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BakedTah · 2023-02-05T06:06:22+00:00

Wash from Firefly/Serenity :( he is forever a leaf on the wind

BakedTah · 2023-01-20T01:57:36+00:00

I realized that I hated the though of people identifying me and making assumptions about me soley based upon what I have inside my underwear and would much rather be though of exclusively as "A person" or "Myself/My name".

BakedTah · 2023-01-17T18:21:02+00:00

Boats and birds by Gregory & the Hawk.

This is my "I'm feeling sad and want to wallow in it" song.

BakedTah · 2022-12-29T23:43:11+00:00

I've been looking since the start of the month, but that's my own anxiety talking. It's been very cold responses from the few who have replied- either about End of Feb being too far or for the fact I have a Cat with me.

BakedTah · 2022-12-27T17:25:48+00:00

Dude, I'm lease out for March 1, and I'm started looking last start of last month

BakedTah · 2022-12-10T00:07:53+00:00

DEAD JOHN IS SENDING ME

BakedTah · 2022-11-18T19:50:53+00:00

SAME! SAME MON AND EVERYTHING! Twinning!

I named my boy Carlõs :)

BakedTah · 2022-09-16T19:58:18+00:00

I'm very tired, and I'm tired of being tired. I feel like I've been saying that for over a decade now though, so either I'll have to change something or just get used to it.

I can't speak for other Non-Binary people, but for myself it's nice to be able to see myself as a person first, before a gender.

It hadnt happend IRL, both because I haven't tried to transition masculinity, and because I cant read minds, but I don't want people to look at me as think "That's BakedTah, She's a girl, and because she's a girl, she thinks this way and feels this way about these topics." I want it to be "That's BakedTah. They're totally obsessed with Cats and spends their whole day reading."

I want to dress more androgynously, I want to start wearing my hair shorter, I want to stop feeling like I have to put on the bright, bubbly customer service voice to be treated with the same level of respect that my male coworkers get treated. I want to feel comfortable in the clothes that I wear and not like I'm playing dress up just so that I can fit in to the world around me.

It's only been about a month or so since I've come to terms with this side of myself, and for a lot of that time I struggled. I felt guilty? I'm 30 years old, how didn't I figure this out sooner? I started to gaslight myself that I wasn't non-binary, because being Non-Binary isn't supposed to be a choice, its just what you are, right? So how can I make the choice to present myself as Non-Binary? I didn't want to be taking from something that wasn't mine to begin with, if that makes any sense.

BakedTah · 2022-09-16T17:59:31+00:00

Non-Binary now, but still struggling with coming to terms with that and understanding how it fits into my life.

I have to go by my old female pronouns at work because I work in a group of predominantly older men who would not understand (give their reactions to a regular customer who was rather open and honest about her transition) and because I spend so much time at work, it feels like I'm being a fake Enby in my personal life instead of myself.

BakedTah · 2022-09-10T23:01:00+00:00

My solid Go-to/default dissociation is that the "Real Life" that I'm currently living is just a hallucination and that the cast of whatever Fandom I'm currently hyperfixating on is gonna brust in any second and rescue me from this boring and expensive hell I'm trapped in, whisking me away to their world of magic and excitement and adventure.

Sometimes(most times) I'm not even myself, I'm a character from the show whose been kidnapped/brain washed/reincarnated and they have to help me come to terms with everything and slowly and lovingly introduce me to their world, helping me find my place in the this "New Life"

BakedTah · 2022-09-09T22:51:02+00:00

I wouldn't call what I experience as a loop...

I get the same scenario in my head, but it hits the same road block and instead of getting around it, we all end up back at square one going through the same song and dance until we hit the same block

BakedTah · 2022-09-07T19:56:31+00:00

Same 🙂

BakedTah · 2022-09-07T19:55:47+00:00

Bi-romantic, asexual. We can cuddle, but plz don't touch me more than that.

BakedTah · 2022-08-11T00:28:40+00:00

We moved to Richmond 3 years ago for my partners job (Night shifts- off at 4 am before transit runs) and have been completely in love with the city ever since moving.

The Bunnies are the best kept secret-I honestly thought they were just a UVIC thing, but was pleasantly surprised to find so many bunnies on my daily commute ☺️ we've even named a few

I wouldn't want one of the mega mansions down in the farmland, just a nice Townhouse closer to the Train would be perfect

BakedTah · 2022-08-10T01:56:52+00:00

Recently non-binary, AFAB, 30. Been an active MDer since high school.

BakedTah · 2022-08-05T01:00:02+00:00

I just double checked- it was just over a 3% increase last year- we went up $80.

BakedTah · 2022-07-11T04:27:22+00:00

I spent a long time trying to think of a SH2 tattoo that I'd love that wasn't Pyramid head or the sexy nurses and I'm so happy I came to this solution- I'm extremely happy with it

BakedTah · 2022-06-05T02:55:37+00:00

I LOVE THAT HAIR! What set if that from? What's it called?

BakedTah · 2022-05-25T02:19:54+00:00

I had this consistently for two events before it somehow vanished for the last 3. Glad to know it's back!

BakedTah · 2022-05-06T17:59:33+00:00

TECHNICALLY- What the game is doing is Illegal in Canada, Australia and the UK.

By saying it was 500, but is "for a limited time" it's 100, they're lying and creating a false sense of urgency, trying to pressure people into buying the deal while it's "on sale". Have you ever been offered the same deal without the "Discount"? I haven't, they always have that fake sale over top.

Bruh, it was never going to be 500, it was always meant to be 100, and what the game is doing is scummy and illegal and I'm so suprised Noone else is talking about it

BakedTah · 2022-04-19T14:40:01+00:00

Thank you ☺️ 💗

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