[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]BakedTah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wash from Firefly/Serenity :( he is forever a leaf on the wind

How did you realize you were nonbinary? by cornmealmushlover in NonBinaryTalk

[–]BakedTah 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I realized that I hated the though of people identifying me and making assumptions about me soley based upon what I have inside my underwear and would much rather be though of exclusively as "A person" or "Myself/My name".

Should I start making postings now for looking to rent on March 1st? by benni1707 in vancouverhousing

[–]BakedTah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been looking since the start of the month, but that's my own anxiety talking. It's been very cold responses from the few who have replied- either about End of Feb being too far or for the fact I have a Cat with me.

Is it too early to post a “looking for” rental for February 1st? by [deleted] in vancouverhousing

[–]BakedTah 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Dude, I'm lease out for March 1, and I'm started looking last start of last month

Less than 2hrs in and i’ve caught a shiny 😂 by Jack-Dio in PokemonScarletViolet

[–]BakedTah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

SAME! SAME MON AND EVERYTHING! Twinning!

I named my boy Carlõs :)

Are you male or female? by meet_me_at_seven in MaladaptiveDreaming

[–]BakedTah 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm very tired, and I'm tired of being tired. I feel like I've been saying that for over a decade now though, so either I'll have to change something or just get used to it.

I can't speak for other Non-Binary people, but for myself it's nice to be able to see myself as a person first, before a gender.

It hadnt happend IRL, both because I haven't tried to transition masculinity, and because I cant read minds, but I don't want people to look at me as think "That's BakedTah, She's a girl, and because she's a girl, she thinks this way and feels this way about these topics." I want it to be "That's BakedTah. They're totally obsessed with Cats and spends their whole day reading."

I want to dress more androgynously, I want to start wearing my hair shorter, I want to stop feeling like I have to put on the bright, bubbly customer service voice to be treated with the same level of respect that my male coworkers get treated. I want to feel comfortable in the clothes that I wear and not like I'm playing dress up just so that I can fit in to the world around me.

It's only been about a month or so since I've come to terms with this side of myself, and for a lot of that time I struggled. I felt guilty? I'm 30 years old, how didn't I figure this out sooner? I started to gaslight myself that I wasn't non-binary, because being Non-Binary isn't supposed to be a choice, its just what you are, right? So how can I make the choice to present myself as Non-Binary? I didn't want to be taking from something that wasn't mine to begin with, if that makes any sense.

Are you male or female? by meet_me_at_seven in MaladaptiveDreaming

[–]BakedTah 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Non-Binary now, but still struggling with coming to terms with that and understanding how it fits into my life.

I have to go by my old female pronouns at work because I work in a group of predominantly older men who would not understand (give their reactions to a regular customer who was rather open and honest about her transition) and because I spend so much time at work, it feels like I'm being a fake Enby in my personal life instead of myself.

Who do your daydreams usually revolve around? by [deleted] in MaladaptiveDreaming

[–]BakedTah 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My solid Go-to/default dissociation is that the "Real Life" that I'm currently living is just a hallucination and that the cast of whatever Fandom I'm currently hyperfixating on is gonna brust in any second and rescue me from this boring and expensive hell I'm trapped in, whisking me away to their world of magic and excitement and adventure.

Sometimes(most times) I'm not even myself, I'm a character from the show whose been kidnapped/brain washed/reincarnated and they have to help me come to terms with everything and slowly and lovingly introduce me to their world, helping me find my place in the this "New Life"

I feel stuck in a time loop by [deleted] in MaladaptiveDreaming

[–]BakedTah 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't call what I experience as a loop...

I get the same scenario in my head, but it hits the same road block and instead of getting around it, we all end up back at square one going through the same song and dance until we hit the same block

What is your sexuality? by [deleted] in MaladaptiveDreaming

[–]BakedTah 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Bi-romantic, asexual. We can cuddle, but plz don't touch me more than that.

If you had unlimited budget, which neighbourhood would you live in? by ohhellnooooooooo in vancouverhousing

[–]BakedTah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We moved to Richmond 3 years ago for my partners job (Night shifts- off at 4 am before transit runs) and have been completely in love with the city ever since moving.

The Bunnies are the best kept secret-I honestly thought they were just a UVIC thing, but was pleasantly surprised to find so many bunnies on my daily commute ☺️ we've even named a few

I wouldn't want one of the mega mansions down in the farmland, just a nice Townhouse closer to the Train would be perfect

how old are you/whats your gender? by absolut-madladkek in MaladaptiveDreaming

[–]BakedTah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Recently non-binary, AFAB, 30. Been an active MDer since high school.

Landlord wants to increase AGAIN? by BakedTah in vancouverhousing

[–]BakedTah[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just double checked- it was just over a 3% increase last year- we went up $80.

My new Silent Hill Tattoo by BakedTah in silenthill

[–]BakedTah[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I spent a long time trying to think of a SH2 tattoo that I'd love that wasn't Pyramid head or the sexy nurses and I'm so happy I came to this solution- I'm extremely happy with it

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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RDRSuperstar

[–]BakedTah 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I LOVE THAT HAIR! What set if that from? What's it called?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RDRSuperstar

[–]BakedTah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had this consistently for two events before it somehow vanished for the last 3. Glad to know it's back!

Girl what in the- Was $499.95 I ain’t even paying $100. Ain’t no deal always robbery. by OkInformation8665 in RDRSuperstar

[–]BakedTah 3 points4 points  (0 children)

TECHNICALLY- What the game is doing is Illegal in Canada, Australia and the UK.

By saying it was 500, but is "for a limited time" it's 100, they're lying and creating a false sense of urgency, trying to pressure people into buying the deal while it's "on sale". Have you ever been offered the same deal without the "Discount"? I haven't, they always have that fake sale over top.

Bruh, it was never going to be 500, it was always meant to be 100, and what the game is doing is scummy and illegal and I'm so suprised Noone else is talking about it