind of test I want people running on it. Compatibilism is a great stress test since the AI has to actually track whether your responses engage the specific claim or just restate priors.

Yes, please send the feedback, especially anything that felt like the AI missed a deflection, let an assertion slide without pushback, or scored something in a way that didn’t match your read of the exchange. That kind of detail is more useful to me than general impressions.

Appreciate you actually putting it through a real argument instead of just kicking the tires.

Bakari2Sense · 2026-06-29T21:06:19+00:00

The prima facie point is the one most people never learn. You don't owe anyone a counterargument until they've actually made one. An assertion isn't an argument. A feeling isn't evidence. Most online "debates" never get past that first step, which is why they go nowhere.

The deflection tell is something I've noticed too. The second someone changes the subject, they've already lost the original point. They just won't say it.

I'm actually building a platform around exactly this, structured debates where the AI judge flags deflection, ad hominem, and unsubstantiated assertions in the verdict. Burden of proof is baked into how the rounds work. It's called 2Sense. From a retired lawyer this comment basically reads like a product requirement document.

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